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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

From the site,

I often read statuses and forum posts from folk saying things like..

No good single men out there.

We can't find a single lady

Timewasters.

Why can't I get a meet.

Etc etc..

So what are your expectations ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"From the site,

I often read statuses and forum posts from folk saying things like..

No good single men out there.

We can't find a single lady

Timewasters.

Why can't I get a meet.

Etc etc..

So what are your expectations ??

"

I don't have any and then I'm a, not disappointed and b, if anything does happen it's a nice bonus

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

An expectation that I can 'chav rant' at least once per day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real expectations...

To be lied to

To be attempted to be taken for a fool

To be contacted by people who aren't sober for a last minute meet

For some people to mutter under their breath or spit venom when they see my name

My hopes on the other hand are far different

I hope I bring joy to others peoples day

I hope to make genuine mates, who have our best interests at heart, who tell the truth even if it hurts because they care.

I hope to see respect

I hope to see people being kind to one another

I hope to see through people that aren't authentic

I hope to get invited to lots of fab weddings

P

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As with everything, keep expectations low. Assuming nothing will happen then you will never be be disappointed but always pleasantly surprised when something slightly nice happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real expectations...

To be lied to

To be attempted to be taken for a fool

To be contacted by people who aren't sober for a last minute meet

For some people to mutter under their breath or spit venom when they see my name.

P"

I can make that happen

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real expectations...

To be lied to

To be attempted to be taken for a fool

To be contacted by people who aren't sober for a last minute meet

For some people to mutter under their breath or spit venom when they see my name.

P

I can make that happen "

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Expect nothing that way if something does come from being on here it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have expectations when I first joined but when I came back after a break I gave up.

Everyone is different and want different things. Just need to accept and crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real expectations...

To be lied to

To be attempted to be taken for a fool

To be contacted by people who aren't sober for a last minute meet

For some people to mutter under their breath or spit venom when they see my name

My hopes on the other hand are far different

I hope I bring joy to others peoples day

I hope to make genuine mates, who have our best interests at heart, who tell the truth even if it hurts because they care.

I hope to see respect

I hope to see people being kind to one another

I hope to see through people that aren't authentic

I hope to get invited to lots of fab weddings

P"

Sums it up perfectly!! Saff x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whatever mine are - they've been surpassed

When I set up this profile...

I never expected to have people show enough interest in me to want to meet me...they have

I never expected people to find me attractive...they have (although I have sent them all a complimentary Specsavers voucher )

I never expected to find people who I could truly call a friend - the kind of friend who I could turn to with anything and know they'd be there for me...I have

I never expected to have some of the experiences Fab has allowed me to...I have

I never expected to be comfortable taking naked pics of myself and posting them for people to view...I am

I never expected people to like those same pics....they do

And a lot more besides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have any. I just come hang around and hope to find interesting people and see what happens.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Whatever mine are - they've been surpassed

When I set up this profile...

I never expected to have people show enough interest in me to want to meet me...they have

I never expected people to find me attractive...they have (although I have sent them all a complimentary Specsavers voucher )

I never expected to find people who I could truly call a friend - the kind of friend who I could turn to with anything and know they'd be there for me...I have

I never expected to have some of the experiences Fab has allowed me to...I have

I never expected to be comfortable taking naked pics of myself and posting them for people to view...I am

I never expected people to like those same pics....they do

And a lot more besides "

Me too, for all of these. The experiences I’ve been able to share have amazing too

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sex on tap, that's not much to ask is it?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Lifelong service medal

Bravery award

Gold (plated) pocket watch

First name terms with one of the checkout ladies in Waitrose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To actually chat/meet serious people who enjoy this lifestyle also showing a bit of respect to others and some self respect.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I don't have any expectations, I'm just seeing what happens, but I also know what I would and wouldn't like. So I just tend to go with that and anything else us a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any....wait that’s a lie....I expect not to get a response, I expect not to be the persons type.....it’s the recipe for not being disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I didn't have any expectations, I hoped that I'd find nice people to chat with.

My expectations were probably that I'd be ignored.

Years later, I still don't have expectations but my hopes have been surpassed every single time.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any. If I find what I want I do, if I don’t I don’t.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

To meet other Tgirls mainly as friends to go to clubs, parties etc..

A genuinely nice guy or girl as something more than just friends.

To know about parties and clubs, see the advertisements and attend when I can.

For the forums, as they do occasionally educate and make me laugh

I'd say all of the above has happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect you guys to entertain me occasionally. My expectations have changed slightly since setting up a couples profile - these days I expect cock, lots of it....

Xteve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any...

That way I am never disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d assumed that it would be less vanilla. I found everyone to be promiscuous yet, very vanilla with their desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect cleanliness and honesty! Others expect the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has no one said "Great" yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really I have very few expectations....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None "

Same. And my expectations are rarely met.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

None ...it’s just a jovial hobby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few, anything that happens is a bonus.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The site? Not much. To function.

The people on the site? Very little, and I had no expectations upon joining. Now, trawling through messages to find people who suit me.

The people I engage with? My expectations are very high. But then that was always so. I'm careful. My expectations are usually met once/ surpassed I've vetted.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The site? Not much. To function.

The people on the site? Very little, and I had no expectations upon joining. Now, trawling through messages to find people who suit me.

The people I engage with? My expectations are very high. But then that was always so. I'm careful. My expectations are usually met once/ surpassed I've vetted. "

Met/ surpassed. Damn it.

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By *ottyNStripes30Couple
over a year ago

Oakham

I expect that with patience we will find a sexy couple to have a giggle with and fuck silly one day, but for now no rush and enjoy the view.

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By *rincessPussycatTV/TS
over a year ago

a world of her own

Been here too long now to have any naive expectations.

I just kill time here, and hope occasionally to find people who tick all the right boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect to roll my eyes at least ten times a day on here. This expectation is always exceeded.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I don't have any anything more than that is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any anything more than that is a bonus "

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Personally I'd don't have any expectations and think it's wrong to. If I get on with someone that's great. If anything more comes from it then it's an added bonus.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The only expectations we have are on ourselves - that we are friendly, approachable and respectful.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Very little.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I expect to roll my eyes at least ten times a day on here. This expectation is always exceeded."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expected there to be men. And, Here they are. In all their lovely manliness.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"My real expectations...

To be lied to

To be attempted to be taken for a fool

To be contacted by people who aren't sober for a last minute meet

For some people to mutter under their breath or spit venom when they see my name

My hopes on the other hand are far different

I hope I bring joy to others peoples day

I hope to make genuine mates, who have our best interests at heart, who tell the truth even if it hurts because they care.

I hope to see respect

I hope to see people being kind to one another

I hope to see through people that aren't authentic

I hope to get invited to lots of fab weddings

P"

Exactly!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I at least expect my intentions (if I make them clear) to be taken seriously.

Rarely they are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predominantly, I expect most people to be so cynical that they assume the worst of everything..

beyond that, not a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect some interesting shit on the forum. Anything else is a bonus!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My hopes on the other hand are far different

I hope I bring joy to others peoples day

I hope to make genuine mates, who have our best interests at heart, who tell the truth even if it hurts because they care.

I hope to see respect

I hope to see people being kind to one another

I hope to see through people that aren't authentic

I hope to get invited to lots of fab weddings

P"

Aww I love these so much. Yes, I don't have any expectations apart from continuing to enjoy it. But those up there are hopes I have as well.

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