FabSwingers.com forum: It's your loss. ...

By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Really. ...its like being in a playground at times, but it did make me smile .....I'm sure many of you have had worse responses but that one just made me chuckle, I hope he's picked all if his toys up off the floor now.

Happy Sunday

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn't change your mind after that message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole place is a playground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their logic. You’ve missed out on the chance to meet someone you didn’t want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes them feel better I guess. Although sometimes I’ll point out it isn’t my loss; in order for me to feel ‘loss’, I needed to want it in the first place. And I clearly didn’t.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It might be, but it's my choice to lose.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

At least your smiling about it

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By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"You didn't change your mind after that message ? "

Yes, it made me want to rush round and throw myself at him incase I'd missed something......errrr no

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By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Makes them feel better I guess. Although sometimes I’ll point out it isn’t my loss; in order for me to feel ‘loss’, I needed to want it in the first place. And I clearly didn’t.

Very true, but I truly cannot be arsed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn't change your mind after that message ?

Yes, it made me want to rush round and throw myself at him incase I'd missed something......errrr no"

You loss I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least your smiling about it

That’s wind.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

He’d best not message me now, in a strop, or i’ll blame you!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

"At least your smiling about it

That’s wind."

Still smiling though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's this one guy, he's messaged me on loads of apps and sites. I think he must just bombard everyone, and I do know who he is, and I personally can't stand him. But whenever I do a new profile he tries it on, then he's abusive. He's sooooo funny.

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By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"He’d best not message me now, in a strop, or i’ll blame you!

But if he did he would be thinking he was doing YOU the favour lol.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Lol was your loss meeting him or his ego?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that's a quite common response I get on here. Same as "You don't know what you're missing" or "You won't know until you try" etc.

I don't want to. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be something in the air! We had the same.....

He was genuine and would of met!....

I haven't stop crying since

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By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"You didn't change your mind after that message ?

Yes, it made me want to rush round and throw myself at him incase I'd missed something......errrr no

You loss I guess

Yes, I will wonder about it for the rest of my life...what could have been.....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Oh that's a quite common response I get on here. Same as "You don't know what you're missing" or "You won't know until you try" etc.

I don't want to. Thanks."

I often get this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he friend request you afterwards...?

Xteve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to have a mail box tidy is to delete them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn't change your mind after that message ?

Yes, it made me want to rush round and throw myself at him incase I'd missed something......errrr no

You loss I guess

Yes, I will wonder about it for the rest of my life...what could have been....."

Stop wondering and contacting him again love

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

At least he didn’t go all out and abuse you with a few expletives

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By *ister ManagementMan
over a year ago

Close by

True. Why can’t people just be nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

I hope you've took time out to reflect on your initial decision OP.

I often get "you're a dog/fat/ugly/slag anyway!" and then blocked. It breaks my heart that I missed out on the opportunity to meet such charming gents x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

I hope you've took time out to reflect on your initial decision OP.

I often get "you're a dog/fat/ugly/slag anyway!" and then blocked. It breaks my heart that I missed out on the opportunity to meet such charming gents x"

This sort of thing actually happens right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey. We’ve had plenty of insults but that’s a new one; I suspect it’s his loss but there you go. We are getting a lot of “why not?” messages now. How do you reply to those?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This whole place is a playground

yup!

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By *arsharkMan
over a year ago

Burnley

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

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polite declines are few and far between. I’m grateful when I receive one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reply I hate is "shame".

No it isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reply I hate is "shame".

No it isn't!"

It’s only ever guys that send that to me

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By *llaboutthewife OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

polite declines are few and far between. I’m grateful when I receive one"

If a guy takes time to write a nice message I do try to go back.

Many I delete because they are foul. Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

I hope you've took time out to reflect on your initial decision OP.

I often get "you're a dog/fat/ugly/slag anyway!" and then blocked. It breaks my heart that I missed out on the opportunity to meet such charming gents x

This sort of thing actually happens right. "

Absolutely

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I get " your a sad loser" quite a lot. Little do they know. It amuses me now

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

You've lost out on someone you chose not to meet anyway. Oh dear.. Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How often do we see on the forum “It’s their loss” used though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do we see on the forum “It’s their loss” used though?"

Good point

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think once someone has had a no thank you the messages should stop there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think once someone has had a no thank you the messages should stop there. "

Then stop messaging me ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just soothing their ego, just like those that choose to respond with an insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey. We’ve had plenty of insults but that’s a new one; I suspect it’s his loss but there you go. We are getting a lot of “why not?” messages now. How do you reply to those? "

I reply 'what difference would that make? I said no thank you.'

I think it's the weirdest reply ever, "why not?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm sat here having a bit of a mailbox tidy as you do.

Some guy has messaged us with an offer we are not interested in (surprise surprise) so I go back and politely decline.

And he comes back with 'it's your loss'

Happy Sunday

Jo x

I hope you've took time out to reflect on your initial decision OP.

I often get "you're a dog/fat/ugly/slag anyway!" and then blocked. It breaks my heart that I missed out on the opportunity to meet such charming gents x"

Christ you must use some amazing camera angles to hide all that flab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'It's your loss' is up there with 'that's a shame'

I wish I could be enlightened on why they feel that is so, but that would give them the green light to continue communications.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My favourite was a guy who kept on messaging me most of the night, I’d been nice and made an excuse about going out. Then another message asking why I was online. I decided then to be blunt. Basically said I didn’t find him attractive but I’m sure other TGirls may. He came back with ‘who’d want to shag a tranny anyway!!!’

I was tempted to reply ‘YOU!’ but just blocked him instead

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