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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

When we started every day was a new wonder and we always felt horny.

We don't want to quit or take a break as such but I'm not sure if it's the scene in general and fabs but things do seem very cynical now and everyone seems very serious.

We just want to have a good time have a laugh and sexy good time fun.

Does anyone else feel a bit jaded with the scene or is it just us needing a break from it for a bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not really got started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its shit

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

once it stops being fun we will stop but we dont let it rule our lives ( far from it) we only have small number of meets

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"once it stops being fun we will stop but we dont let it rule our lives ( far from it) we only have small number of meets "

Perhaps I worded it wrong.

It's not that we don't have fun,we do.

It's just becoming really hard work .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not jaded but I think over time one's attitude alters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not jaded but I think over time one's attitude alters. "

What once was new and exciting becomes the norm. The scene hasn't changed you've just taken off the rose tinted glasses you get given at the start.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"once it stops being fun we will stop but we dont let it rule our lives ( far from it) we only have small number of meets

Perhaps I worded it wrong.

It's not that we don't have fun,we do.

It's just becoming really hard work ."

well as i said we dont "over meet" so its not been an issue to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still pretty new, and feel like we're at the start of our swinging journey, so it's still all exciting time for us at the moment. If and when it gets boring (heaven forbid!) Then I guess we'll take a break, or else leave it behind totally.

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston


"When we started every day was a new wonder and we always felt horny.

We don't want to quit or take a break as such but I'm not sure if it's the scene in general and fabs but things do seem very cynical now and everyone seems very serious.

We just want to have a good time have a laugh and sexy good time fun.

Does anyone else feel a bit jaded with the scene or is it just us needing a break from it for a bit ?"

Bit of both for me. It was much more fun with my partner in crime but I guess there was a lot more meets back then as people trusted a couple more

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Lack of local talent at the moment

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve settled into a nice stride now. I’ve been on the scene long enough to suss out what makes me tick and what keeps me here. It is the anticipation and excitement for the next meet/event that keeps me interested and keeps Fab fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I needed a break a few years back, which lasted until last year.

I got fed up of all the pressure I felt with looking for casual fuckery, having to get dressed up with underwear, makeup, sexy clothes, drive to their homes, plus the lack of performance on their part and lack of pleasure on my part. I felt like I was putting all the work in with no rewards. No wonder I felt like a free whore, I allowed myself to be treated like one.

That's why I'll only meet in Clubs now. At least everyone in the club has made an effort to attend and not just sat at home looking for and expecting a free fuck to turn up on their doorstep. You meet people face to face straight away. Ok there are the odd single male that follows you around trying to wear you down but I'm with my hubby and not on my own like I was with casual fuckery.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sex with randoms and not so randoms is always going to be a winner for me.

If it gets boring I'll take up trout tickling instead.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I feel like I've got my second wind in recent months. I'm enjoying it a lot more, I've met some truly exceptional people (one who was a bit mehish ) and overall I'm having a great time. When I feel like you Op, I tend to step away for a bit and recharge my battery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did lol at trout tickling!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Sex with randoms and not so randoms is always going to be a winner for me.

If it gets boring I'll take up trout tickling instead."

catfish noodling is better you get to shove yer hand in a big gob!!!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I’ve settled into a nice stride now. I’ve been on the scene long enough to suss out what makes me tick and what keeps me here. It is the anticipation and excitement for the next meet/event that keeps me interested and keeps Fab fab. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t believe how serious some people take swinging, or seem to. Couples demanding you jump through a series of hoops to get to the next round, so you might be in with a chance of getting your cock wet.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I can’t believe how serious some people take swinging, or seem to. Couples demanding you jump through a series of hoops to get to the next round, so you might be in with a chance of getting your cock wet."

When you could just run it under the tap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its shit"

Why is it shit? Did you get dumped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we started every day was a new wonder and we always felt horny.

We don't want to quit or take a break as such but I'm not sure if it's the scene in general and fabs but things do seem very cynical now and everyone seems very serious.

We just want to have a good time have a laugh and sexy good time fun.

Does anyone else feel a bit jaded with the scene or is it just us needing a break from it for a bit ?"

Depends on life in general. We ticked everything off our bucket list but it took a fair amount of work to arrange each thing. Worth it though.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"When we started every day was a new wonder and we always felt horny.

We don't want to quit or take a break as such but I'm not sure if it's the scene in general and fabs but things do seem very cynical now and everyone seems very serious.

We just want to have a good time have a laugh and sexy good time fun.

Does anyone else feel a bit jaded with the scene or is it just us needing a break from it for a bit ?"

We felt the same way just over a year ago so decided a break was in order .

We are still enjoying the break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve settled into a nice stride now. I’ve been on the scene long enough to suss out what makes me tick and what keeps me here. It is the anticipation and excitement for the next meet/event that keeps me interested and keeps Fab fab. "

Snap! And a few other things within the Fab lifestyle means it's never boring. Blimey! Seen some good posts today in various threads.

Good vibes

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