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Is escorting right or wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting offered cash for sex here so many times always I might add with a fuck off reply now find myself redundant and no money at all to pay rent etc is it easy money or just morally wrong??

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

It’s wrong if it’s on fab as it’s against the rules but if your fine with selling yourself for money to pay the bills to survive then that’s ok you do what you need to do in this life to survive me personally I don’t think I could but I’ve never been in a position where I’ve had no money or job

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By *JD07Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

Ur not charging them for ur time, they are offering so I don’t c a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really great to work in a job you truly enjoy and are good at. So if someone decides to be an escort and is not forced into it by anyone else, I have absolutely no problem with it.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I don’t personally agree with sex work because you can’t get rid of the patriarchy in the bedroom, and I feel being paid for sex by a man is a form of oppression.

But you do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's surprisingly easy money and can be very lucrative but it all depends on how it makes you feel after

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By *illiam101000Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

I've no problems with people who escort or sex work whatsoever. So long as everyone is upfront about expectations from both sides and the worker isn't forced or coerced into anything and is doing it for there own perposes. Had a female friend who did occasional escorting to suit herself. Had an agency and when wanted some work just contacted them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it poeople use there body to get an edge all the time in this world why should that stop at money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it in the past and can honestly say i didn't have any bad experiences and actually really enjoyed it and have made some great friends, i did lose alot of friends over it tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done it in the past and can honestly say i didn't have any bad experiences and actually really enjoyed it and have made some great friends, i did lose alot of friends over it tho x"

Those friends you lost? Probably weren’t worth having anyways. Everyone has their own personal moral code, hate hate hate it when they try to impose it on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with It, if it's your own personal choice, and if you'd enjoy it

Depends on how it makes you feel after the event.

I'd give it a crack, if I thought it would help financially, or even if people would entertain paying me.

Tbh atm I'd settle for the bus fare home.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I really dont understand why guys try to offer to pay women for sex on here when there is a high chance of getting told to do one.

When they could just go to the hundreds of sites that do offer those services and can take their pick from a huge selection of people.

However as someone said its not wrong if thats what you have to do to get by but just dont do it on this site as its against the rules.

I paid for a escort once many years ago and was my first and last time as afterwards i felt rubbish and guilty and knew in my soul that it was wrong for me and not somthing i want to repeat.

But i have had a meet with an escort (from here as there is many) but without any payment which was also an awful experience because they are so use to being paid for their time that they made me feel like they was doing me a favour and i should be greatfull as they could be with a guy that was willing to pay them for their time.

So if you do decide to go into escorting i really hope it doesnt ruin your sex for you because once you're getting use to being paid for it on a regular basis, when it comes to meeting people and having sex without any payment just dont get into the mindset of i could be getting paid for this and making the person your with feel inferior and should be forever greatful that your doing them a favour.

Good luck in what ever you do hope it all works out.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

For me, with my wealth of work experience and qualifications, if my only recourse was to sell my body for money to survive, I wouldn't think life would be worth living.

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr

It's not wrong. It's just not something anyone should be pressued into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s really great to work in a job you truly enjoy and are good at. So if someone decides to be an escort and is not forced into it by anyone else, I have absolutely no problem with it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with it poeople use there body to get an edge all the time in this world why should that stop at money"

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Why would it be wrong... absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as the people aren't being forced or coerced to do it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If two people willingly go into an agreement for a paid-for service I can't see that it's anybody else's business to say they shouldn't.

It shouldn't happen on this site though. That's not what it's for. There are other sites for that.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"I don’t personally agree with sex work because you can’t get rid of the patriarchy in the bedroom, and I feel being paid for sex by a man is a form of oppression.

But you do you."

I honestly feel the opposite.

If you're so gorgeous that a guy will happily buy your time that has to be empowering.

Can't really stand by ideas of a patriarchy when all it takes is a booty shake and they crumble lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done it in the past and can honestly say i didn't have any bad experiences and actually really enjoyed it and have made some great friends, i did lose alot of friends over it tho x"

I'd have no problem paying for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing wrong with escorting... Is that it's forced to be done on an underworld way which makes it dangerous for the girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it myself because I would not enjoy the sex, as it would be like a chore and I would quite likely be fucking someone I didn't fancy. X

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

Go for it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a NIMBY thing, isn't it? Nobody really minds it on moral grounds but most don't really want strange men pulling up at the house next door at all hours either.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Getting offered cash for sex here so many times always I might add with a fuck off reply now find myself redundant and no money at all to pay rent etc is it easy money or just morally wrong??"

No right or wrong.

Just whatever works for you.

There is a market out there.

Just set your rules beforehand and stick to them.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Everybody is free to make their own choice. Got nothing to do with anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a bit of escorting and don’t see anything wrong with it, in fact I enjoy it. Just need to be safe and keep clear of anything that feels dodgy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Getting offered cash for sex here so many times always I might add with a fuck off reply now find myself redundant and no money at all to pay rent etc is it easy money or just morally wrong??"

It's not morally wrong but it is against FAB rules to use the site in that way

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Getting offered cash for sex here so many times always I might add with a fuck off reply now find myself redundant and no money at all to pay rent etc is it easy money or just morally wrong??

It's not morally wrong but it is against FAB rules to use the site in that way"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur not charging them for ur time, they are offering so I don’t c a problem"

Don't be so naive

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