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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish no women wore bras, then it would be normal and men wouldn’t be so freakishly obsessed with a woman when she isn’t wearing a bra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me when I go out with no bra on I’m not doing it for anyone else’s benefit except my own comfort, sorry to burst your bubble

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s so common no I don’t think people really stare to much anymore , I wa s just wondering if it was more comfortable and how women feel about it really lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish no women wore bras, then it would be normal and men wouldn’t be so freakishly obsessed with a woman when she isn’t wearing a bra"

Yeah.

Well, except tit bounce hurts.

99% of the time, what I'm wearing or not wearing has nothing to do with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s so common no I don’t think people really stare to much anymore , I wa s just wondering if it was more comfortable and how women feel about it really lol"

That’s how I feel

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I don't wear bras but that's my preference and not for anyone else.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v"

Why don’t you ask the women you see doing it OP?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v

Why don’t you ask the women you see doing it OP? "

Oh my.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v

Why don’t you ask the women you see doing it OP? "

He’ll get slapped with a titty

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Bras are fucking awful, that’s why.

Please don’t stare. My breasts don’t exist for your pleasure.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Hardly ever where a bra in Spain but then again hardly ever where anything there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bras are fucking awful, that’s why.

Please don’t stare. My breasts don’t exist for your pleasure."

Too late love I already bashed one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Bras are fucking awful, that’s why.

Please don’t stare. My breasts don’t exist for your pleasure."

My breasts mostly exist to piss me off.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Nobody should notice under a baggy jumper etc

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Nobody should notice under a baggy jumper etc"

I'm not going to wear a baggy jumper every time I don't wear a bra. Anyhoo, even with a baggy jumper it would be obvious from the swing factor for mine.

As the weather gets warmer I prefer to wear a bra as it helps prevent sweaty under-boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind if it’s for attention or comfort but I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want warm knees when out....bra stays on

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love going out with no bra on, it feels natural and I like it.

Jo.Xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t go out without it on but I sometimes loose it during the night as I’ve had enough of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t go out without it on but I sometimes loose it during the night as I’ve had enough of it "

Think folk would know if you had none

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By *ottyNStripes30Couple
over a year ago

Oakham

I'd sure get some looks.

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I don’t go out without a bra on, the grazes off the pavement on my nipples hurts lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I don’t go out without it on but I sometimes loose it during the night as I’ve had enough of it

Think folk would know if you had none "

Haha they hold their own quite well, just best not dance to vigorously

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If I’m going out on the town I never wear one tbh

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Nobody should notice under a baggy jumper etc"

Alternatively guys could just not look and be creepy... then women could wear what they want!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

My tits are too big to go without scaffolding!

I do occasionaly answer the door bra-free in a t-shirt

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Wearing a bra is not an option for me...if I don't want to topple forward!

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'll often wear vest tops with no bra

Depends on the outfit and my mood for comfort.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Wearing a bra is not an option for me...if I don't want to topple forward!"

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Definitely not an option. Would love to be able to go braless tho.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Definitely not an option. Would love to be able to go braless tho."

Same here

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

Alternatively guys could just not look and be creepy... then women could wear what they want!"

It's like passing a car crash.. people don't want to look but just can't help it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Alternatively guys could just not look and be creepy... then women could wear what they want!

It's like passing a car crash.. people don't want to look but just can't help it.."

Yes they can. Quite easily

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Oh gosh. I did this entirely by accident at the last Manc social. I felt like a complete dingbat! Yes. Yes. My boobs really are that saggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

No

No

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

As a man I think there is nothing nicer than a pair of bra less nipples protruding through a white vest top one size to small

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

People have always fretted about what other people wear..

In medieval times there was a law passed to prevent pointy shoes being too long.. remember punk rockers and even modern day religious garments cause a stir for some people..

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I have really tiny breasts. If I wear a plunge top/ dress, wearing a bra looks ridiculous as it gapes!

Much more comfortable not wearing those stupid things!

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


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It's like passing a car crash.. people don't want to look but just can't help it.."

That's funny! I'm straight and still can't help looking at a nice pair of tits.

I don't mind people looking. It's just an appreciation of the human form

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

Alternatively guys could just not look and be creepy... then women could wear what they want!

It's like passing a car crash.. people don't want to look but just can't help it..

Yes they can. Quite easily "

I occasionally look, realise what I'm doing, and immediately stop. The recipient of the look is rarely aware because it's seconds.

Those who go on about not being able to help it rarely stop at a few inadvertent seconds. And should practice not being creepy.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London


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It's like passing a car crash.. people don't want to look but just can't help it..

That's funny! I'm straight and still can't help looking at a nice pair of tits.

I don't mind people looking. It's just an appreciation of the human form "

Exactly

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I tend to dress conservatively and get few looks.. if any..

It works for me because I don't want the attention in daily life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife is walking with a neighbour bra less as I type, but she has a firm gym vest on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I tend to dress conservatively and get few looks.. if any..

It works for me because I don't want the attention in daily life...

"

It also works for you because you're male. I haven't worn a skirt that hits above the knee this century.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me when I go out with no bra on I’m not doing it for anyone else’s benefit except my own comfort, sorry to burst your bubble "

Same

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

It also works for you because you're male. I haven't worn a skirt that hits above the knee this century. "

That's a whole new debate. For me the sexiest skirt is a pencil skirt and that is not very short..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've gone out in loose dresses that barely show my collarbone and go below the knee and been explicitly sexualised (you'd be prettier if you smiled/ love to lift that skirt up blah blah).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


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It also works for you because you're male. I haven't worn a skirt that hits above the knee this century.

That's a whole new debate. For me the sexiest skirt is a pencil skirt and that is not very short.. "

I mostly wear swing or circle dresses. Which are loose.

Men rarely if ever get the kind of attention/ harassment that women do. Modesty is not a big factor here.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I am a great believer that if you don't want attention then don't dress for attention or go to places where you will get that attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going out with no bra!?? No chance!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I am a great believer that if you don't want attention then don't dress for attention or go to places where you will get that attention "

You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bras are fucking awful, that’s why.

Please don’t stare. My breasts don’t exist for your pleasure.

Too late love I already bashed one "

Bhahahah

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


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You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong. "

Could you possibly be giving out the wrong signals.. ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong.

Could you possibly be giving out the wrong signals.. ?"

Hmm. Clothing up to and including extremely baggy, up to and including covered from neck to wrist to ankles and everything in between. Not looking at people, certainly not flirting, occasionally it's happened when I've been obviously in pain (and it's been obvious from context why).

I'm going to go with... no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a great believer that if you don't want attention then don't dress for attention or go to places where you will get that attention "

Are you for real?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This just in. Men and women experience the world differently, and occasionally, just occasionally (like almost always) men harassing women isn't women's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a great believer that if you don't want attention then don't dress for attention or go to places where you will get that attention

Are you for real? "

Are yours real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d knock myself out and cause mayhem lol

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I am a great believer that if you don't want attention then don't dress for attention or go to places where you will get that attention

Are you for real? "

Definitely..it has worked all of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t go braless, if I turned around too quickly I’d know folk out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

"

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v"

Why don't you wear a bra going out?

Last I've checked it wasn't compulsory for women to wear one.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m loving all the victim blaming on this thread

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young "

Many women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do. "

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do.

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing... "

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do.

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable. "

Tougher punishment would teach them.

It should never happen to anyone just going about in their day to day life. Any kind of harassment is unnaceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t dream of going out without my bra on, simply because it wouldn’t feel right to me and I have to hoist the old boys up!

Having said that there was someone I knew and she had the biggest boobs I have ever seen and always wore a polo top, with no bra. I mean kudos to her for having the balls to give no fucks but when it’s that bloody obvious and her nipples were basically dragging on the floor it was hard to not look, maybe I should take a leaf out of her book and not worry but then I heard the comments others would give her and if rather go out uncomfortable then be stared at for being ‘different’.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do.

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable.

Tougher punishment would teach them.

It should never happen to anyone just going about in their day to day life. Any kind of harassment is unnaceptable.

"

You’re right. Any kind of harassment IS unacceptable.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do.

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable.

Tougher punishment would teach them.

It should never happen to anyone just going about in their day to day life. Any kind of harassment is unnaceptable.

"

Or we can stop it happening in the first place.

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I couldn’t go out with no bra. I’d be in pain and I’d take someone’s eye out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently seen a lot of women walking about with no bras on? Is it cause they like the attention of people seeing or is it just a nicer feeling without one feeling ya tits swinging about v"

I couldn't do that cos I'd keep tripping over them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pert breasts with some nipples peeking through a white tee, ridiculously hot

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable. "

Only men and boys ?

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By *iltshiregentMan
over a year ago

Calne

But men are biologically programmed to observe breasts. It's a fundamental part of human evolution.

Being caught doing so is horrible, unless the man is a lecherous knuckle-dragger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when I was sexually harassed aged 14 in my very conservative school uniform by a group of builders it was my fault for the way I dressed? I don't think so!

That's sounds like a terrible incident for you to go through being so young

Many women do.

It's a shame this happens. Tougher punishment for people who do this kind of thing...

Or teaching boys and men that it's unacceptable.

Tougher punishment would teach them.

It should never happen to anyone just going about in their day to day life. Any kind of harassment is unnaceptable.

Or we can stop it happening in the first place. "

Yes we can but not everyone is the same.

We live in a first world country but some of the behaviour from people is worse than lesser nations.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

We live in a first world country but some of the behaviour from people is worse than lesser nations. "

Lesser Nations ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong.

Could you possibly be giving out the wrong signals.. ?"

Are you reading what you write before pressing 'post message'?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"

You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong.

Could you possibly be giving out the wrong signals.. ?

Are you reading what you write before pressing 'post message'? "

Never, it's my stream of consciousness style..

One thought though.. just because a person is convinced that every man is eyeing them up,does not mean it's true. They could be looking for a variety of reasons such as their aweful dress sense etc.

Not necessarily because their nipples are poking out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You may be, but unfortunately my life to date being female in public, minding my own business, in all manner of clothing, suggests that you're wrong.

Could you possibly be giving out the wrong signals.. ?

Are you reading what you write before pressing 'post message'?

Never, it's my stream of consciousness style..

One thought though.. just because a person is convinced that every man is eyeing them up,does not mean it's true. They could be looking for a variety of reasons such as their aweful dress sense etc.

Not necessarily because their nipples are poking out...

"

Dear lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have I walked into??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We live in a first world country but some of the behaviour from people is worse than lesser nations.

Lesser Nations ?"

Most nations are don't ya think.

Yet in terms of morals are superior to us. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On occasion I have gone without but that is usually due to the outfit that I am wearing

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