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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so i'm looking on ebay at dresses and somehow ended up looking at wedding dresses purely as i couldn't get over what good bargains there was to be had on there

but it got me thinking about what sort of dress i would have if i was to get married now

when we married 23 years ago i wore leather and lace and mr b wore denim and leather which was just exactly how we wanted it neither of us was into getting all poshed up but then also we were 18 and 19 at the time and i think if we did it now we would go for more traditional dress although i'm certain it would be with a twist

it was a very simple wedding at the register office then on to a relatives pub for a bit of a buffet with family then in the evening we went to our local pub with friends it was perfect for us and i still couldn't see us doing the traditional style of wedding if we got married tomorrow

i think i would theme it maybe a 50s rock n roll theme as i love the glamour of the style of clothing of the 50s although i love the hair of the 40s so i might use a little artistic licence and have a bit of fusion lol

ooo you could really have fun with it i guess

maybe i should start dropping hints about vow renewal

so how about you would you choose a traditional wedding or would you like something a bit different

if you are already married do you think you would do it differently now to then?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This is hypothetical as there is no chance im getting married BUT if jay and i got married it would go like this.

It would be in the springtime, the only guests would be immediate family(about 12 people) i would have a very simple dress but classy. No frills. I would carry a little basket full of daffidils and have spring flowers in my hair. We would have a quick official wedding in the local register office. But then we would go to rutland water and have a blessing at my favourite spot there. It would be followed by a luxury picnic on the banks of the water.

For the honeymoon, i would like to go to a little log cabin for a week, with no television, mobile phones or computers and just spend the whole week with us and nature

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is hypothetical as there is no chance im getting married BUT if jay and i got married it would go like this.

It would be in the springtime, the only guests would be immediate family(about 12 people) i would have a very simple dress but classy. No frills. I would carry a little basket full of daffidils and have spring flowers in my hair. We would have a quick official wedding in the local register office. But then we would go to rutland water and have a blessing at my favourite spot there. It would be followed by a luxury picnic on the banks of the water.

For the honeymoon, i would like to go to a little log cabin for a week, with no television, mobile phones or computers and just spend the whole week with us and nature"

awww now that sounds just perfect

i've always said it should not be about the wedding it should be about the marraige, sadly too many get hung up on having all the frills they forget why they are doing it whereas yours sounds absolutly idylic to me so intimate its beautifull

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"This is hypothetical as there is no chance im getting married BUT if jay and i got married it would go like this.

It would be in the springtime, the only guests would be immediate family(about 12 people) i would have a very simple dress but classy. No frills. I would carry a little basket full of daffidils and have spring flowers in my hair. We would have a quick official wedding in the local register office. But then we would go to rutland water and have a blessing at my favourite spot there. It would be followed by a luxury picnic on the banks of the water.

For the honeymoon, i would like to go to a little log cabin for a week, with no television, mobile phones or computers and just spend the whole week with us and nature

awww now that sounds just perfect

i've always said it should not be about the wedding it should be about the marraige, sadly too many get hung up on having all the frills they forget why they are doing it whereas yours sounds absolutly idylic to me so intimate its beautifull"

Sadly to many concentrate on having "the special day" the wedding is one day, the marriage hopefully a life time. I kind of did the traditional thing althoug i got married in a register office and was pregnant. But with hindsight, organizing it and the cost i would of just gone away and done it. Its you and your partners special day not trying to please everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

although i think as much as i turn my nose up at traditional frocks i bet if i was to go and try some on i'd get all carried away and end up with a right frightfull merangue like to think i'd come to my senses before it got to the parting with my pennies bit

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"although i think as much as i turn my nose up at traditional frocks i bet if i was to go and try some on i'd get all carried away and end up with a right frightfull merangue like to think i'd come to my senses before it got to the parting with my pennies bit "

Big dresses dont do anything for me, it would have to be something very simple, just plain silk with maybe swarvski crystals on it or something. I dont know but it wouldnt be a puffy out dress. I think they look lovely, just not my style

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By *edriderCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

we got married in a registry office, me in a blue grecian style coast dress and fur shrug with only our closest family and friends we then all walked through the park to our favourite restaurant and had a beautiful meal, then me and mr went to loch lomond for the night where we walked along the beach while it snowed..to us it was perfect and wouldnt change it for the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is hypothetical as there is no chance im getting married BUT if jay and i got married it would go like this.

It would be in the springtime, the only guests would be immediate family(about 12 people) i would have a very simple dress but classy. No frills. I would carry a little basket full of daffidils and have spring flowers in my hair. We would have a quick official wedding in the local register office. But then we would go to rutland water and have a blessing at my favourite spot there. It would be followed by a luxury picnic on the banks of the water.

For the honeymoon, i would like to go to a little log cabin for a week, with no television, mobile phones or computers and just spend the whole week with us and nature

awww now that sounds just perfect

i've always said it should not be about the wedding it should be about the marraige, sadly too many get hung up on having all the frills they forget why they are doing it whereas yours sounds absolutly idylic to me so intimate its beautifull"

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

our wedding plans are in full flow. only 5 and a bit months to go.. registery office then a big family party in a field.. no pressure for anyone to dress up, BBQ, hogroast, bouncy castle, childrens entertainers, and music. no sit down affair, just fun,

and my dress,, well its RED, yep red, lol, and i love it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" our wedding plans are in full flow. only 5 and a bit months to go.. registery office then a big family party in a field.. no pressure for anyone to dress up, BBQ, hogroast, bouncy castle, childrens entertainers, and music. no sit down affair, just fun,

and my dress,, well its RED, yep red, lol, and i love it...

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sounds fabulous treacle lovely and chilled and i'm sure you will look amazing in red

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


" our wedding plans are in full flow. only 5 and a bit months to go.. registery office then a big family party in a field.. no pressure for anyone to dress up, BBQ, hogroast, bouncy castle, childrens entertainers, and music. no sit down affair, just fun,

and my dress,, well its RED, yep red, lol, and i love it...

sounds fabulous treacle lovely and chilled and i'm sure you will look amazing in red"

thank you sweetie.. have all red undies too.. but i do have to go rejoin the fab diet thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot see myself going down that road again, however, if and when I do, it will be something classic and classy in fuchsia/cerise as the main colour.

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