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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t be that ugly no one reply’s

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You're not that ugly. The site is just that hard for guys, I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

There's so many men on here compared to woman don't let it bother you if you put the effort in it will happen

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

You r in the right place here in the forums talk to people comment on posts make friends it will lead to meets chin up mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers dude

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Definitely not ugly. Its only been 9 weeks and you already got a veri. Id say you doing better than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more guys on this site than females, the ladies are pestered everyday by guys and cock pics and messages like "wanna fuck"

I find it hard to hold a convo on here but it is what it is

But there's some genuine ladies on here, all you have to do is be different on your messages and be genuine and it will flow from there...

Also if anyone has any tip please share them

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

No worries my fellow jack

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Definitely not ugly. Its only been 9 weeks and you already got a veri. Id say you doing better than most. "

Oh hello

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I can’t be that ugly no one reply’s "
You are not ugly x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Definitely not ugly. Its only been 9 weeks and you already got a veri. Id say you doing better than most. "

It took me 9 months before I got a meet off here, but even then I wasn't sending faf messages. Get to know people on the forums, show a little humour and respect, and treat it as another tool in your box. I bet you would do better at pulling a lady in a pub than I would

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Definitely not ugly. Its only been 9 weeks and you already got a veri. Id say you doing better than most.

Oh hello "

Bonjour

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I don't think you're ugly but I think most do not know where Swanswa is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join this thread?? I feel ugly inside because I'm too nice and respectful and it doesn't get me anywhere on here or in clubs

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I don't think you're ugly but I think most do not know where Swanswa is. "

It's been pointed out before.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't think you're ugly but I think most do not know where Swanswa is.

It's been pointed out before. "

Maybe he lives in Cardifwa

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You're not ugly at all, but maybe you're not sending anything worth replying to. What's your first message usually like?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I can’t be that ugly no one reply’s "

If you're using Swanswa as your return address I'm not surprised.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can I join this thread?? I feel ugly inside because I'm too nice and respectful and it doesn't get me anywhere on here or in clubs "

Being respectful isn't a bad thing at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s your approach

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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You’re not ugly at all OP. It’s just Fab life unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really not very hard, you just need a clever approach. Same old will just make you a number, ugly or not......

Dig deep!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a ugly word. I don't believe anyone is ugly just types we are physically attractived to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are ugly at all but the way you hold your phone may makes women things that you are into men.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nothing to do with looks OP- yes attraction comes into it and you can't be physically attractive to all, but regardless of looks it comes down to a number of factors ultimately.

Profile - is yours the best reflection of you, what you're looking for, and can offer possible? Does it entice and pique interest? Take a look and be honest with yourself, would you reply to you if you sent yourself a message? People will look at your profile before even opening a message, and often make a decision based on that.

Pics - do they show your body off, and tease and tantalise, making someone want to see more?

Attitude - be positive at all times, without being arrogant

Approach - often guys think sending cold messages is the only way to interact, if you find that's not working for you, think about how else you could use the site and the lifestyle to get to know people and them you - the forums are a great way, and the chat rooms too, or clubs and group socials.

Expectations - set them to the lowest possible setting and then take them down a notch further.

None of the above is a guarantee of course, but it will enhance your experience of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ugly as well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t be that ugly no one reply’s "
no your not i am ugliness one on here

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By *0xy_minxWoman
over a year ago

telford

Not ugly just too far away I wouldn’t say no if you were close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly isn't what people are....

It's what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I join this thread?? I feel ugly inside because I'm too nice and respectful and it doesn't get me anywhere on here or in clubs

Being respectful isn't a bad thing at all... "

I'm a shy kind of respectful atm

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