FabSwingers.com forum: Bi women....

By *eorge Jetson OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Or the lack of them....

WHY do women make statement that they are bisexual in any capacity when they obviously aren't???

Had a lady over for coffee and naturally things progressed to the bedroom and all is well until I headed down to give her some oral stimulation, the second my tongue reached her she was off the bed and dressed before I even registered she'd moved.

Turns out after she'd calmed down she admitted she's as straight as they come and only put that she's bisexual on her profile to make her appear more interesting!!

How many MORE women out there have done this cos it was a bloody shock to the system!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounded like a couple I met once. She had had no experience of other women not even a kiss. It rightly pisses people off when they just right in their profile to make themselves more appealing.

I have been the recipient of angrily worded messages from couples who have accused me of being one of the said females. I was polite in my answer then when she asked asked if I wanted to play I gracefully said no and block them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think people lying on their profile/omitting the truth/bending figures a bit is nothing new so I'd hazard a guess at a few women at least have done this. It must have been a bit irksome Op, I'd be kind of miffed personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus you think she’d tell you before it got to that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this too, I travelled an hour away to meet a couple, then when I'd got there I found myself ghosted.

She later messaged me apologising saying she was only doing it to please her man

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By *eorge Jetson OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Talk about awkward

Seriously didn't know what to do after she calmed down and admitted it.

She left in a hurry and I've been scratching my head in bewilderment over it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really! My god that's insane. I'm very much bi. Last meet I had with a lady I ignored the guys I was too busy with her haha x

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Very frustrating OP & I suspect there are more than a few on here who are only saying they're bi to please someone else or appear more interesting/appealing.

This is a place where we should all feel comfortable to be ourselves without criticism or judgement by others. If we can't be ourselves in Fab World what hope have we anywhere else!

Definitely bi here - can't imagine saying it then worrying about being caught out!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I find this interesting because it seems like the minority of ladies list themselves as straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met with a couple once who talked the talk, it come down to it and the female so wasnt into women

and extremely jealous of another woman being there with her man too. Very awkward. Some people think they know what they want until it comes down to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m properly into females, and not saying it to please Charlie. And on a meet females can do as they wish with Charlie x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is surprising how many women say they're bisexual online.

Another thing which confuses mean is how many people list themselves as bi curious .. Yet they have verifications meets from people of the same sex

I think that makes them bisexual and well past the curious point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lesson learned.

Always finger first, we wouldn’t even buy her a drink until Lacey’s given her a finger blast.

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By *eorge Jetson OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Really got me bothered this.

It was going perfectly fine until the physical contact, she even had her pants off and was on the bed first.

Then it went very wrong from there.

Just don't get it. Why put yourself across being very bisexual and very into girl fun and have others think you're willing to participate if your straight?? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really got me bothered this.

It was going perfectly fine until the physical contact, she even had her pants off and was on the bed first.

Then it went very wrong from there.

Just don't get it. Why put yourself across being very bisexual and very into girl fun and have others think you're willing to participate if your straight?? x"

Don’t question it, just move on.

Learn from it.

Did you have any kissing beforehand?

This is usually a dead giveaway.

With respect...

There’s also the possibility that she just wasn’t into you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really got me bothered this.

It was going perfectly fine until the physical contact, she even had her pants off and was on the bed first.

Then it went very wrong from there.

Just don't get it. Why put yourself across being very bisexual and very into girl fun and have others think you're willing to participate if your straight?? x

Don’t question it, just move on.

Learn from it.

Did you have any kissing beforehand?

This is usually a dead giveaway.

With respect...

There’s also the possibility that she just wasn’t into you."

Or maybe it was her fantasy to have sex with a woman and when she had the chance, she freaked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this too, I travelled an hour away to meet a couple, then when I'd got there I found myself ghosted.

She later messaged me apologising saying she was only doing it to please her man

We met loads like that. Awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really got me bothered this.

It was going perfectly fine until the physical contact, she even had her pants off and was on the bed first.

Then it went very wrong from there.

Just don't get it. Why put yourself across being very bisexual and very into girl fun and have others think you're willing to participate if your straight?? x

Don’t question it, just move on.

Learn from it.

Did you have any kissing beforehand?

This is usually a dead giveaway.

With respect...

There’s also the possibility that she just wasn’t into you."

Yeah on second thoughts your last sentence probably was true for the women we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh FAB, where men pretend their not Bi and some women pretend they are.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I do wonder if the general attitudes of the scene adds to this problem. When I'm with my partner in the club's it's seems an automatic assumption that ladies are bi, unless stated otherwise. It seems to be just assumed by most. My Girl is bi but I've often wondered if these attitudes and assumption cause difficulties for streight women on the scene? And maybe it creates an narrative that if you not at least bi-curious your not doing it right. That sort of pressure may lead some women to fake it to fit in or just to go along with the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, can't say I've had that exact experience...but I've met several women who claimed to be bi over the years and weren't.

Fuck that, I don't wanna get it on with someone who doesn't fancy the arse off me! Just be honest innit!

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By *eorge Jetson OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

She didn't have to fake it.

If she'd said from the start she was straight then that would have been fine.

She could still have gotten her arse over for coffee and conversation and I would have enjoyed her company just the same.

It's the whole having her knickers off and on the bed before me that stumped me. Literally like she couldn't wait to play then the second I touched her the whole attitude to it changed.

I would even have made more coffee to settle her down but she couldn't wait to get out of the house.

Very strange day. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She didn't have to fake it.

If she'd said from the start she was straight then that would have been fine.

She could still have gotten her arse over for coffee and conversation and I would have enjoyed her company just the same.

It's the whole having her knickers off and on the bed before me that stumped me. Literally like she couldn't wait to play then the second I touched her the whole attitude to it changed.

I would even have made more coffee to settle her down but she couldn't wait to get out of the house.

Very strange day. x

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