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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time?

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

All of the above!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time?

All of the above! "

I don't like the thought of having sex with a crowd of people around me and if I wasnt joining in then I would feel awkward and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time?

All of the above!

I don't like the thought of having sex with a crowd of people around me and if I wasnt joining in then I would feel awkward and leave "

There's private rooms or areas where people fuck and can be watched.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We read a good book.

Suzie x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"We read a good book.

Suzie x"

I've actually seen this done at a club. Everyone sat round the bar in silence listening to the saucy tales narrated by the bar maid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes go for a swim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cinemas quite good

I watched goldilocks and the black bears once..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We read a good book.

Suzie x"

We’ve seen someone knitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried."

I always think about the old tale about the peanuts on the bar that have urine in them. The buffet at a swingers club.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go to swingers clubs for a chat with like minded people.

Anything else is a bonus

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried.

I always think about the old tale about the peanuts on the bar that have urine in them. The buffet at a swingers club....."

I think once you've worked up an appitite concerns about the buffet soon fly out the window.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

When I go with my partner we dont plan to meet anyone. Part of the excitement is not know who you'll bump into. It's great making new freinds and bumping into old ones.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Cinemas quite good

I watched goldilocks and the black bears once.. "

Ooh I've not saw that one yet!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried."

I’ve been to a human buffet at a club where the buffet table was a woman. There were no plates or napkins, all most improper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go I literally go to socialise with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t expect to have sex there

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

Don’t know where you get your vibe from but from my experience there’s never any pressure for anyone to join in.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

Give one or two a quick call & speak to a member of staff or check out some club websites, they'll hopefully put your mind at rest. Worked for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

Then don’t go if that’s the vibe you’re getting. I doubt that there will be any pressure for you to join in or do anything you don’t want to do.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We read a good book.

Suzie x

I've actually seen this done at a club. Everyone sat round the bar in silence listening to the saucy tales narrated by the bar maid."

Jackanory for grown ups, love it!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "
nope it is totally chilled. I often go just to chill be it with friends or by myself. Sometimes I go watch .. Sometimes I join in.. sometimes I just chill... other times I instigate the orgies

Best thing about clubs is that there is no pressure at all

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I find I get more involved the more I go.

Depends on who’s there as I have to fancy who I play with. I used to just go in private rooms but I’ve recently learnt I like to be watched

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

Been twice, from my experience there are people who spend the whole session chatting and mingling in the lounge/bar area.

Then there are people who have a wander and either watch the action, start the action or join in the action.

There was no pressure to join in.

The staff walked us through the club on my first visit, it was a daytime session and pretty laid back.

If it's not for you, you can leave any time.

Theres no guarantees to play though so dont go expecting guarenteed sex.

Depends in who is there on the day, and the chemistry, like anywhere else.

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By *arberrys-EventsTV/TS
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

At my Swing By The Convent swingers parties, there's no set format.

It depends on those attending. Sometimes some areas are busier than others, sometimes not.

Best to come along and are for yourselves.

Mary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

Sex is never guaranteed. So if you go with that thought. Stay respectful and accept peoples boundaries you should have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

You can just stay in the bar area, you don't even have to go to the rooms. Clubs aren't for every one and so you should trust your instincts. If I were you and you did want to go I would just literally go for a few drinks just to be in the environment and see how you feel I am sure it isn't how you are building it up to be in your head. Also day times are quieter than events x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't expect to have sex guaranteed.. I'm a fussy bastard lol and I would really have to click and fancy someone for me to go all the way and have sex with them.

It's just all abit fascinating and intriguing to me. It's like a whole new secret hidden world that I would of never ever thought was so common, until I discovered this site.

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By *arberrys-EventsTV/TS
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting.

You can just stay in the bar area, you don't even have to go to the rooms. Clubs aren't for every one and so you should trust your instincts. If I were you and you did want to go I would just literally go for a few drinks just to be in the environment and see how you feel I am sure it isn't how you are building it up to be in your head. Also day times are quieter than events x "

The basic rules of any party are, no one has to play, all play is consensual, no thanks means no thanks.

My parties are social as well as play. It's good to talk.

Mary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm well sounds like I would most likely be the shy one sitting in the corner with a pint, whilst scrolling through the forums on fab.

A typical night in the pub for me lol

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

"

One guy told me he got d*unk the first time he visited a club and then he felt brave and asked a man if he could use his wife.

It didn't go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

One guy told me he got d*unk the first time he visited a club and then he felt brave and asked a man if he could use his wife.

It didn't go down well. "

Don’t do that.

Women don’t tend to be property - ask them yourself. And word it better than ‘use’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

One guy told me he got d*unk the first time he visited a club and then he felt brave and asked a man if he could use his wife.

It didn't go down well.

Don’t do that.

Women don’t tend to be property - ask them yourself. And word it better than ‘use’ "

Yeah id have to learn the lingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

One guy told me he got d*unk the first time he visited a club and then he felt brave and asked a man if he could use his wife.

It didn't go down well.

Don’t do that.

Women don’t tend to be property - ask them yourself. And word it better than ‘use’

Yeah id have to learn the lingo "

There’s nothing to learn. Don’t talk to people like a piece of meet - treat them with respect. They’re people after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the best way to ask for sex then?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What is the best way to ask for sex then? "

Simple, you don't - you go along, you chat to people in the social areas, you see if you get along, and you, or they, might suggest moving to the play areas or hot tub etc - it really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

You couldn't be further from the truth.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha

All clubs are visited by aliens and monsters. Any Newbie is instantly thrown into a pit of writhing bodies. Used and abused then thrown away in anticipation of the next person arriving

Jeez - think of it like going to a pub for a few drinks and a chat.

If you're unable to start a conversation you'll probably struggle..

Hi fancy a shag won't wash, but maybe just compliment someone who catches your eye and see how it goes.

I'm amazed at people's innability to actually speak to people, just because they don't know them.

Club staff usually show newbies around so you can at least find your way about, and they might even introduce you to a some regulars.

Go with no expectations and you might be surprised at how nice people are

"

Some good points in that post ^

Like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time?

All of the above!

I don't like the thought of having sex with a crowd of people around me and if I wasnt joining in then I would feel awkward and leave

There's private rooms or areas where people fuck and can be watched."

Yes.

Clubs can be what you want OP. Have as much or as little interaction to feel comfortable. I always recommend the club experience for those that have never been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I go I literally go to socialise with like minded people "

Snap! That is starting point for me. Great way to meet people in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I may go in the future, just for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

Did you ever go to a school disco, adventure scouts Christmas do, think the Inbetweeners at that caravan park club.....Now, imagine it's like that but people walk around in towels or naked and anything inbetween. They drink out of plastic cups, bring their own booze and dance about when d*unk...oh yes and there's fucking. Nobody is going to bite you, unless that's your kink. Its only your own preconceptions that are giving you the fear. The only way you'll ever know is by going along and seeing for yourself. There not sex clubs, just clubs where people may or may not have sex, go with an open mind and a smile what's the worst that can happen really, besides having an experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting.

Did you ever go to a school disco, adventure scouts Christmas do, think the Inbetweeners at that caravan park club.....Now, imagine it's like that but people walk around in towels or naked and anything inbetween. They drink out of plastic cups, bring their own booze and dance about when d*unk...oh yes and there's fucking. Nobody is going to bite you, unless that's your kink. Its only your own preconceptions that are giving you the fear. The only way you'll ever know is by going along and seeing for yourself. There not sex clubs, just clubs where people may or may not have sex, go with an open mind and a smile what's the worst that can happen really, besides having an experience."

Can't I just wear normal cloths as I would in a pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers clubs are full of large predatory women praying on the desperate men who chase them in the dark wearing glow in the dark underwear.

The Jacuzzi is more of body fluid soup than water and the dance floor is all sticky and its not from spilt beer

*the above may or may not be true, I've never been to a club*

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Still need social skills too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers clubs are full of large predatory women praying on the desperate men who chase them in the dark wearing glow in the dark underwear.

The Jacuzzi is more of body fluid soup than water and the dance floor is all sticky and its not from spilt beer

*the above may or may not be true, I've never been to a club*"

Haha that’s just how i imagine it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting.

Did you ever go to a school disco, adventure scouts Christmas do, think the Inbetweeners at that caravan park club.....Now, imagine it's like that but people walk around in towels or naked and anything inbetween. They drink out of plastic cups, bring their own booze and dance about when d*unk...oh yes and there's fucking. Nobody is going to bite you, unless that's your kink. Its only your own preconceptions that are giving you the fear. The only way you'll ever know is by going along and seeing for yourself. There not sex clubs, just clubs where people may or may not have sex, go with an open mind and a smile what's the worst that can happen really, besides having an experience.

Can't I just wear normal cloths as I would in a pub? "

You can, in most bar areas, a lot of clubs are dress down, so for you that would mean shorts or a towel, you can wear it around your waist or like a cape, entirely up to you that bit.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Just go with the flow ... We sit in open room playing if I want I will ask someone to join us. If not happy for them to watch.. have played in big room with lots of others playing around us.

Then again been known to play alone in a locked room .k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the best way to ask for sex then?

Simple, you don't - you go along, you chat to people in the social areas, you see if you get along, and you, or they, might suggest moving to the play areas or hot tub etc - it really is that simple."

Exactly this.

I've never expected to play at a club, I've always gone with the mindset of meeting people to chat and socialise. *if* anything happened then it was always the lady or couple that instigated it.

I will say though that one of my best experiences at a club was on a night when there was no play involved.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't like the thought of getting naked if I'm just going along for a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers clubs are full of large predatory women praying on the desperate men who chase them in the dark wearing glow in the dark underwear.

The Jacuzzi is more of body fluid soup than water and the dance floor is all sticky and its not from spilt beer

*the above may or may not be true, I've never been to a club*

Haha that’s just how i imagine it "

I think we should go and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried."

Doughnut was a bit disturbed by this when there was a buffet and a dude with his pubes out by the chilli con carne!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the thought of getting naked if I'm just going along for a drink"

You don't have to. Well, different clubs have different 'dress down' rules; some are dress down throughout, some after a specific time, some in specific areas, some not at all.

If you do a little research you can find a club that meets what you're looking for.

Tea

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

To be fair I would say as a single guy in a club you are in the group most unlikely to be pressurised or harassed into doing something. Hope that helps put your mind at easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear the buffet is always good but I just don't like the idea of eating at a swingers club so never tried.

I’ve been to a human buffet at a club where the buffet table was a woman. There were no plates or napkins, all most improper! "

That's a very sexy idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We read a good book.

Suzie x

I've actually seen this done at a club. Everyone sat round the bar in silence listening to the saucy tales narrated by the bar maid."

Great idea! I'll take a good book next time. Will give me something to do while I'm being ignored and might even be a conversation starter

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By *arberrys-EventsTV/TS
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

For my Swing By The Convent party, food is in the social area, away from any play...

Hygiene is paramount.

Mary

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By *arberrys-EventsTV/TS
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting.

Did you ever go to a school disco, adventure scouts Christmas do, think the Inbetweeners at that caravan park club.....Now, imagine it's like that but people walk around in towels or naked and anything inbetween. They drink out of plastic cups, bring their own booze and dance about when d*unk...oh yes and there's fucking. Nobody is going to bite you, unless that's your kink. Its only your own preconceptions that are giving you the fear. The only way you'll ever know is by going along and seeing for yourself. There not sex clubs, just clubs where people may or may not have sex, go with an open mind and a smile what's the worst that can happen really, besides having an experience.

Can't I just wear normal cloths as I would in a pub? "

At Swing By The Convent you can wear anything you're comfortable in. Wear a coat to get in though !! Lol

Mary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just go to swingers clubs for a chat with like minded people.

Anything else is a bonus"

This is me, just wander around chatting, mingling, seeing what is going on. When I'm ready, I'll grab a drink and sit in the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone tried purplemamba in Notts, what’s it like ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers clubs are full of large predatory women praying on the desperate men who chase them in the dark wearing glow in the dark underwear.

The Jacuzzi is more of body fluid soup than water and the dance floor is all sticky and its not from spilt beer

*the above may or may not be true, I've never been to a club*

Haha that’s just how i imagine it

I think we should go and find out "

Shall we. Don’t leave me though! Can we go in disguise?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We had our first full-swap foursome in a crowded playroom and the very same night had our first separate room swap with another couple.

While we like being together when we swap and love the buzz of fucking among lots of people doing the same, but some others prefer the privacy of one-on-one swinging. They can only relax and let themselves go when their partner or anyone else is not watching.

Basically, clubs cater for whatever sort of sex you want and that makes them so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever been to one a couple of times.

Luckily I went with some one I liked and trusted. She held my hand and made sure I was ok.

Always played in the private rooms though. I wasn’t into being watched by random guys pulling their plonkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just go to swingers clubs for a chat with like minded people.

Anything else is a bonus"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only ever been to one a couple of times.

Luckily I went with some one I liked and trusted. She held my hand and made sure I was ok.

Always played in the private rooms though. I wasn’t into being watched by random guys pulling their plonkers. "

Oh god couldn’t think of anything worse.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Always played in the private rooms though. I wasn’t into being watched by random guys pulling their plonkers. "

I was surprised how OK I was with playing in a public room. I get focused on what I'm doing and don't really notice who's watching. Except for those moments when you look up see that there's an audience...

A lot of the time there are just as many women watching. It's not all wankers.

But everyone's different. Public play isn't for some. That's why clubs provide different types of rooms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder are the rooms clean inside. That could be another thing to put me off.

I'm abit of a clean freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder are the rooms clean inside. That could be another thing to put me off.

I'm abit of a clean freak. "

It feels like you’re looking for excuses not to attend.

Read the views on the club reviews section; some clubs won’t be up to a high standard, but lots certainly are

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

Yes evryone fuck everything by the end people are drowning in cum.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

How did you feel when you ventured into a pub for the first time...?

This site offers the luxury of an extensive list of clubs nation wide.

One would suggest study the list and their reviews... You should in theory be able to whittle them down to a short list. General consensus seems most clubs will answer questions when asked...

Then grasp the nettles and grow a pair and visit one..

Your replies suggests you are selective on a number of issues... Be aware it may take a number of visits to different clubs or indeed a couple of visits to a particular club before you cure your curiosity.... Then again you may be forever singing a particular U2 song....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason I don't think it would be a chilled out atmosphere and I would feel pressure to join in and do things that I don't like.

Thats just a vibe that I've been getting. "

I've only ever gone with female partners and found it a very relaxed comfortable atmosphere, and amazingly respectful gents to the ladies I've been with... Sit back and enjoy the view or just sit around and chat, you may get an invite to join in. I think some of the posters are winding you up a little? Go and enjoy. You'll love it! I've only been to one club I have to admit but others I've spoken to assure me others are as good if not more friendly... Go for it.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"We read a good book.

Suzie x

I've actually seen this done at a club. Everyone sat round the bar in silence listening to the saucy tales narrated by the bar maid.

Great idea! I'll take a good book next time. Will give me something to do while I'm being ignored and might even be a conversation starter"

You may be on to a winner there. I find if I hold a book in my hand it disguises the fact that I am in fact talking to my self, thus people don't realise how truly weird I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

Just because you joined a swinging site it doesn't mean you have to jump in feet first and get yourself to a club asap...

They arent for everyone..

Some ppl just prefer one to one meets

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I like to hold hands with everyone, sing kumbaya and repent for my sins

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Do you all have sex together in one room or are there seperate private rooms and is it all pre planned or do you play with who you click with at the time? "

Depends on the club.

Private rooms are available at all the ones we've been to.

We, well I have never felt pressured to play.

We have met lots of new like minded people and had sex with some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to hold hands with everyone, sing kumbaya and repent for my sins"

That's the best bit lololol

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough


"Hmm well sounds like I would most likely be the shy one sitting in the corner with a pint, whilst scrolling through the forums on fab.

A typical night in the pub for me lol"

Just bear in mind that phones are banned in clubs, well, they have been in all the ones I've been to anyway!

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