FabSwingers.com forum: How many people .......

By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

Are on here hoping to find the one and live happily after ?

I am , obviously having fun in the meantime but ultimately, I want to find love .

I am on dating sites too but most people on them are not really looking for love .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not actively looking for love here, however if I met someone I really connected with then bonus! However, in my experience most people keep love and fab very separate.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I wasn’t looking for it. and boom, three years on and we’re now married! It happens but not it you’re actively looking for it it seems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure fab is the place to find love, tho i have heard the stories of love and marriage developing from fab, so you never know OP, fab could be the place you find your happy ever after....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happens it happens.

Love has a way of finding us in the most unexpected ways....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely wasn't.

Then boom, we stumbled upon each other and it happened anyway!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Not actively seeking it, if it happens it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I have the one already. He just let's me get my additional needs from my fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! I joined fab because I wanted to avoid it but still needed sex. It seems to be working quite well, thank gawd

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Found it completely by accident on here.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope already met her 23 years ago and she's still around.so living the dream already and she's bi lol fantastic

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Not actively looking but if I found that one person then I'd be open to it

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

Lots of positive answers on here , which is good !

Don’t get me wrong , I’m not desperate to find it but I am 100% ready for it .

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

No just here for fun. Not looking for the one

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Nope already met her 23 years ago and she's still around.so living the dream already and she's bi lol fantastic

Lovely to see people happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say never ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to have sex without drama or commitment.I'm not looking or hoping for anything else.

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"I'm on here to have sex without drama or commitment.I'm not looking or hoping for anything else."

I’m not looking for drama ...... commitment yes but def not drama

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes it happens when you least expect it. I'd say here's as good a place as any.

My friend's on a (paid for) dating site & is disallusioned by the whole thing, said it feels more like a hook up site which isn't what she wanted. May aswell be here where we all know the score!

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Sometimes it happens when you least expect it. I'd say here's as good a place as any.

My friend's on a (paid for) dating site & is disallusioned by the whole thing, said it feels more like a hook up site which isn't what she wanted. May aswell be here where we all know the score!"

Yep , the paid sites are no better than the free ones .

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Been there did that she stole my undies and lipstick. Bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it OP.

So did she. With someone else.

*shrugs ruefully....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actively avoiding it if I'm honest, then I met him and caught all the feelings. Now I'm so glad I did

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"I found it OP.

So did she. With someone else.

*shrugs ruefully...."

Sorry to hear that , not a nice feeling .

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Looking no. Hoping no. Wanting maybe.

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Urm"

Urm. what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. Just want a friend with benefits

. Nothing else.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I wouldn’t entertain a long term relationship with anyone off here. So not actively looking no. Be good to find someone in other scenarios to develop a relationship with and delete this but we all have needs until then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope even if she drives a Volvo

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"I wouldn’t entertain a long term relationship with anyone off here. So not actively looking no. Be good to find someone in other scenarios to develop a relationship with and delete this but we all have needs until then. "

Why not ?

Plenty of people on dating sites are also on here and you wouldn’t even know.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm not hoping..not looking..but being to open to anything is a good thing. It happens and must be great especially as you can be upfront from the get go on here about stuff that may not come up on a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn’t entertain a long term relationship with “anyone” off here? Why’s that then?

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"I'm not hoping..not looking..but being to open to anything is a good thing. It happens and must be great especially as you can be upfront from the get go on here about stuff that may not come up on a dating site."

Totally agree

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

You wouldn’t entertain a long term relationship with “anyone” off here? Why’s that then? "

Maybe he thinks they must have low morals .........but hang on , that must mean he has low morals too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn’t entertain a long term relationship with “anyone” off here? Why’s that then?

Maybe he thinks they must have low morals .........but hang on , that must mean he has low morals too

Just a very odd comment seeing as there are thousands of people on here. Just curious as to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't looking for anything but it happened anyway...

Never say never.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urm

Urm. what ? "
accidents happen when sex parts are smushing

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Nope even if she drives a Volvo "

Come on your only human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urm

Urm. what ? accidents happen when sex parts are smushing"

Pretty impossible not to catch a few feels when you meet someone regularly. I don’t have a problem with that. As for a proper relationship? Nooooooooooo

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Wasn't looking for anything but it happened anyway...

Never say never.

Saff"

Hopefully I can be as lucky as you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just the sex....

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"No! I joined fab because I wanted to avoid it but still needed sex. It seems to be working quite well, thank gawd

Same for me. But have ended up married

J x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Long term I would love to meet someone. For me sex with someone who you absolutely fancy the fuck out of is just amazing. Casual just isn't the same. But I don't want a heavy serious relationship either. So I'm not sure if I will find what I'm looking for?

So I've kinda stopped looking now on the dating sites or here. Tired of spending all that time getting to know someone and it not go anywhere. Most on the dating sites just want a shag anyway. You can't force these things, so I will have the occasional meet but that's all. I'm just embracing my single life now. And maybe one day someone will find me who wants me or i'll find them?!

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By *ingdong11 OP Man
over a year ago

emsworth

"Long term I would love to meet someone. For me sex with someone who you absolutely fancy the fuck out of is just amazing. Casual just isn't the same. But I don't want a heavy serious relationship either. So I'm not sure if I will find what I'm looking for?

Probably the best way , the dating sites are just a waste of time , I do wonder if people just don’t want relationships nowadays , not long term ones anyway .

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