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By *ogostick72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Iv been chatting to my fiance about joining fab and shes agreed as a couple to gauge interest in same room same partner scenario

However I have had a Male profile on here for some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's okay as you don't want to fuck the whole site

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Hide your current profile before you set up a joint one with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the discretion of fab is the question... More so will your previous meets tell your Oh... Only you know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

Some women on here like to feel superior and will drop the fact they've met into posts just to make it known, even if they've not spoken to you since!

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter that you’ve had a singles profile on here for a while?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not that discreet, check out the cheating thread as an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your current profile before you set up a joint one with her"

*Delete* your profile before you set up a joint one with her. And thank the Lord every day that you have a broadminded partner who hasn’t found out that you’ve been playing behind her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your current profile before you set up a joint one with her

*Delete* your profile before you set up a joint one with her. And thank the Lord every day that you have a broadminded partner who hasn’t found out that you’ve been playing behind her back."

Oooooh okay I get why him having a profile is important to the narrative now

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By *ogostick72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Not met many folks

She has agreed to meet possible other couples ( I've never met a couple on my own ) but hope I'm not shitting on my own doorstep doing this

We are already really close and I hope this brings us closer

Please no one judge as I know some will over me having a single profile x thanks x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Fab itself is as discreet as you want it to be. Fab members however vary.

I would say it's up to you to calculate the risks for yourself

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Op, be honest with her maybe..

Surely she deserves that..

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Op, be honest with her maybe..

Surely she deserves that.. "

Since you suggested it, she might be wondering why so totally agree

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You're fucked really. You'll always have the worry that someone who knows you from the secret male profile will recognise and message you on the couples one. Come clean.

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By *ogostick72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Scotland

I have told her if been unfaithful once ( never mentioned fabbut it occurred there n she told me she had been too ) still together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're fucked really. You'll always have the worry that someone who knows you from the secret male profile will recognise and message you on the couples one. Come clean. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not met many folks

She has agreed to meet possible other couples ( I've never met a couple on my own ) but hope I'm not shitting on my own doorstep doing this

We are already really close and I hope this brings us closer

Please no one judge as I know some will over me having a single profile x thanks x"

I'm not judging, just making observations.

You do run the risk of her finding out that you've been here alone for some time. Even if a previous meet just sends a message saying how nice it is to see you're now part of a couple and she sees it before you do.

You aren't really close, there's a whole area of your life that she doesn't know about and if she does discover it shes going to feel betrayed, humiliated and as if you've tricked her in to this under false pretences.

Those are the risks you run.

I don't know how you mitigate them really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’ve met on your single profile I’d reconsider having a couples profile on this site.

Unless you change your location, block anyone you’ve had contact with you will always be looking over your shoulder.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I have told her if been unfaithful once ( never mentioned fabbut it occurred there n she told me she had been too ) still together"

If your looking to start exploring on here as a couple, no doubt like a lot of couples you'll be discussing in great detail the many aspects that go with this..

Could be a good time to get things out of the way so to speak, your relationship sounds strong if you've both admitted to seeing another and your still with each other..

Good luck with whatever you choose but only you will know how she may react if your on here as a couple and something crops up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you close your individual profile you will be Unlos on this thread and any others. Then you *only* need to worry about the discretion of all the folk on the threads,plus meets,when you pop up on a couple profile.

Suggest you scrap any and all photos you have ever used on here or you may still be spotted on your new profile.

Fab discretion can't overcome your desire to tell everyone that you've withheld information from your fiancée, Unlos might help you cover your tracks.

Delete.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you close your individual profile you will be Unlos on this thread and any others. Then you *only* need to worry about the discretion of all the folk on the threads,plus meets,when you pop up on a couple profile.

Suggest you scrap any and all photos you have ever used on here or you may still be spotted on your new profile.

Fab discretion can't overcome your desire to tell everyone that you've withheld information from your fiancée, Unlos might help you cover your tracks.

Delete.

Mrs"

* And don't re-use the photos

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By *ogostick72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Scotland


"If you close your individual profile you will be Unlos on this thread and any others. Then you *only* need to worry about the discretion of all the folk on the threads,plus meets,when you pop up on a couple profile.

Suggest you scrap any and all photos you have ever used on here or you may still be spotted on your new profile.

Fab discretion can't overcome your desire to tell everyone that you've withheld information from your fiancée, Unlos might help you cover your tracks.

Delete.

Mrs

* And don't re-use the photos"

Unlos?? Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unlos?? Sorry"

User No Longer On Site

That will appear instead of your name on all previous posts when you delete your account.

Your picture will also be replaced with the shadowman.

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By *ogostick72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Scotland


"Unlos?? Sorry

User No Longer On Site

That will appear instead of your name on all previous posts when you delete your account.

Your picture will also be replaced with the shadowman. "

Ah ok got it now thanks

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Come clean and delete the single one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv been chatting to my fiance about joining fab and shes agreed as a couple to gauge interest in same room same partner scenario

However I have had a Male profile on here for some time"

Couples get more meets. Women used as bait attract interest. No need to use your profile pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not fab that lacks discretion....

Its certain people who fail to understand the concept.

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