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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Just a courious question.

On many profiles I have seen

Not meeting attached man.

How do you girls distinguish,

That one is and that one is not?

How can you tell he's not lying?

I know most man don't give a flying fuck if lady is attached, so the question is mostly for fab lady's

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can't always tell, but you develop instincts over time.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some men's profiles say they are married

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

You can usually gauge the ones that are but won’t declare it. Silly little tell tale signs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible to tell all the time. But I've developed a system that generally spots the attached quite early on.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

They mean they will not knowingly meet or choose to meet attached men. Obviously lots of people are disingenuous, but we can only do the best we can do to ensure our preferences are respected. I guess if a man doesn't respect his wife is unlikely to respect a fab profile but all we can do is try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They soon trip themselves up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can't always tell. You just have to go by instinct and a particular set of seemingly innocent questions

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Some people only say they don’t meet attached people. They do though

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Some men's profiles say they are married"

Yes that's fine, same as lady's if they say they are married that's fine.

Not my problem to investigate her relationship.

It's her conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men's profiles say they are married"

Honest cheats? Now there's an oxymoron.

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Looks like I'm to new fab, to see that in women.

Can't really tell unless she slip up or I can see wedding ring mark on the finger

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Things such as can't accommodate, only able during the day and mention of discretion on a profile can be giveaways

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Some men's profiles say they are married

Honest cheats? Now there's an oxymoron. "

Don't judge book by its cover, maybe they have wife agreement.

Maybe she's asexual

Lots of maybe there..

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you


"Some people only say they don’t meet attached people. They do though "

That has been my experience in the past and I am damn glad they do

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

I just think everyone is until they prove they are single

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Things such as can't accommodate, only able during the day and mention of discretion on a profile can be giveaways

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Get that. Mind you single dad's are in there and can't accommodate due to kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a courious question.

On many profiles I have seen

Not meeting attached man.

How do you girls distinguish,

That one is and that one is not?

How can you tell he's not lying?

I know most man don't give a flying fuck if lady is attached, so the question is mostly for fab lady's "

Well you can't be 100% so you limit the amount of times you meet and who with, as well the majority are cheating lying fuckers. Unless it's your thing and then you'd be having the best time.

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"I just think everyone is until they prove they are single "

Are you suggesting.

Guilty until proven otherwise?

That could be off-putting if one gat asked the question.

Prove to me that you aren't attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things such as can't accommodate, only able during the day and mention of discretion on a profile can be giveaways

Get that. Mind you single dad's are in there and can't accommodate due to kids "

True. A lot of the friends I have don’t accommodate but doesn’t mean they’re married, they have children or have had bad experiences. I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years whatever my situation was. This is my children’s’ home and fab, to me, is totally separate from real life.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Things such as can't accommodate, only able during the day and mention of discretion on a profile can be giveaways

Get that. Mind you single dad's are in there and can't accommodate due to kids

True. A lot of the friends I have don’t accommodate but doesn’t mean they’re married, they have children or have had bad experiences. I wouldn’t accommodate in a million years whatever my situation was. This is my children’s’ home and fab, to me, is totally separate from real life. "

Precisely this

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By *ULLTIMEDAD123Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Married men easy to spot.

Daytime meets

Won't take phone calls at evenings.

He can't accommodate.....

Wedding ring mark on finger.

No facebook or social media.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Married men easy to spot.

Daytime meets

Won't take phone calls at evenings.

He can't accommodate.....

Wedding ring mark on finger.

No facebook or social media."

I fit all these criteria but I'm not married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having previously been part of a couple profile on here it is easy to pick up the signs.

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Thank you for your answers.

Me myself, don't like jump in any conclusions just after 1 meet with either lady or gent, there could be number of reasons why they are, lets call it "cheating"

They could be allowed by partner,

They could be fresh after divorce,

They could be still married because they didn't bother with divorce,

I'm sure there is plenty of accualy," still in relationship" people, but it's hard to say without knowing them better is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men easy to spot.

Daytime meets

Won't take phone calls at evenings.

He can't accommodate.....

Wedding ring mark on finger.

No facebook or social media.

I fit all these criteria but I'm not married"

Not quite all of them. You're not a man

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Then again I may be overthinkig it

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

See I'm attached. But my partner and I both are on her. She's informed in everything I do and is happy for me to go meet others. Apparently that's a bad thing.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Honesty is always the best policy, if the guys that are married or attached were just honest about it then it would be much simpler when choosing to meet them or not, there are ladies in the same situation who do prefer to meet married men as they know it will strictly be NSA.

Just be honest

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Honesty is always the best policy, if the guys that are married or attached were just honest about it then it would be much simpler when choosing to meet them or not, there are ladies in the same situation who do prefer to meet married men as they know it will strictly be NSA.

Just be honest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty is always the best policy, if the guys that are married or attached were just honest about it then it would be much simpler when choosing to meet them or not, there are ladies in the same situation who do prefer to meet married men as they know it will strictly be NSA.

Just be honest "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I guess but yes it's best to be straight with ppl. I never realised there were so many married dudes on here until recently. No wonder there's so much tension in the forums, they're all unavailable beyond a casual shag.....

Steve x

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