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Some luck on tinder but....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She uses text speech and its a just a pet hate I can't stand it.. should I endure and see it through? Or give up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how desperate you are for a leg over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends... Is this for a NSA or relationship ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 wan 4 q, u up 4 it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how desperate you are for a leg over "
I'm not that desperate .. she's looking for a partner and has been for a few months.

I guess I'll see where it ends up, try for a date and see.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn't do it. Would drive me nuts. If someone cuts corners & can't be bothered to type full words when you'd think they'd be trying to make a good impression, what other corners are they cutting?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How desperate are you for a fuck?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Jeez - I sound so judgemental!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

I couldn't do that, it would drive me insane! It's so lazy, I would judge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I can’t chat to people who talk like that so probably wouldn’t meet them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

Nope. I'd be waving goodbye to that one.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

Nope. I couldn't do it

And by bringing this to the forum, I suspect you know deep down that you can't either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I guess from the majority it's a no then, thanks everyone you've been helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tlk lyk dis bk 2 her n c wot she says

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tlk lyk dis bk 2 her n c wot she says "
sorry but I can't lower my standards like that haha .. everything I learned would of been for nothing if I stoop that low

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You could always go old school and actually pick the phone up and talk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always go old school and actually pick the phone up and talk! "

intelligence is sexy to me... after sex... you still need to be able to connect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

I couldn’t do it, that would definitely turn me off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She uses text speech and its a just a pet hate I can't stand it.. should I endure and see it through? Or give up? "

Is she going to speak in text? Will she moan in text speak as you’re doing that sex thing?

I’d probably over look it if I liked her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

I retract my previous comment, I wouldn’t speak to her. For I wouldn’t understand the language she uses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before life revolved around the internet we met in bars and through friends.. my first long term partner could barely write, but I didn't find that out until well over 6 months in, because it never came up. Still one of the most intelligent, kindest people I've been lucky enough to know.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on her age surely? Under 25 its obligatory..

Over 25 its just wrong

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

She might just be dyslexic and find that text speak is more accessible. Try not to prejudge.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"You could always go old school and actually pick the phone up and talk!

intelligence is sexy to me... after sex... you still need to be able to connect"

......ok

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Well I guess from the majority it's a no then, thanks everyone you've been helpful

"

I hope you at least go back to her & explain that the computer said no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on her age surely? Under 25 its obligatory..

Over 25 its just wrong"
she's 31 ...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I just assume it's normal to use a few abbreviations for the sake of brevity, but find it a little odd when people over about 25 do it.

I guess also some people use it to imply a friendly familiarity. Ultimately if I judged all my potential sexual partners on their overall text skills and literacy over their other qualities.

Not everyone is 'wordy' and I know my loquacious verbosity isn't for everyone either...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could always go old school and actually pick the phone up and talk!

intelligence is sexy to me... after sex... you still need to be able to connect

......ok "
connect via dial up? Haha sorry

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Oops! Missed half a line there but I'm sure you know what I mean...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind if certain things are abbreviated or shortened but when all words are shortened it makes me lose interest, I enjoy full on and intelligible conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to see her anus dude you'll have to adopt the same way of talking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to see her anus dude you'll have to adopt the same way of talking. "
in the morning I'll drop her a message off.

"Gd mrnng hw r u" is that right?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you want to see her anus dude you'll have to adopt the same way of talking. in the morning I'll drop her a message off.

"Gd mrnng hw r u" is that right?

"

For a minute I thought I was going to read "Gd mrnng, can i c ur anus?!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to see her anus dude you'll have to adopt the same way of talking. in the morning I'll drop her a message off.

"Gd mrnng hw r u" is that right?

For a minute I thought I was going to read "Gd mrnng, can i c ur anus?!" "
howay man! I'm not that desperate or vulgar haha

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By *obincrusoeMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Christ wouldn’t know what to do on tinder so much more fun the old school way, 4 pints for a little Dutch courage then ask to buy a drink or wait until the erection section slow dances at the end of the night!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'm still talking to her.... She's managed a full sentence thats almost none text speak . .

She's asking stuff which is different from any other woman I've spoken too usually it's me being the inquisitor.

She isn't that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her on the phone if she talks that way too then just fetch a ball gag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

Just reply with "lkn 4 a lg ovr" and see how you get on #nothingtolose

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

Had a similar scenario myself on Tinder. It really doesn't do it for me at all, so much chemistry and connection is built up through good communication and an ability to communicate well with a prospective partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though her writing skills are horrendous, she's actually making an attempt to converse which is more than what other women have done as of lately.

Im curious to see where this goes

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Even though her writing skills are horrendous, she's actually making an attempt to converse which is more than what other women have done as of lately.

Im curious to see where this goes "

Good luck to you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She uses text speech and its a just a pet hate I can't stand it.. should I endure and see it through? Or give up? "

I honestly can't even cope with text speech. It makes me feel like I can't even converse with the person.

If you like her otherwise though then it wouldn't really bother you that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a no from me, it’s just irritating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well.... I've actually managed to get a date with her next weekend.... Hang on I'm just going to pinch myself to see if this is real? ...

And I'm also talking to a Thaiwanese lass too that might lead to another date ..... .. what is going on?

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For me it would be very irritating and if I would tell her how I feel. If nothing changes probably would just give up and move on.

Good luck on your dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to see her anus dude you'll have to adopt the same way of talking. in the morning I'll drop her a message off.

"Gd mrnng hw r u" is that right? "

Yes but add in the mix. Do u wanna show me Ur anus b4 12am?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d just be honest, tell her you never know there could be a reason maybe dyslexia?

I wouldn’t rule someone out so quickly, without checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our male half has never had any luck in tinder. We can’t understand what he’s doing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way she wrote looking for a partner "lkn 4 a ptnr" ....

It made me cringe a little and she continues like that for everything else."

She wants a panther. What's wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "lkn 4 a ptnr" "

Just reading that made me want to throw myself off of the harbour wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She uses text speech and its a just a pet hate I can't stand it.. should I endure and see it through? Or give up? "

Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been on tinder."

As long as you here that's all that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She uses text speech and its a just a pet hate I can't stand it.. should I endure and see it through? Or give up? "

How are you getting on with text girl ?

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over a year ago

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Run! I hate text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're going on a date with someone who commits your pet hate. Not the best basis for a compatible meeting of minds is it? Or did you just ignore the text pet hate for a bit because there's a chance of getting your dick wet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been on tinder.

As long as you here that's all that matter "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And I'm also talking to a Thaiwanese lass too that might lead to another date ..... .. what is going on? "

Am I really the only person wondering if she comes by post?

P

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over a year ago

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