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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any tips on helping to make a guy last longer. So my fb has being trying lately to last longer during sex but nothing seems to help. He will have a wank before we meet but it doesn't help. He last about 4 or 5 minutes during actual penetration. Its doesn't bother me in the slightest as we have plenty of foreplay. Its just something he has got in his head and he wants to improve it.

has anyone who had this problem found something that works for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A condom one size too small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on helping to make a guy last longer. So my fb has being trying lately to last longer during sex but nothing seems to help. He will have a wank before we meet but it doesn't help. He last about 4 or 5 minutes during actual penetration. Its doesn't bother me in the slightest as we have plenty of foreplay. Its just something he has got in his head and he wants to improve it.

has anyone who had this problem found something that works for them? "

Wet flannel on boner clench penis for as long as possible ten times. Pelvic floor exercises too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A condom one size too small"

That sounds painful

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I used to have this problem but then I decided to change my attitude. Instead of thinking about not trying to come I relaxed and just tryed to have fun. It worked a treat for me so hopefully it work for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to have this problem but then I decided to change my attitude. Instead of thinking about not trying to come I relaxed and just tryed to have fun. It worked a treat for me so hopefully it work for him.

He said it never really bothered him before. He never gave it much thought until his ex wife made a comment on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do cock rings help with that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do cock rings help with that?"

I don't know as I don't have a cock and never been with a guy wearing one. I can't imagine how it would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i could you tell how I can last 6 hours I would ... but I don't honestly know

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he feels that he is about to cum...blow inside his urethra.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours. "

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

I couldn't do without the fourplay

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

I couldn't do without the fourplay

Me neither now..... 11 years of frustration taken out in 4 months on fab

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

I couldn't do without the fourplay

Does that mean you do it x4 times?!

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

I couldn't do without the fourplay

Me neither now..... 11 years of frustration taken out in 4 months on fab

Mmm! Eleven years of catching up you say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest 5mins at a time of penetration is probably enough anyway. There is plenty of other stuff that can be done. Can he rise to the occasion again after?

I love it when my fwb can't hold back and needs to cum. But then I'm lucky as he stays hard and can carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex husband was like this....

Hence now the ex

It doesn't bother me as he is great at lots of other stuff. Plus I don't like shagging for hours.

It used to really bother me. Plus mine didn’t know the meaning of the word foreplay.

I couldn't do without the fourplay

Does that mean you do it x4 times?!

Double that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A condom one size too small

That sounds painful

It's not, and it actually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When he feels that he is about to cum...blow inside his urethra."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A condom one size too small

That sounds painful

It's not, and it actually works

I didn't even know condoms came in different sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that

I wanna start when Emmerdale finishes and be done, with the kettle already on, before the Corrie music starts up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck his cock after make it grow again

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Fuck that

I wanna start when Emmerdale finishes and be done, with the kettle already on, before the Corrie music starts up "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suck his cock after make it grow again"

I've tried that. He just comes as quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get gel that numbs it a little so it won’t be as sensitive obviously I’ve never needed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can get gel that numbs it a little so it won’t be as sensitive obviously I’ve never needed it

I used this a couple of times with my ex but he last all sensation and couldn't keep his erection.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Get wetter or use a bit of lube it will make it hard to get the friction so will take longer to cum

has anyone who had this problem found something that works for them? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get wetter or use a bit of lube it will make it hard to get the friction so will take longer to cum

has anyone who had this problem found something that works for them? "

Thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

has anyone who had this problem found something that works for them?

Wet flannel on boner clench penis for as long as possible ten times. Pelvic floor exercises too"

Oh god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try wearing a Thesera May mask, that would stop me in my tracks. Perhaps just put in on when he's about to cum, you don't want to put him off altogether.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

More sex...and try to put what the ex said out of his mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol works a treat for me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could try wearing a Thesera May mask, that would stop me in my tracks. Perhaps just put in on when he's about to cum, you don't want to put him off altogether. "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some delay spray innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get some delay spray innit "

Oh what's that?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Exes have a lot to answer for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Exes have a lot to answer for! "

Don't I know it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alcohol works a treat for me"

Really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the case for quite a few people and I’ve seen people suggest making sure the male is breathing deeply (kind of like when doing exercise).

Also the pelvic exercises someone else mentioned, I can stop myself from cumming by squeezing tight but I’m not sure if that’s good for the body?

Or go at it until he is about to cum then stop and go back to foreplay or whatever else for 5 minutes. Kind of like a muscle I’m guessing it needs working out? I used to love edging.

Everyone is different though. Some people are super sensitive, sometimes it can be the muscles when the guy thrusts which make them cum quicker hence why some find they last longer with the partner on top and sometimes it’s in their mind.

Sounds like he has an understanding person to explore with him rather than put him down so good luck to you both!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Sounds like counseling might be the right answer if it becoming a problem was due to someone elses comments.

From a pharmaceutical point of view the seretonin specific reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) dapoxetin (normally marketed as Prilligy) is licenced for this use and is is understood to have synergic application with PDE-5 inhibitors such as Viagra and Cialis.

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By *rlovesquirtMan
over a year ago

leeds/morley

learning to control it, making the most of the fun, the feeling comes and goes, feeling better and better each time, much better orgasm,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is the case for quite a few people and I’ve seen people suggest making sure the male is breathing deeply (kind of like when doing exercise).

Also the pelvic exercises someone else mentioned, I can stop myself from cumming by squeezing tight but I’m not sure if that’s good for the body?

Or go at it until he is about to cum then stop and go back to foreplay or whatever else for 5 minutes. Kind of like a muscle I’m guessing it needs working out? I used to love edging.

Sounds like he has an understanding person to explore with him rather than put him down so good luck to you both!

Thanks for that.

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