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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.

I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....

what’s your preference and why ?

S xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I publish for the first week then i hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.

I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....

what’s your preference and why ?

S xx"

I don’t publish them or the summary because they all say I’m a shit shag

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I keep mine public. A lot of mine are social. I don’t mind showing them either way.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I like publishing the social ones and tend to stick to those ones for various reasons.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m fine to show them as they’re not graphic.

They just prove that I’m roughly who I say I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m undecided yet with not having any

I’ll probably keep private

Should have a separate section to name timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same as you OP.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have phases of getting them all out or hiding them all away.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair I don't give much credence to varifications either way. Because I, like many do not seek, leave or recieve a verification every time I meet. Some people like to keep them private (not shifty per se) and I have yet to see one bad verification published on here. Plus some people are just new. Personally I prefer talk to people and judge for my self. However a varification or two does at least help me to decide if the person is genuine at least (but not guaranteed).

Nice photos by the way.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I prefer to keep my business private

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I publish for the first week then i hide them "

That’s a damn good idea !

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I do the same as you OP.

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I have several reasons to keep mine like that .... one is also a safety issue

So it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind public or private. I just dont want my verifications to be the typical talk about the sex. I prefer a veri to discuss me and who I am as a person, keeping the sexual side a bit more secretive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"To be fair I don't give much credence to varifications either way. Because I, like many do not seek, leave or recieve a verification every time I meet. Some people like to keep them private (not shifty per se) and I have yet to see one bad verification published on here. Plus some people are just new. Personally I prefer talk to people and judge for my self. However a varification or two does at least help me to decide if the person is genuine at least (but not guaranteed).

Nice photos by the way."

I completely understand what you say and agree ..... and thanks

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Private. I'd give much credence to them anyway, yet to see a poor veri published

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.

I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I keep mine public. A lot of mine are social. I don’t mind showing them either way. "

^ This, I don't show any that are of a sexual nature. What goes off in ma bedroom, stays in ma bedroom

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha"

To be honest, a billboard of published verification is a tad off putting for me .... without wanting to offend anyone, I would rather see just a summary, it shows an element of modesty and I find that more appealing than a showcase of explicit prowess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep the last few public but hide the others. I used to display them like my CV.....display the most appropriate veri to the current job application haha

To be honest, a billboard of published verification is a tad off putting for me .... without wanting to offend anyone, I would rather see just a summary, it shows an element of modesty and I find that more appealing than a showcase of explicit prowess "

Ignoring my own profile I’d say this is exactly what I look for in potential partners. I always look out for a veri describing personality rather than what they did

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Interested to hear your views regarding to publish verifications or keep them private, or maybe just a summary.

I prefer to keep them private as I don’t feel it is necessary to have all the details for public view, that ‘details’ are between myself and who ever I’ve met, but I do publish the summary to show I am real and do meet ....

what’s your preference and why ?

S xx

I don’t publish them or the summary because they all say I’m a shit shag"

Now, I’m sure that’s not true

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I do the same as you OP.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I have phases of getting them all out or hiding them all away. "

I do sometimes get the urge to stick a couple up but never do

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I prefer to keep my business private "

Me too ....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I publish mine unless they show something like my name. I'm inclined to think that veris say more about the person writing them (while I have a few obscene ones, I don't write them that way). But I personally look for patterns in veris as part of a picture of a person (not sexual prowess, more character). While it's hardly foolproof, it is a tool in my arsenal, so I provide it for others to use with me.

Also if anyone wants to get their knickers in a twist over what I've done or with whom, they're more than welcome to block me. Saves me drama.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.

I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare "
haha

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.

I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare "

I’ll show you mine if you show me yours

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mix it up, sometimes they’re on show other times I’ll hide them, depends on my mood. I don’t tend to have graphic ones but if I did I wouldn’t display them.

I wish more people would display them, I’m a nosey mare

I’ll show you mine if you show me yours "

That's what she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases of showing mine. I’ve met people who haven’t left me a verification and with blocking/people leaving the site it has left me only one to display anyways haha

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I hide them! It's a bit like when you get arrested, you have the right to remain silent! It's not good letting people know too much.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Social veris only displayed, 1:2:1 not displayed

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