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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

one of my pets is dying its not very nice sitting here watching her die knowing theres nothing i can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

call a 24 hr vet have the poor thing put to sleep and sorry you losing a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

call a 24 hr vet have the poor thing put to sleep and sorry you losing a friend

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

dont think there is any 24 hour vet round here or else i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really sorry you have to go thro that it can not be easy hope it is as quick as poss and your pet goes with as little pain and suffering as poss lets us know when it is all over sorry for your troubles

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

she is in pain, shes got bad shakes, dont want to go to bed and leave her on her own. . i wouldnt want to be on my own if it was me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Awwwwwww thats really sad, what kind of pet is it? Could you not wrap her in a towel or a blanket to try and keep her a little comfortable

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

ive already done that. she,s my pet polecat. always had the run of the house. my daughters 21 and she,s in tears makes me feel even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw guys, hope you guys ok, chatted once out dogging with you both. Horrible when a pet is dying, our thoughts are with you xx

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

thank you. yes we remember you two, (very sexy)!!. sometimes i wish people where like pets. always there when you need a friend or a cuddle. xxxxx

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham

mandy i feel you're pain

i had to put my cat of 19 years(yes 19)

to sleep as she was suffering and as much as it killed me to do it i had to think of her

R.I.P

Freddy

she will be happy in hell

lol

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

mine is name smelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel for ya xx

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

thank you soapy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this, hugs and best wishes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know just how you feel

Have you tried phoning your vet as some have an out of hours emergency number!!

Take your cat upstairs with you, i would!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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It's awful when you lose a pet

Hugs to you and family

x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

god its hard when you loose them! its a real shock to realise just how much you're attached and what a big hole they'll leave.

big hugs guys.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


" one of my pets is dying its not very nice sitting here watching her die knowing theres nothing i can do "

hugs...remember her passing will mean the end of her pain xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that hunny

huge hugs

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you. yes we remember you two, (very sexy)!!. sometimes i wish people where like pets. always there when you need a friend or a cuddle. xxxxx"

+1

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Shit shouldnt have read this thread, sat in hossie waiting room with teartrickiling down my face. Huge hugs xxxxxxxx

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

i cried more when i had my dog put to sleep more than i did when my mother died. awful for you hun xx big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of the good times ..... and you love this animal and you have to do whats right in the end ... I know how it feel .. part of your family and a gap when it will be gone ... i fill my gaps with new animals i never forget them i even have there ashes for when me and john die thay can come with us . Big hugs xxx be brave xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry to hear that hunny

huge hugs

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

+2

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Words will seem little help but your in all our thoughts. In time you'll remember her with fondness and it'll bring a huge smile to her face. Remember she's only leaving the physical. She'll always be with you. As above as below xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a pet dog. Rescue dog. Nothing worse than losing them. Feels like losing a member of the family

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

steve sat up all night with her, bless him. she died at 3.18.pm this afternoon

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By *oulmates YorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

thoughts are with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw poor baby, sorry for your hurt

xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Hugs xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" one of my pets is dying its not very nice sitting here watching her die knowing theres nothing i can do "

Oh i do feel for you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwwww deepest sympathy, it's horrible when it happens but hopefully now she can be comfy again!

My dog is 17 and every morning I look to see if she's still breathing! Lucky for us she's healthy enough for an old dog, just deaf so sleeps through most things!

Xxxxx her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. If its a human or an animal, it still hurts a lot, and i should know. I read today on mail online about a woman who kept two dogs in her atic and starved them to death, i think people like that must be very wrong inside to be so cruel. You dont treat animals or people like that.

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

hugs from me to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(((((((HUGS))))))

Kat x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but at the risk of getting banned- you let your animal suffer for that length of time?

I think its disgraceful- the reason we have vets out of hours numbers is so that animals don'y have to suffer, and we have a responsibility to ensure their dignity in life and in death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet we let people suffer everyday!

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands


"I'm sorry but at the risk of getting banned- you let your animal suffer for that length of time?

I think its disgraceful- the reason we have vets out of hours numbers is so that animals don'y have to suffer, and we have a responsibility to ensure their dignity in life and in death."
glad i dont live in your house, if i fell ill you might have me put down!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I work in a vets .. and find often people leave PTS too late in the hope that the pet will die before they make the decision to take to vet. In fact when you know the quality of life is no longer there the kindest thing is to take in and put down..or call us out and have it done at home. Cant imagine there is any surgery anywhere that cant put people in touch with an out of hours vets.

Pts is always sad but at least you know you have done the best for the pet not leaving it to suffer ..that is so cruel.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"steve sat up all night with her, bless him. she died at 3.18.pm this afternoon "

remember her well...not ill, hugs xxxxxx

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I'm sorry but at the risk of getting banned- you let your animal suffer for that length of time?

I think its disgraceful- the reason we have vets out of hours numbers is so that animals don'y have to suffer, and we have a responsibility to ensure their dignity in life and in death."

i just wonder if you would be happy to have someone pull the plug on you when the time came or would you take the pain for a few extra hours or days with the people you love.

i know if i was lucid and coherent i'd take any pain for those extra moments.

doesn't a loved pet deserve the same ??

or do you see it as something you make it's choices for ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its difficult to know what to do in situations like this, sorry for your loss OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry but at the risk of getting banned- you let your animal suffer for that length of time?

I think its disgraceful- the reason we have vets out of hours numbers is so that animals don'y have to suffer, and we have a responsibility to ensure their dignity in life and in death. glad i dont live in your house, if i fell ill you might have me put down! "

There is a massive difference then, You said your polecat was dying... I had to face this with an elderly cat a short while ago, and whilst I had the hardest time agonising over wanting every last minute with them, it was the right thing to do for the animal. The quality of life had gone... animals don't see pain as transitory. I stand by my comment, whilst I Do sympathise with your loss.

When they put my cat down, it was a massive dose of anaesthetic, she went to sleep in my arms.

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By *unessexblMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Cats and dogs and other domestic animals are so lucky because as humans and there keepers we have the skills and cognitive ability to euthanise our pets when they are suffering.

It is just such a shame when fellow humans are suffering we have to put them on a plane to Switzerland to ease there pain and suffering. Animals should never suffer unecessarily as we have the power to remove there pain.

I am sorry you pet died but did he need to suffer for the last 24hrs when you had the option to relive the suffering.

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