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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So this is why i questioned my sexuality-the other night, I wondered should I meet men even though they aren’t really my cup of tea?

I have just gone through over a hundred responses to a yes or no do you fancy sort of thing, out of all the post I can only message pvtly 6 women

What’s the point may as well be gay and let guys do what they want!

So recap what you-think am I barking up the wrong tree ?

Should I forget trying to get meets with women and instead give up and allow guys to take advantage???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting guys is easy

It scratches an itch

It is rarely fulfilling

It's a major factor in why I have very few meets these days

I'd sooner have a wank

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

But why meet people who aren’t your cup of tea? Surely even a minimal number of replies/meets is better than getting a shedload of attention from those who just don’t do it for you?

That’ll end up even more disheartening and soul destroying surely?

Never lower your standards, and by that I mean if you know what you like and what makes you happy then do that. Don’t chase second best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is why i questioned my sexuality-the other night, I wondered should I meet men even though they aren’t really my cup of tea?

I have just gone through over a hundred responses to a yes or no do you fancy sort of thing, out of all the post I can only message pvtly 6 women

What’s the point may as well be gay and let guys do what they want!

So recap what you-think am I barking up the wrong tree ?

Should I forget trying to get meets with women and instead give up and allow guys to take advantage???"

Isn’t this supposed to be fun and something you enjoy?

I’m not understanding why you would have sex with people you don’t fancy?

There are always toys, porn and fingers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is why i questioned my sexuality-the other night, I wondered should I meet men even though they aren’t really my cup of tea?

I have just gone through over a hundred responses to a yes or no do you fancy sort of thing, out of all the post I can only message pvtly 6 women

What’s the point may as well be gay and let guys do what they want!

So recap what you-think am I barking up the wrong tree ?

Should I forget trying to get meets with women and instead give up and allow guys to take advantage???

Isn’t this supposed to be fun and something you enjoy?

I’m not understanding why you would have sex with people you don’t fancy?

There are always toys, porn and fingers.."

Wss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh "

Yep true enough, just very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh

Yep true enough, just very frustrating"

To be honest it sounds like you’re needing attention and you’re willing to accept attention from those who you don’t want attention from (if that makes sense)

I used to do it when I was bored; I’d message the guys from school who literally saw me as a piece of meat. It gave me a confidence boost for a few days. Then made me feel shit.

I know I’m worth more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh

Yep true enough, just very frustrating

To be honest it sounds like you’re needing attention and you’re willing to accept attention from those who you don’t want attention from (if that makes sense)

I used to do it when I was bored; I’d message the guys from school who literally saw me as a piece of meat. It gave me a confidence boost for a few days. Then made me feel shit.

I know I’m worth more. "

I don't know how anyone can get a boost from 'attention' on sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is why i questioned my sexuality-the other night, I wondered should I meet men even though they aren’t really my cup of tea?

I have just gone through over a hundred responses to a yes or no do you fancy sort of thing, out of all the post I can only message pvtly 6 women

What’s the point may as well be gay and let guys do what they want!

So recap what you-think am I barking up the wrong tree ?

Should I forget trying to get meets with women and instead give up and allow guys to take advantage???"

Are you that desperate you'd fuck someone you don't fancy?

I doubt there's many tv's who are looking for women, who actually meet any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh

Yep true enough, just very frustrating"

Unless you turn it into a bit of a curiosity fantasy, you've mentioned it a bit before so is it something that intrigues, being used by those you don't really fancy? I'm all for not doing what you don't want to with people obviously, but fantasy fulfillment is different.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I don’t understand why you’d consider men if that’s not what you want, I really don’t.

And ‘let them take advantage’ sounds meh

Yep true enough, just very frustrating

To be honest it sounds like you’re needing attention and you’re willing to accept attention from those who you don’t want attention from (if that makes sense)

I used to do it when I was bored; I’d message the guys from school who literally saw me as a piece of meat. It gave me a confidence boost for a few days. Then made me feel shit.

I know I’m worth more. "

That you are

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