FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

When you go out and get recognised

Jump to newest
 

By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Bloody hell

Not one but two fab recognitions this evening.

Quite strange.

Odd but nice.

Let's see

Jo x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a fan

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a fabber at the local refuse tip the other day. Instantly recognised her from a very distinctive tattoo plus a few other things. Just smiled to myself and minded my own business.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a fabber at the local refuse tip the other day. Instantly recognised her from a very distinctive tattoo plus a few other things. Just smiled to myself and minded my own business."

This is definitely the best way, seeing fellow fabbers out and about is impossible to avoid but discretion should be automatic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a problem.

I could walk bolluck naked down the high street with a rose between the cheeks of my asre and no one would recognise me....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would freak the fuck outta me..!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been recognised out and about at least not that I know of

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it lol "

don't show your face then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikeitCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

I was helping out behind the bar at the attic and served this female she kept looking and whispering to her freind I thought I know her so i said i know u she said i do u we went to school toghter and hung around yrs ago x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

It's happened twice both when I've been working , I'm a delivery driver so it's bound to happen we just said hi and moved on as someone has already said weird but nice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We occasionally get recognized, and when it's just the two of us, we're happy to be approached too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Been recognised a couple of times and spotted others. Either exchanged a knowing smile or just smiled to myself and carry on with my day.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me but i dont think id be happy about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Bumped into one of my playmates in Sainsbury's, just acknowledged each other with a slight nod then continued with our shop...no big deal or drama.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell

Not one but two fab recognitions this evening.

Quite strange.

Odd but nice.

Let's see

Jo x"

I was just thinking about this and came to the forum and wam, its the first topic out. I would love it if there was a secret handshake for fabbers to give each other or a wink. Lol. I am crap at remembering faces, thats the problem. In my job i meet soooo many people i cant remember anything. Would be awesome if someone did recognise me and gave a discreet wink I think.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iking.beardMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If they come upto like a giggy puppy and say they know you from here and you don't like it just play it cool ask there fab name then when home or around the corner on your phone just block them for been a div with no discretion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had it a few times, or rather Naughty has, someone sent her a message saying that he’s worked out where she works, that was creepy, a bus driver late at night forced her to exit via the front doors so that he could chat her up, that was creepy, and one Halloween someone messaged to say he was a few spaces down in the queue, and again creepy.

I think if people recognise you, they should keep it private, much as Fab is a private thing.

We also have it when we go to parties and clubs, our photo collection used to be very bold and people started assuming they knew us without ever having actually spoken to us. It was all very overwhelming at times.

As with everything to do with swinging, it’s about respect, if people are out in public, respect that, if people are popular on Fab, respect that they are humans too.

Respect respect respect x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

These were guys we had been speaking to, not just randoms, so yes it was ok.

I agree, just to be recognised after no contact or because of some kind of stalker type thing would be odd.

Jo x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top