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By *umbriaman1962 OP   Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no ide tel theire other half simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, why would we want to get involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover "

Never never never

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

no

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

No!!!!!!!!!! Z Mind you if you need to ask then your own moral compass must be broken! Z

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

No and we'd rather not know particularly if we were good friends with his wife or her husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!!!!!!!!!! Z Mind you if you need to ask then your own moral compass must be broken! Z"

+1

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland


"absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)"

Him??? Who said him??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover "

It would very much depend on the relationship my friend had with their partner. I have some friends I would not even contemplate it and another I have urged to escape her situation in the past I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!!!!!!!!!! Z Mind you if you need to ask then your own moral compass must be broken! Z"

might just be curious of how others would respond not asking for guidance so to speak

no i wouldn't i'd kick their arses for even asking me

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By *umbriaman1962 OP   Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

it a she not a male

plus its a friend that was asking what she should do as she been asked

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By *umbriaman1962 OP   Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"would you let your married best friend use your spare bed room to meet lover

It would very much depend on the relationship my friend had with their partner. I have some friends I would not even contemplate it and another I have urged to escape her situation in the past I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it a she not a male

plus its a friend that was asking what she should do as she been asked"

It's still a 'no' from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"

If its a serious question not a hypothetical what if one then you probably need to give more details of the situation and the people involved. Then you should hopefully get some serious answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"

still a no

an affair will never make things better only worse she should be supported in making better decisions in who she has a relationship with not supported in having an affair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"

If her reaction to his behaviour is to start an affair, then she really needs to have a good think about leaving him.

Just my opinion, of course.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

first thoughts no, and shame on the for asking me.

They have their reasons for doing what they are doing, whether or not i agree with is is another matter but i wouldnot want to be involved or implicated i the inevitable fall out.

As for the comment saying they would tell the OH, i wouldnt feel that was my place either. leave well enough alone is my view.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

An affair can also be an escape from a bad situation ...

..... soon you lot will be going along the " think about the kids " route, who may or may not exist.

As has has been said before the OP needs to add more info if not to only attract knee jerk reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends would she let you join in?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)

Him??? Who said him??"

apologies, that was a little presumtuous.

however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"plus it someone that they all think should leave a d*unken husband just d*unk not vilent"

so surely the offer should be 'i have a spare room, leave him' not 'i have a spare room, come and fuck someone behind his back and possibly make him violent as well as d*unk, if he ever found out'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)

Him??? Who said him??

apologies, that was a little presumtuous.

however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol"

so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)

Him??? Who said him??

apologies, that was a little presumtuous.

however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol

so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together?"

nope, not having, i said he would want to if he found out she was having an affair.

just an opinion

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"absolutely nofukkingway!!

just because you know about it doesnt mean you have to condone it, let alone help him cheat on his poor OH.

would you like it if he helped your missus do it on you? (i know your single, but when you had someone)

Him??? Who said him??

apologies, that was a little presumtuous.

however, i would guess that if OP was not certain about THIS question, then if the best friend was of the female variety, he would be having his bit also, not just not sure whether to help or not .lol

so now you are saying tht as the OP is male and his friend is female they are having sex together?

nope, not having, i said he would want to if he found out she was having an affair.

just an opinion"

because he asked this question?

sorry for all the questions but i dont understand the leap between asking this question and them sleeping with each other.

to me the question was should he turn a blind eye, not if i let her do you think she will let me slip her one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An affair can also be an escape from a bad situation ...

..... soon you lot will be going along the " think about the kids " route, who may or may not exist.

As has has been said before the OP needs to add more info if not to only attract knee jerk reactions."

I agree more would help avoid anyone making assumptions

But, as you have said yourself, the affair could be her escaping a bad situation ....that's why I said she should be thinking about leaving her husband (kids or no kids involved).

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"

to me the question was should he turn a blind eye, not if i let her do you think she will let me slip her one "

but you havent a cock though have you? lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

to me the question was should he turn a blind eye, not if i let her do you think she will let me slip her one

but you havent a cock though have you? lol"

not last time i checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell would have to freeze over before I helped someone cheat

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

She has her own bedroom. Let her do it there. Why should you go out or clean sheets or be part of what goes on. She's disgusting for asking you. Why can't she just do it when her husband ( who incidentally is ill ) blacks out from booze.

Don't even consider it. If she falls out with you you've lost nothing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if one of my close friends put me in such a compromising position as to even ask that then they would probably not be a close friend for much longer...

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

For some reason this thread reminds me of when me and my ex were at a nudie camping for the first time ever.

My ex went to the toilet or somewhere after a certain hour, and everyone looked at her weird because she was topless and they were all clothed.

Guess I just don't know what the rules are.

It's only sex, it's only a spare room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's ur answer lol

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

why dont she just shag the fella in her own house if hes that d*unk he wadnt notice

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

He gets violent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to have an affair that's their business but my house is my home, not a knocking shop, so they'll have to find somewhere else to go.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

... just invite loads of Fabbers around on the same night and call it a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not let my friend use one of my rooms for sex, but I wouldn't say anything about her having an affair.

I have 3 very close girlfriends and whatever they do, regardless of whether I feel its wrong, I would be there for them, and support them and not judge them. The husbands wouldn't be able to drag any info about them out of me as I am loyal to them.

If they asked me I would tell them that I'd feel uncomfortable about them being with a lover in my house using it for sex. But I know they wouldn't ever ask that, even if they were having an affair, as I wouldn't go around their houses for sex either

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By *umbriaman1962 OP   Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

this was kind of a made up question!!

in my local pub a debating group meet it was there fun question to debate last week, more of them said yes than any of you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much they are willing to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumbs up on this post,I totally agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest if one of my close friends put me in such a compromising position as to even ask that then they would probably not be a close friend for much longer..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't judge em but no I wouldn't help em either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't judge em but no I wouldn't help em either xx"

That's a far thing to say but I couldn't have it on my conscience I was a co conspirator though as someone always gets hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't judge em but no I wouldn't help em either xx

That's a far thing to say but I couldn't have it on my conscience I was a co conspirator though as someone always gets hurt."

The reason behind that is shameful to say I'm in no position to judge

Many years ago I succumbed it's something I'm not proud of and have never repeated xx

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