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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Our neighbour literally spends most of her time swearing at her kid's.

Personally I think it's disgusting but some may not bat an eyelid.

What's your opinion?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wouldn't even swear in front of my kids, never mind at them. Well I try not to, an accidental one occasionally slips out and they tell me off

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I wouldn't even swear in front of my kids, never mind at them. Well I try not to, an accidental one occasionally slips out and they tell me off "

Precisely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swear around her ... occasionally but not at her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people raise their kids. The others drag them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teach them content. We were aloud to swear in content but never at each other.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

On rare occasions, my kids drive me to a swear word. What you’re describing sounds a lot like abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever swear..

Mine gets most of his knowledge off the internet.. i think he knows more words than me

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"Some people raise their kids. The others drag them up"
like this

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Sounds like my neighbours, but without the verbal threats and acts of violence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't even swear in front of my kids, never mind at them. Well I try not to, an accidental one occasionally slips out and they tell me off

Precisely this "

Yep

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Call the police, have her kids taken off her, and tweet to her boss to get her sacked.

This is usually the course of action among the more enlightened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On rare occasions, my kids drive me to a swear word. What you’re describing sounds a lot like abuse."

How can you tell?

Its like the dude blaming depression on being miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m terrible at cursing

Fuck is such a great adjective and verb!

Mrs P

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

I wonder who gives anyone right to judge someone else's parenting methods, many kids from so called "pathological" families rise to greatness, exactly because of harsh parenting, and vise versa. Many mother cuddled kids became scar on the face of society.

It's really easy to judge from a far not knowing all the facts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suppose it depends on the context and the way the kids are brought up. I don't think swearing as such is necessarily a bad thing. I once saw a woman screaming "fatty" in her small daughter's face, that to me is much worse than swearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My next door neighbour shouts very loudly fuck off and other such related comments at her 2 sons x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I swear like a sailor.

Not at my kids, but they are usually in the vicinity when I blurt out an expletive. They tell me off and they are aware that they are not to copy mummy. Their teachers have complimented me on both of their vocabulary being extensive, at which I checked they weren’t being sarky and meaning they swore, and they assured me that was not the case at all.

The way I see it, it takes the mystery out of swearing, so they are less likely to use it for shock value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swore around mine as they got older, but not at them and they were raised to know they weren’t to swear themselves. I now have one that won’t even say bloody in-front of me and one that would embarrass a sailor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The neighbours at the bottom of my garden are always swearing at each other and the kids. It’s so bad my youngest always comments on it yet he swears terrible x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

People that are offended by other adults swearing are the pits but swearing at kids is worse!

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

My neighbours are a nightmare, shes up roaring and swearing up them most nights... calling then little retards, and stupid little bast*rds etc.

I've got 4kids and yeah I call them lil sh*its but not to them, try not to swear around them.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"On rare occasions, my kids drive me to a swear word. What you’re describing sounds a lot like abuse.

How can you tell?

Its like the dude blaming depression on being miserable "

I don’t follow your analogy.

The description implies that the parent frequently swears (presumably not in a nice way, given that a neighbour has picked up on it). No matter the reasons why this may be, that sounds like it may be verbal and emotion abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most annoying thing is when the kids are causing havoc screaming shouting generally being a pain in the ass and the parent/s look half soaked and don’t say a word to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve banned my little one playing with some children because the parents believe it’s okay to swear in front of the kids. Luckily where we live now the families all seem nice and the kids are nice for her to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cursed in front of mine by accident but never at him just a wee slip of the tongue

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I’ve banned my little one playing with some children because the parents believe it’s okay to swear in front of the kids. Luckily where we live now the families all seem nice and the kids are nice for her to play with. "

For me, shielding kids from swearing is misguided and doomed to fail besides. People swear, for good reason. Learning when swearing is appropriate and to have respect is more useful and practical.

Swearing at people, that’s a different matter altogether.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I’ve banned my little one playing with some children because the parents believe it’s okay to swear in front of the kids. Luckily where we live now the families all seem nice and the kids are nice for her to play with.

For me, shielding kids from swearing is misguided and doomed to fail besides. People swear, for good reason. Learning when swearing is appropriate and to have respect is more useful and practical.

Swearing at people, that’s a different matter altogether."

There is swearing and some that use it like “a” and “the” I would do the same. It’s not shielding but also not letting them think it is right for it to be every day normal language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On rare occasions, my kids drive me to a swear word. What you’re describing sounds a lot like abuse.

How can you tell?

Its like the dude blaming depression on being miserable

I don’t follow your analogy.

The description implies that the parent frequently swears (presumably not in a nice way, given that a neighbour has picked up on it). No matter the reasons why this may be, that sounds like it may be verbal and emotion abuse. "

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

I (Mr) swear around them and at them!

They're savvy enough to know the rights and wrongs of it, and are articulate with rich vocabularies.

A well-judged swear is a thing of great beauty and much pleasure. They're getting a great education in curseology...

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I’ve banned my little one playing with some children because the parents believe it’s okay to swear in front of the kids. Luckily where we live now the families all seem nice and the kids are nice for her to play with.

For me, shielding kids from swearing is misguided and doomed to fail besides. People swear, for good reason. Learning when swearing is appropriate and to have respect is more useful and practical.

Swearing at people, that’s a different matter altogether.

There is swearing and some that use it like “a” and “the” I would do the same. It’s not shielding but also not letting them think it is right for it to be every day normal language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the plus side it’s a good thread to learn who we are compatible with lol

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