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"And think I wonder what her personality is like ? " Nope,  | |||
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"And think I wonder what her personality is like ? " ...or just wonder what she looks like naked | |||
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"Serious = Course men don't think about personality, which is why the shag-happy blind, bastards end up with hot-hot-hot high-maintenance, bunny-boiling crazies. " They need to look at the Hot/crazy Matrix  | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not "Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do | |||
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"I often get mails here from guys telling me how much they'd like to fuck my personality" | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not "You’d stop a random woman on the street for a chat? | |||
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"Serious = Course men don't think about personality, which is why the shag-happy blind, bastards end up with hot-hot-hot high-maintenance, bunny-boiling crazies. They need to look at the Hot/crazy Matrix "I HATE that thing and the reason I hate it is it's so fooking true. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
You’d stop a random woman on the street for a chat?"I've talked to a few while waiting for buses ... In shops and just in general... I'm not scared to chat with women in public. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not "Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ???? If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP.. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
You’d stop a random woman on the street for a chat?
I've talked to a few while waiting for buses ... In shops and just in general... I'm not scared to chat with women in public. "I didn’t think you would be  | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
You’d stop a random woman on the street for a chat?"Yeah!!! Most of them love it! Obviously, you wouldn't stop a woman who has loads of bags or whatever, or who is obviously trying to get somewhere. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do"I totally do, if she turns out to be nice, I think ah she’s playing the long game! | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ????
If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP..
"What about those of us who are minging but still stuck up? | |||
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"Serious = Course men don't think about personality, which is why the shag-happy blind, bastards end up with hot-hot-hot high-maintenance, bunny-boiling crazies. " Looool, been there and done that! | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ????
If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP..
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ????
If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP..
What about those of us who are minging but still stuck up? "us ? Us ? Did you just put me in the minging gang ? | |||
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"Serious = Course men don't think about personality, which is why the shag-happy blind, bastards end up with hot-hot-hot high-maintenance, bunny-boiling crazies. Looool, been there and done that!" Well hey, at least she was hot! | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ????
If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP..
"Hey .... I talked to you. Don't be so stuck up .....  | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do"Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Jesus .... that's your litmus test for how sociable a woman is ????
If she talks to YOU she's okay. If not she's STUCK UP..
Hey .... I talked to you. Don't be so stuck up ..... "hehe | |||
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"Serious = Course men don't think about personality, which is why the shag-happy blind, bastards end up with hot-hot-hot high-maintenance, bunny-boiling crazies. Looool, been there and done that! Well hey, at least she was hot!" Well, that's true... But my brain can only take so much craziness.. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
I totally do, if she turns out to be nice, I think ah she’s playing the long game! "Wise move. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back."But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so "For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so "I always go off personality I have no standards when it comes to looks | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so I always go off personality I have no standards when it comes to looks "But you do. You assume good looking women are stuck up. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol."I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice. | |||
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"And think I wonder what her personality is like ? " 99% of people are too busy looking at their phone to notice people on the street. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so I always go off personality I have no standards when it comes to looks
But you do. You assume good looking women are stuck up."the same as bad or mediocre looking women I still think it no matter what. But if they're social and such they're not upstuck | |||
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"To a degree. It tends to be with “power dressed” women, or those that are in some way deporting themselves in an assertive or focussed manner. That’s the point at which my brain goes off bye-bye to fantasy land "As in you like that type ? | |||
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"Personality is equally as important as looks. " No. It's more important. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so I always go off personality I have no standards when it comes to looks
But you do. You assume good looking women are stuck up. the same as bad or mediocre looking women I still think it no matter what.
But if they're social and such they're not upstuck "Don't think being stuck up has anything to do with it.. I've no wish to speak to random people in the street when I'm just going about my business..
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol.
I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice."Nah, it's not that. Good looking women aren't necessarily 'not very nice', it's just a foolish assumption. I've met many nice, good looking women. For me, it's more about how she comes across rather than beauty. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so I always go off personality I have no standards when it comes to looks
But you do. You assume good looking women are stuck up. the same as bad or mediocre looking women I still think it no matter what.
But if they're social and such they're not upstuck "I feel the same way. | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol.
I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice.
Nah, it's not that. Good looking women aren't necessarily 'not very nice', it's just a foolish assumption. I've met many nice, good looking women. For me, it's more about how she comes across rather than beauty."I'm really confused now  Because when I asked if lots of guys assumed good looking women were stuck up you said you did.
What am I supposed to do be good looking or have a blinding personality or just happily continue as I am but remember to smile? | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol.
I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice.
Nah, it's not that. Good looking women aren't necessarily 'not very nice', it's just a foolish assumption. I've met many nice, good looking women. For me, it's more about how she comes across rather than beauty.
I'm really confused now Because when I asked if lots of guys assumed good looking women were stuck up you said you did.
What am I supposed to do be good looking or have a blinding personality or just happily continue as I am but remember to smile? "I do often assume that good looking women are stuck up, but I'm often wrong in my assumption. You're supposed to have a great personality, be hot but be chatty, happy and approachable. Lol xx | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol.
I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice.
Nah, it's not that. Good looking women aren't necessarily 'not very nice', it's just a foolish assumption. I've met many nice, good looking women. For me, it's more about how she comes across rather than beauty.
I'm really confused now Because when I asked if lots of guys assumed good looking women were stuck up you said you did.
What am I supposed to do be good looking or have a blinding personality or just happily continue as I am but remember to smile?
I do often assume that good looking women are stuck up, but I'm often wrong in my assumption.
You're supposed to have a great personality, be hot but be chatty, happy and approachable. Lol xx"I'm working on it but I think I've left it too late. I'll just have to make do with being incredibly hot.   | |||
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"To a degree. It tends to be with “power dressed” women, or those that are in some way deporting themselves in an assertive or focussed manner. That’s the point at which my brain goes off bye-bye to fantasy land
As in you like that type ?"Absolutely. Obviously it’s an over-generalisation and the cover doesn’t make the book, but any outward indicator - a purposeful stride, a head held high, a man chained on a collar behind her - these will trigger my pondering!  | |||
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"I just assume they're upstuck most the time ... If they talk and have a chat they're not
Do a lot of guys assume good looking women are like that? I know a few women who do
Yeah, I assume that, it's not always true though. Sometimes, if I smile, I can gauge it if she smiles back.
But I don't understand (I do really) I thought by the many threads stating that men/women go for personality over looks every time, that nobody judged anyone by how they looked. Are you telling me that isn't true. Say it isn't so
For me, personality is really important. I also judge by looks. If she looks like a bitch, or looks rough, it's a no. Lol.
I know everyone is judges by looks. There's just this whole culture on here of looks being unimportant unless you're really good looking and then it means you're not very nice.
Nah, it's not that. Good looking women aren't necessarily 'not very nice', it's just a foolish assumption. I've met many nice, good looking women. For me, it's more about how she comes across rather than beauty.
I'm really confused now Because when I asked if lots of guys assumed good looking women were stuck up you said you did.
What am I supposed to do be good looking or have a blinding personality or just happily continue as I am but remember to smile?
I do often assume that good looking women are stuck up, but I'm often wrong in my assumption.
You're supposed to have a great personality, be hot but be chatty, happy and approachable. Lol xx
I'm working on it but I think I've left it too late. I'll just have to make do with being incredibly hot. "Haha, you'll be fine! | |||
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"I think what people really mean is that good looking people trigger their own insecurities, they project this on to the other party whom they then perceive as looking down on them." Good point! | |||
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"Personality is equally as important as looks. No. It's more important. " I think they’re both important. Beauty is skin deep but ugly goes right to the fucking bone! | |||
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"Personality is equally as important as looks. No. It's more important. " Looks draw you in, personality keeps you there. | |||
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"I think what people really mean is that good looking people trigger their own insecurities, they project this on to the other party whom they then perceive as looking down on them. Good point! " Yep. How many times do you hear someone say "he/she made me feel so tall/short/fat/thin/ugly" when all they've done is exist. | |||
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"And think I wonder what her personality is like ? " Have only just seen a very sexy lady walking down the street in wetlook trousers and a sexy blouse | |||
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