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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no secrets whatsoever between me and my husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its human nature. Open couples aren't always as open and exclusive couples aren't always exclusive!!

This has been my experience from being on here for many years.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Nope, no secrets whatsoever between me and my husband "

You’ve told him about us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, no secrets whatsoever between me and my husband

You’ve told him about us? "

He’s very supportive x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Nope, no secrets whatsoever between me and my husband

You’ve told him about us?

He’s very supportive x"

And obviously not easily shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the married "single" men on here have one huuuuuuge secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

"

Is one of you cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a secret lemonade drinker (r-whites)

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

No secrets with us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You never know if other people have a secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people have secrets, not all but most

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Of course, couples can have secrets. The issue is the nature of the secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, couples can have secrets. The issue is the nature of the secret. "

I agree

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham


"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao "

Sometimes you have to give yourself a bit of "me" time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have secrets im just honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be somebody’s secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao "

Hahahahahaha

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao

Sometimes you have to give yourself a bit of "me" time"

Exactly that

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I had secret from my husband for 2 years...my work hours changed and I finished an hour earlier than he thought I did. I used to go to a mates house for a cuppa or park up near the beach or somewhere and read a book. Lmao

Hahahahahaha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a secret.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Is one of you cheating?"

No, not cheating.

Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has secrets

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

"

Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub.. "

Whoops, sorry

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Damn it... I thought the post was about Secrets the nightclub..

Whoops, sorry "

No trouble... my mistake..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t have any. We know each others passwords for stuff. My finger print unlocks his phone and visa versa...it’s always the best way, cards on the table nothingbheld back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am USELESS at keeping secrets

Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.

Mrs P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am USELESS at keeping secrets

Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.

Mrs P"

Lol, same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am USELESS at keeping secrets

Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.

Mrs P

Lol, same x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am USELESS at keeping secrets

Even down to if I’ve snuck some biscuits and I’m meant to be trying to be good. I end up telling Mr P.

Mrs P

Lol, same x

"

It’s not really keeping secrets, just not thinking to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have many secrets but i do work for mi5 tho

Bollox did i say that loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secrets... is just another way to pass off dishonesty..

Open and honest for me..i appreciate its not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Is one of you cheating?

No, not cheating.

Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here."

Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Is one of you cheating?

No, not cheating.

Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here.

Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues."

It’s not all totally related to swinging to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people always need to have something secret for themselves, even when as a couple you are (meant) to be being open and honest in the swinging lifestyle?

(These were our rules set out from the beginning, but we realise everyone is different)

Is one of you cheating?

No, not cheating.

Just not being as forthcoming with our actions as we were when we got first here.

Talk more. Secrets in swinging can lead to issues.

It’s not all totally related to swinging to be fair"

Depends on the secrets then I suppose. If it's a monster bar of Dairy Milk hidden at the back of the cupboard, or a secret family in Hull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely honest with my partner. He supports my choices. He's not cuckold etc but knows I can't do monogamy so is fine with the relationship I've built up with my fwb. I feel lucky that I can be honest and open with him.

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