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By *azmissy67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

Help !!!

I think I've 'got feelings' for someone I met in a platonic way and now chat to on a regular basis however I've forgot how to actually date someone lol. It's easy when you 'swing' cos you know you are both after the same thing if you see what I mean but this is different cos I've met him in a purely platonic way. All of a sudden I'm stuck - my emotions are all over the place. I've not had a one on one relationship since my hubby left me over 15 years ago !!!

Helpful information would be gratefully accepted .

Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you already sucked on his shaft?

If not. Take your time. Don't rush into sex in order to check if he is really into or into your lovely anus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he feel the same way? Have you been out for a date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pose the question during a conversation. What would you do if you felt .........sort of thing. See if he clicks, or judge what to do next by his reply.

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By *azmissy67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

No just chatted and he gives out signals that he is interested or at least I think he does - I havent dated anyone since the late 80s ! I feel very lost. Yes I've met men for fun and games but it was strictly on a fun basis. This just feels so different - tbh I wasnt looking for anything on a more serious footing and for someone to pay me compliments out of the blue has thrown me abit.

Christ I'm like a lost teenage - not that I was ever lost as a teenage originally hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him out. It's the only way you'll know for sure.

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By *azmissy67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

Yeah I know - was just thinking of slipping him my phone number and asking to text me if he is interested ? That way there is no pressure on him and he doesn't have to answer me there and then.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Help !!!

I think I've 'got feelings' for someone I met in a platonic way and now chat to on a regular basis however I've forgot how to actually date someone lol. It's easy when you 'swing' cos you know you are both after the same thing if you see what I mean but this is different cos I've met him in a purely platonic way. All of a sudden I'm stuck - my emotions are all over the place. I've not had a one on one relationship since my hubby left me over 15 years ago !!!

Helpful information would be gratefully accepted .

Cheers x"

Wow lucky you if he feels the same way as you then go for it full steam ahead love doesn’t come to everyone so I say go for it

Good luck girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask him out. It's the only way you'll know for sure."

Exactly this. You say you met in a platonic way maybe that’s how he sees it. You won’t know unless you ask. Ask him if he fancies a drink one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I know - was just thinking of slipping him my phone number and asking to text me if he is interested ? That way there is no pressure on him and he doesn't have to answer me there and then."

I wouldn't even do that. Speaking the words out loud puts the ball in his court firmly. If you're reading his signals correctly, he'll just say yes.

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