FabSwingers.com forum: Are you good at flirting?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Care to share any tips for those of us lacking in that department? (amusing or otherwise)

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Care to share any tips for those of us lacking in that department? (amusing or otherwise) "

I second that, I'm rubbish at flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have lost the ability to flirt x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn"

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I do it far more than I realise (as my partner often points out).

My biggest problem is the flip of that; I'm often obvious to when people are flirting with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person yes, although if I'm distracted I often miss being flirted with until afterwards.....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm terrible at it too, so I'm here for the tips. I fear I will never be a skilled flirt though

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Flipping hopeless at both flirting and recognising that I am being flirted with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who with. If they have a similar sense of humour, then yes. Always helps to look at their mouth and then eyes, then mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it is one skill I have and can adapt depending on the person I am aiming it at. It would be hard to teach though I think? You may already be good at it but not realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I am but I don’t mean to and it’s often taken as flirting when it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I am but I don’t mean to and it’s often taken as flirting when it’s not.

No, you're totally flirting with me...

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

With men yes.

It's about having sass and confidence and giving away just enough in a conversation to hint at a naughty wicked side.

With women it's about a return to grunts and coming out with random weird things.

(I'm so ruddy bad at flirting with women)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you flirt

I used to get into trouble flirting but i have no idea how to. Feel silly trying to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I am but I don’t mean to and it’s often taken as flirting when it’s not.

No, you're totally flirting with me...

Of course not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?"

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I suck at flirting... fortunately though I found that just talking to someone like an actual human being, without any suggestions or intentions gets you much further then anything else anyway.

Just be yourself

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Love a bit of flirting and sexual innuendo

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m slightly better on here than in real life and I’m pretty bad on here!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't "

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I suck at flirting... fortunately though I found that just talking to someone like an actual human being, without any suggestions or intentions gets you much further then anything else anyway.

Just be yourself"

Exactly. Be yourself. I really don’t think you can try to be flirty, or sexy or confident. You are what you are.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I am rubbish at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc. "

Flirting is by its nature subtle. A sophisticated social skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't "

Yep.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Humour, compliments, banter. It comes with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely have no idea!! I think I'd probably come across as quite klutsy rather than sexy and flirtatious but I'm OK with that! I don't think sexy will ever be part of my personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I suck at flirting... fortunately though I found that just talking to someone like an actual human being, without any suggestions or intentions gets you much further then anything else anyway.

Just be yourself

Exactly. Be yourself. I really don’t think you can try to be flirty, or sexy or confident. You are what you are. "

Totally, it fits with that old adage of ‘you find someone when you stop looking’ too, natural looks more confident I think, and that’s a massive thing in attraction for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm excellent at flirting it's just that my victim erm sorry, I mean potential friend doesn't actually realise it.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Terrible at flirting, really struggle to see when someone is flirting with me in person and through messages

A big neon sign would be very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Love a bit of flirting and sexual innuendo

Me too, love double entendres, it’s hard to keep a straight face sometimes

I think it comes down to attraction, similar sense of humour and a twinkle in the eyes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

Definitely. Although that can be a bit much sometime. I met someone socially and it felt like an interrogation! He literally never took his eyes off mine. Just stared at me the whole time whilst he was talking.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc.

Flirting is by its nature subtle. A sophisticated social skill"

That's me out then

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

Don't tell everyone

haha

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Love a bit of flirting and sexual innuendo

Me too, love double entendres, it’s hard to keep a straight face sometimes

I think it comes down to attraction, similar sense of humour and a twinkle in the eyes.."

My builders and I had great fun last week with a conversation that started off about a wrap around extension and went rapidly downhill after that. The joys of working on a building site lol. Bloody love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

Don't tell everyone

haha"

lol. I liked it in the end as I was quite shy and he was so over confident, bordering on the arrogant that it totally made me go the other way. I did exactly the same back and I won in the end

. He looked away first lol.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc. "

Good for you! I dont suppose there is any spare confidence going around at all?

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc.

Good for you! I dont suppose there is any spare confidence going around at all?

Hard won, sadly!

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m really bad at flirting! I usually give that look

and play with my hair. Sometimes it works but mostly it could come off very awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a massive flirt! Good eye contact, lots of smiles and a bit of banter would by my top 3 to use when flirting though every woman and every situation is different. Confidence probably plays the biggest factor, if you can talk naturally and look at ease and not trip over your words then you're doing rightly

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m pretty good at it .... lots of eye contact and touching of arms etc ... and twirl your hair though mines not long enough but apparently it’s a good option

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm a massive flirt! Good eye contact, lots of smiles and a bit of banter would by my top 3 to use when flirting though every woman and every situation is different. Confidence probably plays the biggest factor, if you can talk naturally and look at ease and not trip over your words then you're doing rightly

I can do that but it doesn't seem flirty when you're talking pseudo-intellectual bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Care to share any tips for those of us lacking in that department? (amusing or otherwise) "

"i say, that's a smashing blouse your wearing! "

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

I am a born flirt.

Goose step into a room, scan, lock on targets and zoom in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do that but it doesn't seem flirty when you're talking pseudo-intellectual bollocks

Change your topic of conversation to suit the situation...or just compliment the guy on his looks or dress sense and hopefully he'll then compliment you back

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I am really good at flirting...

...or I am rubbish instead.

That depends on your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can practise on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

Very much so, and body language generally.. A look, a smile, the way you move...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If I try, I'm rubbish. I do it without even realising x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.... Do you like bread?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

Very much so, and body language generally.. A look, a smile, the way you move... "

... the distance you throw your knickers... All subtle clues to the wonderful dance that is flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m awful at it and you have to hit me with a bat for me to realise

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’m awful at it and you have to hit me with a bat for me to realise "

I get a lot of offers for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m awful at it and you have to hit me with a bat for me to realise

I get a lot of offers for that

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Lmao what’s your fave bat

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Talk about your dorky, nerdy stuff. Embrace it. It can be hot and flirty in its own special way (well works for me).

Other than that, and this isn't a self deprecating thing, I'm dire at flirting but fully embracing my cheese.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

I flirt without meaning to, but can't flirt when i want to

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Not the best at initiating- but very good at responding. Put it down to my slight shyness as a teen and my incredible good looks that probably made me complacent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I was good at it, but not sure now. It might be that it simply doesn’t work for me anymore

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Talk about your dorky, nerdy stuff. Embrace it. It can be hot and flirty in its own special way (well works for me).

Other than that, and this isn't a self deprecating thing, I'm dire at flirting but fully embracing my cheese.

I do. It's just... incredibly hit and miss haha

It's a beautiful thing when I find my people though. I remember deciding in my head that one guy was a go after we got into an argument about etymology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahahahahah!

Erm, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me think.....

Hmmmm....

Right up there with a chocolate fireguard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m absolutely terrible

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By *rincess and her FrogCouple
over a year ago

congleton

Definitely not

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No, I’m absolutely terrible

Really? Out of the forum users I'd say you were probably one of the flirtiest and quite good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no idea what flirting is tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be able to channel my inner Nigella at will, although I suspect she doesn't actually exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m absolutely terrible

Really? Out of the forum users I'd say you were probably one of the flirtiest and quite good at it."

That’s what I thought- Cheeky you’re naturally flirtatious on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I am but I don’t mean to and it’s often taken as flirting when it’s not.

I seem to be excellent at accidental flirting - I think I need to wear tenna flirt absorbing pads or some shit...

Steve x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No, I’m absolutely terrible

You know that time you pushed your norks in my face and stuck your hand down the front of my trousers? That’s definitely flirting although the coy expression was a bit misplaced

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Be nice and polite, flirting and charm will just occur naturally - so much harder though if the person your messaging is playing the one word answer game.

Confidence certainly grows with the more positive responses though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MUST be able to send dick pics in conjunction with first message

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I cannot flirt. I laugh, I have a joke, I love a good chat but flirting escapes me. This is exactly how I flirt on here

which obviously means you can’t take any of it seriously

The only person I attempt to flirt with is G3orgie because he puts up with my silliness and doesn’t laugh

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t think I’m any good at flirting at all, but people say I am.

I’m just being my friendly self so if that constitutes flirting, job done

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Mrs is but me not very good or picking up on signals that ladies want to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopeless

I even texting get tied while tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hopeless

I even texting get tied while tongue "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's a beautiful thing when I find my people though. I remember deciding in my head that one guy was a go after we got into an argument about etymology

Finding your people is such a lovely thing! It makes someone a must do. Right now I'm being reminded how much I like someone because they are geeking out over something they read 25 years ago - definitely worth a few more shags.

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By *hooter McGavinMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I’m terrible at it, doing it and seeing it being done to me............when it does lol

I’m so unlucky......if I fell in to a barrel of tits I would come out sucking my own thumb lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's a beautiful thing when I find my people though. I remember deciding in my head that one guy was a go after we got into an argument about etymology

Been shagging my etymology guy for over a year now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

I think that is down to both what is said and how it is said. Using intonation on certain words is often a clue along with body language, facial expressions (when timed appropriately) and eye contact. Being tactile can also be a part of flirting too but not too heavily or it may become just groping.

You have to register the respondent too and gauge their reactions, use them or divert them to where or how you want make the conversation either be or appear to be.

It is helpful if the other person understands that they are being flirted with but not essential.

I think I flirt and I think I do it often.... and yes it has resulted in some interesting situations....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My flirting skills...

Smile and say hi, I never know what else to say

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Smiles awkwardly

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

Absolutely

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

Awe... I’m sure that’s not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Care to share any tips for those of us lacking in that department? (amusing or otherwise) "

From the none responses I get it would appear not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People barely notice when I'm gently flirting with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

Awe... I’m sure that’s not true "

It is DC. I am amazed how many lovely conversations I kill with an ill timed, poorly crafted or just inappropriate bit of flirting.

I’ve done it twice just today

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

I’m sure you’ve got a way with words Doc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more nervous on here in ok when I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt all day every day and doesn't matter whether you're young old male or female!! Has very little to do with sexual chemistry type flirting ... though I do do that too

it's a very natural part of who I am but OMG haven't a clue if someone is flirting with me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dreadful at flirting.. someone's either in the same mindset or not with me.. and I only know that for sure by meeting face to face. My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

I’m sure you’ve got a way with words Doc

My poor timing and ability to get it wrong are brilliant though. Perhaps I simply choose unattainable women to flirt with

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff "

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation."

Totally.. really need someone to bounce off and laugh with. That's very sexy!!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation."

Are you me?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation.

Are you me?

We're eerily alike in some things. Not a bad thing.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation.

Are you me?

We're eerily alike in some things. Not a bad thing.

Indeed not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m absolutely rubbish at flirting

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation.

Are you me?

We're eerily alike in some things. Not a bad thing.

Makes it easier to pick my threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at flirting, and I can never tell if anyone is flirting with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im crap at flirting and unless someone holds up a sign i dont know they are flirting with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I become a gooey mess when in front of someone I fancy!!! ‘So, you like....stuff’?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My attempt at flirting is to take the mick, which can easily be misinterpreted.

Saff

I do this. It's hot when you find someone who can give as good as they get and enjoy the mental masturbation.

Are you me?

We're eerily alike in some things. Not a bad thing.

Makes it easier to pick my threesome

I was thinking that too but the chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just flip my hair about a bit. Seems to work quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m absolutely terrible

Really? Out of the forum users I'd say you were probably one of the flirtiest and quite good at it."

Thanks Meli

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

Awe... I’m sure that’s not true

It is DC. I am amazed how many lovely conversations I kill with an ill timed, poorly crafted or just inappropriate bit of flirting.

I’ve done it twice just today

You need to practice on someone

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You tell me sugar tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the real reason there are so many singles on here? Because we're all shite at flirting and can't get laid otherwise?

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By *reolaloverMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *reolaloverMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Opposite, I find it easier to flirt and pick up at bars.

This place it's all about the mystery and being sexually aroused by pseudonyms until of course the big reveal.

A monkey with a vag would get a millions messages on this place, so even though it's unrealistic competition it's difficult to wade through."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

Awe... I’m sure that’s not true

It is DC. I am amazed how many lovely conversations I kill with an ill timed, poorly crafted or just inappropriate bit of flirting.

I’ve done it twice just today

You need to practice on someone"

I’m all for practice, I need teaching a lesson or two

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get accused of flirting a lot when in my eyes I'm just being friendly.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My friends say I’m a natural flirt, I don’t realise I’m doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I think it either comes naturally or it doesn't, it's impossible to learn

Do you not think its partly to do with confidence?

Very much so, and I think you either have confidence or you don't

I've gained a lot of confidence recently (and I think that can be acquired) but I don't think that always translates to finding the lines between friendly, flirtatious, overt, crude, etc.

Flirting is by its nature subtle. A sophisticated social skill"

So my 'Get it here' sign is too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Nada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me last :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have to be careful when flirting as to not get sexual harrasment charges

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Flirting has to be both recognised and reciprocal .... otherwise it’s totally lost!

I believe I’m fairly adept at both flirting and innuendo

Exactly this!

If someone is on the same mindset as you, the flirting and innuendo just flows and you both understand what your talking about

That’s where I go wrong, I regularly miss the brick line and it all comes to a shuddering halt

Awe... I’m sure that’s not true

It is DC. I am amazed how many lovely conversations I kill with an ill timed, poorly crafted or just inappropriate bit of flirting.

I’ve done it twice just today

You need to practice on someone

I’m all for practice, I need teaching a lesson or two

Practice makes perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I'm terrible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spurschick you can flirt with me anytime lol xx

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It’s all in the eye contact as well as what comes across verbally

This gentleman knows......

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

Who me? Are you sure

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

Who me? Are you sure

Yess you ....... fluttering them eyelashes won't help you either

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

Who me? Are you sure

Yess you ....... fluttering them eyelashes won't help you either

Ok maybe I was a little eager to say I was good. Maybe I’m just average or am I not that good

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

Who me? Are you sure

Yess you ....... fluttering them eyelashes won't help you either

Ok maybe I was a little eager to say I was good. Maybe I’m just average or am I not that good

Awwwwww hugs......your average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just chat my way through clubs ... Smiling seems to help. I guess I'm the opposite of fab meeting as I only ever at in clubs. Only ever go with trim or trusted friends and will only ever play with those that I take a liking too in clubs. Meeting people organically is my preference when in clubs. Go with the flow kinda girl.

I guess I'm old school... This whole online thing is cool n all but it's very unlikely I'd meet people off here from only chatting to them on here. Mind there are a couple of folks I'd love to meet. A couple who are local and from the convos I've had are awesome. A white Scottish guy who is just so chilled out that I'd happily be friends and a couple of black guys ... One I've met at a club and one I haven't ever met but is just so interesting that one can't help but to want to meet even if it's for conversation alone.

Your someone I'd love to meet in a club... think you'd be super interesting. Plus ... Do you get your dresses from deadly is the female ?

So up your alley

Not charging you up or nothing ... But very hot look

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

"I like to think I’m pretty good at it to be fair

What you do is not flirting my friend....

Who me? Are you sure

Yess you ....... fluttering them eyelashes won't help you either

Ok maybe I was a little eager to say I was good. Maybe I’m just average or am I not that good

Awwwwww hugs......your average

Average is good with me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete amateur! But very enthusiastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s safe to say I’m awful at it. Reading the tips as we speak

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Care to share any tips for those of us lacking in that department? (amusing or otherwise) "

Give me a sly wink and I'll tell you all my secrets. It won't take long.

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