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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever chat to people and forget their name, but you keep them talking so you can get clues to what it might be, if you keep calling a women mate they get suspicious and narrow their eyes. Or you keep them talking till someone else comes over and says their name, once they do you can keep slipping their name in every sentence ?

One tip is if you don’t know a woman’s name call her Claire, 90% of the time you will be right. If however they aren’t called Claire, say sorry I thought you prefer people using your middle name, if their middle name isn’t Claire either, say you must dash Claire as I’ve got to do the Big Shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what notes are for OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alright trigg

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ok Dave

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bruce and Sheila. Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s what notes are for OP "

I was thinking more in real life, here I can message someone else and ask what is so and so called again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever chat to people and forget their name, but you keep them talking so you can get clues to what it might be, if you keep calling a women mate they get suspicious and narrow their eyes. Or you keep them talking till someone else comes over and says their name, once they do you can keep slipping their name in every sentence ?

One tip is if you don’t know a woman’s name call her Claire, 90% of the time you will be right. If however they aren’t called Claire, say sorry I thought you prefer people using your middle name, if their middle name isn’t Claire either, say you must dash Claire as I’ve got to do the Big Shop! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgetting their name is the least of my worries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forgetting their name is the least of my worries "

What’s the first, Brexit ?!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"That’s what notes are for OP "

I think he means in a face to face situation so would look a bit odd whipping out your notebook . . . I'm terrible for it, I just apologise for having the memory of a goldfish with alzheimer's and ask their name again. Had to ask the same person twice last night. Worth it though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever chat to people and forget their name, but you keep them talking so you can get clues to what it might be, if you keep calling a women mate they get suspicious and narrow their eyes. Or you keep them talking till someone else comes over and says their name, once they do you can keep slipping their name in every sentence ?

One tip is if you don’t know a woman’s name call her Claire, 90% of the time you will be right. If however they aren’t called Claire, say sorry I thought you prefer people using your middle name, if their middle name isn’t Claire either, say you must dash Claire as I’ve got to do the Big Shop! "
I get round this by going through their bag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s what notes are for OP

I think he means in a face to face situation so would look a bit odd whipping out your notebook . . . I'm terrible for it, I just apologise for having the memory of a goldfish with alzheimer's and ask their name again. Had to ask the same person twice last night. Worth it though.. "

When it’s your partner it get’s embarrassing to ask them again.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Do you ever chat to people and forget their name, but you keep them talking so you can get clues to what it might be, if you keep calling a women mate they get suspicious and narrow their eyes. Or you keep them talking till someone else comes over and says their name, once they do you can keep slipping their name in every sentence ?

One tip is if you don’t know a woman’s name call her Claire, 90% of the time you will be right. If however they aren’t called Claire, say sorry I thought you prefer people using your middle name, if their middle name isn’t Claire either, say you must dash Claire as I’ve got to do the Big Shop! I get round this by going through their bag."

Or through their phone when they’re out of the room

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Start using their name James. Use it a lot when you first meet 'em. It'll stick eventually James and you'll sound either really weird or like you really are interested in what they are talking about, if that makes sense James?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"That’s what notes are for OP

I think he means in a face to face situation so would look a bit odd whipping out your notebook . . . I'm terrible for it, I just apologise for having the memory of a goldfish with alzheimer's and ask their name again. Had to ask the same person twice last night. Worth it though..

When it’s your partner it get’s embarrassing to ask them again."

That's why they get generic nicknames.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start using their name James. Use it a lot when you first meet 'em. It'll stick eventually James and you'll sound either really weird or like you really are interested in what they are talking about, if that makes sense James? "

*Checks notes to see what this woman is called*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start using their name James. Use it a lot when you first meet 'em. It'll stick eventually James and you'll sound either really weird or like you really are interested in what they are talking about, if that makes sense James? "

That’s how I do it. The other thing that helps me is feeling the embarrassment of asking their name again when I have completely forgotten it only a short time after introducing ourselves to each other. The emotion usually helps it to stick for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even worse when you speak to someone for ages and realise you're related!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgetting their name is the least of my worries

What’s the first, Brexit ?!"

Forgetting i had a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forgetting their name is the least of my worries

What’s the first, Brexit ?!

Forgetting i had a meet "
m

Is he still stood outside Greggs now with a bunch of flowers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s what notes are for OP

I think he means in a face to face situation so would look a bit odd whipping out your notebook . . . I'm terrible for it, I just apologise for having the memory of a goldfish with alzheimer's and ask their name again. Had to ask the same person twice last night. Worth it though.. "

I gathered that.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I am shocking with names. Someone can give me a name and by the time they’ve said two more words it’s gone! I don’t know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am shocking with names. Someone can give me a name and by the time they’ve said two more words it’s gone! I don’t know why. "

Usually because you’re too busy ogling their bum

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I'm useless at remembering names especially when you met them on a night out or meet a group of people,

Has anyone seen Micky Flanagan when he mentions it,

Homeowner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm useless at remembering names especially when you met them on a night out or meet a group of people,

Has anyone seen Micky Flanagan when he mentions it,

Homeowner "

Yeah, classic

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I am shocking with names. Someone can give me a name and by the time they’ve said two more words it’s gone! I don’t know why.

Usually because you’re too busy ogling their bum "

Then they should try to distract me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm useless at remembering names especially when you met them on a night out or meet a group of people,

Has anyone seen Micky Flanagan when he mentions it,

Homeowner "

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Here is a tip for remembering names

When you meet someone and find out their name imagine a symbol above their head that will relate to the name when you see them again.

For example I met a man and to remember his name I saw a shovel above his head to remind me his name is Doug.

Also a woman who above her head I placed a water melon on a leg.

Her name is Melanie.

See how it goes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forget the names of people I've known for years.

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