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By *iamondCougar OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m often asked ‘ so how did you find fab and is is what you expected’

It’s a strange place at times... my Fwb wrote the website on the back of my hand with the instructions ‘ Go have some fun’

I enjoy being here, sometimes it’s really good, sometimes not but for me it’s a Mr Benn experience. Every time I press this ere’ fab icon I step into another world beyond my norm and into a ME no one but those here would recognise! When I close the app normality resumes

What is FAB to you? And how did you find yourself here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 01/06/19 11:21:20]"

you need to write something not just quote her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

"

Then your world is a dark place young man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty much the same as you DC.

Although I found it by googling bicurious as I wanted to maybe meet some women. Never ever intended on meeting any men originally. It worked, I met a few lovely women. As for the men, had a few socials but only met 2 I really liked in all that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!"

Colons are pretty dark to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 01/06/19 11:21:20]

you need to write something not just quote her "

Haha I’m not sure what happened there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was another site .. years ago I was in with my ex husband

It led me here in 2008/9

So on and off until now ... but now I’m on a dating site too as my daughters older and my life can move on to the next chapter so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of posting my provocatively posed pics on Instagram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!

Colons are pretty dark to be fair"

My colon is rainbow colours with natural light producing fairy dust. You shouldn't judge colons based on your dark experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the shop keeper appears do you keep a souvenir of your meets

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I log on and do my thing then log off and not give it a thought.

I like talking to the people I interact with and if it’s something I really enjoy doing then I will chat elsewhere but I only do that with 3/4 people.

I don’t take it too seriously. I never expect anything but have been pleasantly surprised at times. I’ve been shocked at other times though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my escape from reality.

The small circle of friends who are getting to know the real me accept me without judgement. I'm not expected to be anything other than myself.

There are times when I wonder if I fit in, particularly when the inbox is a bit stagnant, but then I remind myself that the friends I have here value my opinion, my occasional wise words. Some of them even find me attractive!

However I know it isn't reality, so I totally get the Mr Benn experience DC x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!

Colons are pretty dark to be fair

My colon is rainbow colours with natural light producing fairy dust. You shouldn't judge colons based on your dark experiences x "

Let me tell you something you already know. The colons ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very dark and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will shit on you upto your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

An escape from the drudgery of everyday life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!

Colons are pretty dark to be fair

My colon is rainbow colours with natural light producing fairy dust. You shouldn't judge colons based on your dark experiences x

Let me tell you something you already know. The colons ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very dark and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will shit on you upto your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!

Colons are pretty dark to be fair

My colon is rainbow colours with natural light producing fairy dust. You shouldn't judge colons based on your dark experiences x

Let me tell you something you already know. The colons ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very dark and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will shit on you upto your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

"

I guess you've never heard that slightly changed movie quote before then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been quite a journey.. I joined many years ago on the recommendation of a kinkster friend. Had a couple of longer term fwbs over the years and gradually life's just changed. I stopped meeting some time ago and found the forums, which have allowed me to make some great friends and just enjoy the social side. I can take it or leave it now...

We met on the forum but our real life is completely non fab. That will always come first so for now I'm here purely for entertainment.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't talk that much about anuses outside fab.

Then your world is a dark place young man!

Colons are pretty dark to be fair

My colon is rainbow colours with natural light producing fairy dust. You shouldn't judge colons based on your dark experiences x

Let me tell you something you already know. The colons ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very dark and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are, it will shit on you upto your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

I guess you've never heard that slightly changed movie quote before then "

I don't want to think about my colon that way at all. And it did seem vaguely familiar.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"There was another site .. years ago I was in with my ex husband

It led me here in 2008/9

So on and off until now ... but now I’m on a dating site too as my daughters older and my life can move on to the next chapter so to speak "

A (non fab) friend of mine is on a paid for dating site & she's finding the whole thing really tough - men seemingly just out for one thing/ghosting etc. She never expected it to be so hard. She genuinely wants a relationship but even dating sites seem to be turning into hook up sites! I hope you're having better luck!

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By *iamondCougar OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When the shop keeper appears do you keep a souvenir of your meets "

Ha ha no but nice memories

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I’m often asked ‘ so how did you find fab and is is what you expected’

It’s a strange place at times... my Fwb wrote the website on the back of my hand with the instructions ‘ Go have some fun’

I enjoy being here, sometimes it’s really good, sometimes not but for me it’s a Mr Benn experience. Every time I press this ere’ fab icon I step into another world beyond my norm and into a ME no one but those here would recognise! When I close the app normality resumes

What is FAB to you? And how did you find yourself here?"

I was chatting to someone on another site, she mentioned going to a house party and watching people fuck.

I asked how she found out about the party, she said Fab.

BRB......

Google.

Join.

WOW!!!!!!!

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By *iamondCougar OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"There was another site .. years ago I was in with my ex husband

It led me here in 2008/9

So on and off until now ... but now I’m on a dating site too as my daughters older and my life can move on to the next chapter so to speak

A (non fab) friend of mine is on a paid for dating site & she's finding the whole thing really tough - men seemingly just out for one thing/ghosting etc. She never expected it to be so hard. She genuinely wants a relationship but even dating sites seem to be turning into hook up sites! I hope you're having better luck! "

That’s why I stopped using dating sites. Paying for the privilege does not necessarily mean a better calibre of users!

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By *iamondCougar OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I’m often asked ‘ so how did you find fab and is is what you expected’

It’s a strange place at times... my Fwb wrote the website on the back of my hand with the instructions ‘ Go have some fun’

I enjoy being here, sometimes it’s really good, sometimes not but for me it’s a Mr Benn experience. Every time I press this ere’ fab icon I step into another world beyond my norm and into a ME no one but those here would recognise! When I close the app normality resumes

What is FAB to you? And how did you find yourself here?

I was chatting to someone on another site, she mentioned going to a house party and watching people fuck.

I asked how she found out about the party, she said Fab.

BRB......

Google.

Join.

WOW!!!!!!!

"

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Came from another site a decade or so ago. Why? I don't like spending evenings/weekends alone and I get to meet liberated and in the main lovely people

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Escapism for me I guess!

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