FabSwingers.com forum: Stuck up men and women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

Nope. For a multitude of reasons. Nobody is obliged to chat. Nice sometimes when you catch someone's eye and exchange a few words over a random situation.. but it's a two way decision. I'd hate some randomer coming up to me out!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?

Saff.. soz.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

It’s a bit weird and quite invasive. I had a guy talk to me on the train, blurting out words for The Wordscapes game I was playing. Rude.

Women have extra cause to be wary. At least I don’t feel I have to discern nefarious intent. So no, not stuck up.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I absolutely hate being approached so yeah, maybe I’m stuck up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?

It’s a bit weird and quite invasive. I had a guy talk to me on the train, blurting out words for The Wordscapes game I was playing. Rude.

Women have extra cause to be wary. At least I don’t feel I have to discern nefarious intent. So no, not stuck up. "

Ooooh I would have decked him. I love wordscapes, even if I do struggle at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely hate being approached so yeah, maybe I’m stuck up.

I don’t think it’s stuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll talk to anyone as long as they are polite and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely hate being approached so yeah, maybe I’m stuck up.

Nah you just like your own space?

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

Im generally stuck up anyway. I dont even like talking to my friends sometimes! Im just not very sociable.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

All depends on the circumstances and who it is.

Unfortunately a lot of people have ulterior motives ie chuggers etc

Had a guy approach me a few weeks ago trying to be extra friendly, happy d*unk but he was trying to steal my watch(using distraction techniques)

It didn't end well for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

I don't think it's stuck up at all. You don't owe a stranger a conversation. I wouldn't even call it rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the scenario. Out and about, I assume someone is trying to sell me something.

On a train, at the beach, in a spa... some people are more chatty than others.

I wouldn't instigate but I'd usually engage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will talk to anyone. I have lost count how many times I’ve had the talk form jehovas’s witnesses

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm stuck up according to some people.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

If I’m in a sociable mood then it’s great, if not I smile and turn back to what I’m doing.

If I’m sat somewhere knitting I often get people come upto me and talk to me about what I’m making. If I’m feeling sociable I will knit and enjoy the interaction. If I’m in a grumpy or unsociable mood I will often be using an electronic device and don’t notice other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day. "

What if I’m having it tough?

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Depends. On were i am. I don't assume people should automatically chat to me or i should them. It's not being stuck up or not. My view more respect on the situation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

What if I’m having it tough? "

You can't be having it tough, you're a good looking woman so must be smiley and sociable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

What if I’m having it tough?

You can't be having it tough, you're a good looking woman so must be smiley and sociable

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Often my shyness could often be mistaken for rudeness. Which held me back a lot because like to talk.

I am so much more confidend and engage people who talk to me with so much more ease. Infact nowadays sometimes I'm the random stranger trying to engage random people in conversation. The fact I can now be that person makes me so proud and confident in my self. So please don't leave me hanging if I ever strike up a conversation with any one of you guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an interesting point.

Like if a little old lady started talking to me, I’d end up walking her to her destination carrying her bags.

If a hot person started to talk to me I’d clam up.

If a junkie started to talk to me I’d be making my way out of the conversation sharpish!

I’ve no idea what that makes me though

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day. "

I couldn’t disagree with this more. No one is obliged to interact with a stranger. As a women, there’s no way I’m this earth I’d engage with a stranger, bad time for them or not. My safety comes first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s an interesting point.

Like if a little old lady started talking to me, I’d end up walking her to her destination carrying her bags.

If a hot person started to talk to me I’d clam up.

If a junkie started to talk to me I’d be making my way out of the conversation sharpish!

I’ve no idea what that makes me though "

I had a junkie start stripping off in a bus station because I didn’t have 20p for him

I was only about 15 at the time, and he only asked all the younger looking people. Think he thought I’d magically sprout 20p for him if he made me uncomfortable (sorry - off topic!)

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It does depend on the situation but generally if someone says something to me while I'm out and about I tend to say something back to them

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City

if it is a completely random encounter and was sitting on a bench in my own world not really in the mood to engage with any one and some one came and sat next to me and began to strike up a convo it would throw me off and I could be a bit snarky but then something in me always changes my mind because you don't know what sort of frame of the person could be in and soon realise that I should appreciate that person has chosen me to talk to, the person could be suicidal and you/i may be the last face or person they engaged with on earth so I try and give 5 minutes of my time at the end of the 24 hour day what is 5 minutes? you could be making a difference to somebody's life. peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

What if I’m having it tough? "

That’s a good point,and of course you’d just want to get your head down and do your own thing.if theyre in your face annoying then of course that’s not good,and just walk away.

I’m just giving my view on things

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over a year ago

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm not stuck up.

Though I am socially awkward which doesn't help. Plus if I found them attractive I'd be wondering why they suddenly decided to chat with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not stuck up.

Though I am socially awkward which doesn't help. Plus if I found them attractive I'd be wondering why they suddenly decided to chat with me. "

I’m socially awkward as well. To the point where yesterday I was told I’d be seen to in ‘five or ten minutes’ by my doctor. I waited on my hospital bed for an hour and a half before I went looking for someone. I didn’t wanna seem rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m defo stuck up then have a massive disliking for most people so a random walking up isn’t going to get the best kind of reaction . Now a random dog walking up is a different story haha , dogs are awesome

If that makes me stuck up so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the actual meaning of stuck up then it shouldn't have any bearing on this! Unless someone looked down their nose in a very condescending manner whilst thinking how dare they speak to me ... then surely most people just go about minding their business without the need to communicate or wanting the distraction?

I don't even see it as unfriendly even though I'll smile at anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

Like I said,it’s just my opinion and no one is ever obliged to talk to anyone. And of course your safety should always come first.i just think if someone starts talking to me I’ll talk to them. If you don’t feel comfortable then just say bye and walk away. But no one should ever be made to feel uncomfortable,man or woman

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City

"I'm not stuck up.

Though I am socially awkward which doesn't help. Plus if I found them attractive I'd be wondering why they suddenly decided to chat with me.

a real Queen would never be treated like that haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not stuck up.

Though I am socially awkward which doesn't help. Plus if I found them attractive I'd be wondering why they suddenly decided to chat with me.

a real Queen would never be treated like that haha "

Normally I’d have my own private room with my servants. But I wanted to socialise with the peasants

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I don't owe a random stranger.

If they say I need an ambulance or ask for directions, fine.

If they tell me what they think about my face or my clothing or propose marriage, then I'm sure they think I'm rude, but I'm just escaping/ returning awkward to sender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am that person people talk to. Anywhere anytime. I don't mind, I figure some people might be lonely and not gotten to chat to anyone else that day.

My friends say it's because I have the opposite to resting bitch face, I look way too nice, in fact when we go out out they ban me from smiling in pubs cos they're sick of being stuck with the weirdo sitting with us.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I am that person people talk to. Anywhere anytime. I don't mind, I figure some people might be lonely and not gotten to chat to anyone else that day.

I do it myself sometimes. Had some weird fascinating conversations.

But for every "I hear about someone's childhood" there's more than one "you'd look prettier if you smiled" or "you're so beautiful I want to buy you a drink" (I'm in a hurry go away). I think people need to accept that the strategy may backfire spectacularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give off an aura of 'fuck off and leave me alone' so not generally approachable. Even Jehovah's Witnesses think twice before trying to engage with me. But no, I don't see why you should have to chat to random people..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

What day is it ? What time is it ? What worries have I got ? Where am I going ?

Is the stranger smelly? A nutter ? Do I want a wee ? Am I reading ?

Depends dunnit.

Sometimes im full of the joys and would talk to anyone about anything.

Other days my head is fuzzy ( like anyones ) and I just need 'me' time.

Doesn't make me stuck up.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I give off an aura of 'fuck off and leave me alone' so not generally approachable. Even Jehovah's Witnesses think twice before trying to engage with me. But no, I don't see why you should have to chat to random people.."

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am that person people talk to. Anywhere anytime. I don't mind, I figure some people might be lonely and not gotten to chat to anyone else that day.

'Resting bitch face', I love that expression. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

They are good sport. I totally destroyed one self righteous dick on my doorstep, telling his young son that daddy wouldn't allow him to have a blood transfusion and would rather let him die...They haven't been back

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

I like prodding Mormons who think women are equal in their church. Lol.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'll talk to anybody about almost anything. I want talk about sport, unless I'm taking the piss.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

How nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

like the guy who told Jacob Rees-Moggs son that everyone hates his daddy? Using the kid to score points against the parent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day. "

That's a nice way of looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often chat to random people in town or when out walking. Mostly women, I find it quite uplifting. X

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Annoying d*unk Liverpool fan on the last day of the season. Taking my kids home on the train, he's trying to give him his ribena bottle. I don't know what's in it and he doesn't know he's autistic, I'm saying it's alright he doesn't want it, whilst the guy is waving it front of my son.

I had to walk away or I'd have lamped him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

That's a nice way of looking at it. "

Thanks. Obviously if it’s someone d*unk being in your face or making you feel uncomfortable then that’s different,but all in all most people are just friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite socially awkward and like my own space, I do seem to attract the random chatters though. I like to read or faff around on the forums as a way of decompressing after work, often in public spaces as I want to be around people.

Reading or writing by yourself though should be recognised as the international sign of "fuck off".

It's not stuck up, its just about my head space and managing my mood.

Tea

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

I dont ignore them but will chat to them for so long and then excuse myself as im busy and have to go.

Im in a different area at moment if it wasnt for the neighbours saying hi and having a quick chat with me in garden.

Its also the same many a time with deliverys the owners want a chat with you the men more so.

Im not going to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was you op the I would but most people I wouldn’t

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like chatting to random people in the street, subject to car patk ticket allowance

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Annoying d*unk Liverpool fan on the last day of the season. Taking my kids home on the train, he's trying to give him his ribena bottle. I don't know what's in it and he doesn't know he's autistic, I'm saying it's alright he doesn't want it, whilst the guy is waving it front of my son.

I had to walk away or I'd have lamped him. "

Were most of his teeth missing and the guard put him off the train for not having a ticket ?

I'm asking cos I was on that train.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no wonder so many of you inhabit this forum so much. Most of you seem to have few social skills in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s no wonder so many of you inhabit this forum so much. Most of you seem to have few social skills in the real world. "

That's a little cutting.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I had to walk away or I'd have lamped him.

Were most of his teeth missing and the guard put him off the train for not having a ticket ?

I'm asking cos I was on that train. "

I got off at Liverpool South Parkway around 2pm, he was still on the train when I left. He was also annoying two Wolves fans who were doing nothing to anyone, so I do hope he got chucked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

Its not always about being stuck up... for a very long time, I was a very insecure introvert and would often wonder why anyone would want to speak to me so i just used to ignore people...i also get bouts of social anxiety where i don't want to talk to anyone..

Now as ive already said i will chat to most if they are polite and respectful

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Random strangers in the street....

a smile is the only communication needed where there appears to be an absence of anything other

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I had to walk away or I'd have lamped him.

Were most of his teeth missing and the guard put him off the train for not having a ticket ?

I'm asking cos I was on that train.

I got off at Liverpool South Parkway around 2pm, he was still on the train when I left. He was also annoying two Wolves fans who were doing nothing to anyone, so I do hope he got chucked off

Ah ..... not you then. This was on the Wirral line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s no wonder so many of you inhabit this forum so much. Most of you seem to have few social skills in the real world. "

I'd say that not knowing when someone wants to be social and not reading social cues as to when they don't, is more lacking social skills. As is being rather rude regarding others.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"Are you stuck up if a random person approaches you on the street for a chat, and you don’t want to chat?

Why don’t you want to chat to the random people? Or do you want to?"

I quite possibly wouldn't, unless that person was a she maybe - resembling the qualities of Salma Hayek or Jodie Comer.

One may presume me to be a tad stuck up I suppose - pretentious however? ...Moi??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id echo most of the above, time and a place. If its older people I usually make an effort to chat, Im getting in good practise having an allotment, it is more chatting about bad backs and greenhouses and naughty badgers than it is digging. People who look like they want to sell me something I keep walking without slowing pace. If I dont think I will be stuck with someone for ever I will chat/reply if they instigate something. It is very rare I will start up a conversation.

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll pretty much talk to anyone and usually do, although I'm not actually a very social creature.

A few fluff lines or a shared minute or so to make someone smile is great, but i really don't need to be your new besty.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I attract folk. No idea why as i’m not very sociable and look pissed off 99.95% of the time.

I always speak if spoken too, just never initiate it. Especially to old folk as i know they’re more than likely lonely.

Never had a bad experience either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stuck up a woman once when i picked up the superglue instead of the lube

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I am always chatty and will chat to anyone. It doesn’t hurt to be nice

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Oh I always pass the time of day with people, on the street, in the shops. I do wonder if it’s the only conversation some people have and if I can give a bit of time then why not? I have the time and it’s nice to be nice so yes, I do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sometimes incapable of engaging in conversation with strangers, usually when I'm in an autistic shutdown. If someone approaches me I'll smile and make my excuses, I won't be rude, but I don't feel bad about it. It isn't stuck up to not want to chat, sometimes it's a case if self-preservation for people like me.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Depends what mood I'm in and if she's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s no wonder so many of you inhabit this forum so much. Most of you seem to have few social skills in the real world. "

I don't have social skills in any world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always having conversations with strangers, yes if it’s someone I don’t feel safe talking too I’ll cut it short but mostly people are nice. And a lot of the special needs young people know me well for the work I’ve done with them so I get a lot chatting to me when I’m out. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a random approaches me in the street I just whisper quietly you can see me???

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

As I've got older I've turned into my mother and frequently chat to randoms in the street.

My kid is generally horrified

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

People who immediately judge someone as stuck up when they’ve not made the time to know someone or assumed someone should automatically make time for them are probably morons.

I’m often cited as being stuck up which tbh I don’t mind because at least then I tend to surround myself with like minded

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm terrible (mrs) I'll talk to anyone, my family now have to give me 'the talk' if we're all out together, it drives them mad. My mum was the same and funnily enough as a kid I hated it!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'm terrible (mrs) I'll talk to anyone, my family now have to give me 'the talk' if we're all out together, it drives them mad. My mum was the same and funnily enough as a kid I hated it!"

Snap!

High Five

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I've been stuck up both. I find merits in both sexes..

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"People who immediately judge someone as stuck up when they’ve not made the time to know someone or assumed someone should automatically make time for them are probably morons."

Thank god you don't judge the morons though..

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I'm terrible (mrs) I'll talk to anyone, my family now have to give me 'the talk' if we're all out together, it drives them mad. My mum was the same and funnily enough as a kid I hated it!

Snap!

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Someone understands

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"All about opinions and choices of course,but I never ignore anyone.to give someone two minutes of your day isn’t that hard,they could be having it tough so a quick chat could make their day.

What if I’m having it tough?

You can't be having it tough, you're a good looking woman so must be smiley and sociable

Wow! You're a quick learner! I'm impressed! Lol Xxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"If a random approaches me in the street I just whisper quietly you can see me???"

a white rabbit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m too polite to be stuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll talk to anyone, or at least listen and let them talk

There are a lot of lonely people out there - a 5 minute natter could mean the world to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same happy for polite conversation with someone

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It all depends on the situation but I don’t mind a little chat and it’s nice to be nice

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had two random convos which really stick in the mind.

One with an old guy who had obvious scarring to his face. He'd been a fighter pilot in WW2 , crashed in Germany, was a POW and when he got back to Britain was one of the first plastic surgery Guinea pigs.

Another was another old guy who'd been a trapeze artist and a wall of death rider in the 1950s.

Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

How nice"

I always start with 'No thanks I'm not interested'. If they persist, as most do, then they are fair game..particularly if they call at my door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh missionaries approaching me is fun. I know too much. They never do it twice

like the guy who told Jacob Rees-Moggs son that everyone hates his daddy? Using the kid to score points against the parent"

Hardly the same. Kid should know what his parents think of him.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I often chat to people in all sorts of different places when I'm out. However I don't always feel like it, if that makes me a bad person or socially inadequate so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the correlation of not wanting to speak to a stranger and being stuck up, it’s rather bizarre.

I will speak to anyone & everyone, occasionally though I don’t want to for a variety of reasons, being stuck up isn’t one of them.

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