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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

This happens quite a lot I find. One picture can peak my interest and the next one makes my face crumple like the dog farted under my nose.

I don’t do anything except move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!"

Haha I’ve had that . I wanted to say which one do you look like now!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Take the average, attractive hillbilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move along

But then .... I’ve done hideous ones of me and I’m quite the looker

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Think I might toss a coin

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Are they twins on same account?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move along

But then .... I’ve done hideous ones of me and I’m quite the looker "

Hahahaha. That you are

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Hmmm. Third photo. Let that be the decider. I may have done that before and luckily it was a good 'un as was she.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!"

Is it the banjo that puts you off or the grass in the corner of the mouth?

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!

Is it the banjo that puts you off or the grass in the corner of the mouth?"

I quite like a banjo lol

Unless it's playing the Deliverance theme tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hillbilly could have just been a bad hair day. Ask for another

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I always check the upload dates and would cheekily so which one are you ?

I’ve done it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Borderline hillbilly?

Some people get all the luck.

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"The hillbilly could have just been a bad hair day. Ask for another "

Their head looks a totally different shape

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I think the only way to be sure is to send everyone on this thread the pictures so we can decide for ourselves

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I think the only way to be sure is to send everyone on this thread the pictures so we can decide for ourselves "

Nope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met him for a coffee. Best fun I'd ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a third photo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The hillbilly could have just been a bad hair day. Ask for another

Their head looks a totally different shape"

oh dear. I've never woken up with a different shaped head

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Start learning how to play the banjo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years ago I chatted to this guy. We agreed to meet for a drink in the bar. He sent me a selfie in his swimming shorts, photo wasn't great - he wasn't ugly but not looking the best. When I met him in person, my jaw nearly dropped. The prettiest fabber I've ever met. He was a part time model apart from being a swimming coach and athlete.

We met again later that evening when he came to mine. Sex was awesome.

Lesson learnt - do not assume anything from pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for more pictures

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Definitely ask for more..I've got some shit photos and some good ones..I should send one of each... I'm too vain for that

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

More pics or id ask them to go on cam maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother. Plenty of others with clear pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of five?

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them to cam chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Best of 5...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!"

I would have preferred if you messaged me in private rather than tell everyone

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If someone sends you a message and on one photo they look attractive but on the other one they look borderline hillbilly, what do you do?

I'm conflicted here!

I would have preferred if you messaged me in private rather than tell everyone "

Haha sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you look at each pic, do it while squinting. If the good pic looks worse then ignore. If the bad pic looks better, then take the chance and risk it!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"When you look at each pic, do it while squinting. If the good pic looks worse then ignore. If the bad pic looks better, then take the chance and risk it! "

Haha I was going to say similar

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Where did you come from, where did you go....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens quite a lot I find. One picture can peak my interest and the next one makes my face crumple like the dog farted under my nose.

I don’t do anything except move along.

"

I have that look mastered

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"2 years ago I chatted to this guy. We agreed to meet for a drink in the bar. He sent me a selfie in his swimming shorts, photo wasn't great - he wasn't ugly but not looking the best. When I met him in person, my jaw nearly dropped. The prettiest fabber I've ever met. He was a part time model apart from being a swimming coach and athlete.

We met again later that evening when he came to mine. Sex was awesome.

Lesson learnt - do not assume anything from pictures."

Good to have another perspective.

I don't think this guy was a part time model, unless it was for Airfix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos can be so difficult and some people just aren't that photogenic (especially in selfies)

I used to be a model (decades ago) but look hanging in most of my photos

Why not just have a social with no expectations? Attraction or attractiveness is not as simple as looks in a photo! As a previous poster put you might just be surprised and if not at least you'll know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And let's face the most beautiful can be really not beautiful in person!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I often give some lee way but it would depend on how unattractive the ensuing pics.were. If several shockers turn up, it's probably a polite no thanks. But this isn't restricted to one type of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos can be so difficult and some people just aren't that photogenic (especially in selfies)

I used to be a model (decades ago) but look hanging in most of my photos

Why not just have a social with no expectations? Attraction or attractiveness is not as simple as looks in a photo! As a previous poster put you might just be surprised and if not at least you'll know! "

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"And let's face the most beautiful can be really not beautiful in person! "

I think it's more the two pics didnt even look like the same person.Even with the squinting thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on whatever happened to personality guys?

If I got to know a girl and she had great photos as such , a great personality then go on to meet her but she ends up looking like a bulldog chewing a wasp.... I'd still shag her ... Just with a bag over her head.

Hahaha no just joking I could never do that! ... But I'd still meet as such it's not about looks, people can change over the years it happens ... You could be the sexiest supermodel with massive tits that's young then you get older and they start looking like deflated balloons and sagging past your knees and having the skin complexion of beef jerky.

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Come on whatever happened to personality guys?

If I got to know a girl and she had great photos as such , a great personality then go on to meet her but she ends up looking like a bulldog chewing a wasp.... I'd still shag her ... Just with a bag over her head.

Hahaha no just joking I could never do that! ... But I'd still meet as such it's not about looks, people can change over the years it happens ... You could be the sexiest supermodel with massive tits that's young then you get older and they start looking like deflated balloons and sagging past your knees and having the skin complexion of beef jerky.

"

Mmn you had me at Beef Jerky

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"And let's face the most beautiful can be really not beautiful in person!

I think it's more the two pics didnt even look like the same person.Even with the squinting thing.

"

Could be different camera angles or anything really - I hate taking face pics of myself as I never think they reflect the 'me' I see in the mirror - think you have three choices really:

Ask for another and make a decision based on that.

Suggest a social only meet to find out in person

Decide he's not for you

Only you can decide which

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on whatever happened to personality guys?

If I got to know a girl and she had great photos as such , a great personality then go on to meet her but she ends up looking like a bulldog chewing a wasp.... I'd still shag her ... Just with a bag over her head.

Hahaha no just joking I could never do that! ... But I'd still meet as such it's not about looks, people can change over the years it happens ... You could be the sexiest supermodel with massive tits that's young then you get older and they start looking like deflated balloons and sagging past your knees and having the skin complexion of beef jerky.

Mmn you had me at Beef Jerky "
I'm now in the mood for beef jerky ..... Bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every picture tells a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every picture tells a lie."

Mine are all smoke and mirrors and clever filters

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I wouldn't bother. Plenty of others with clear pics. "

That explains a lot

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