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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are quite a few newly formed couples knocking around the forums of late and as is natural, they open couples accounts. Fairly often these couples run concurrently with the existing singles accounts, at least for a while.

My question is this; do people have an issue with this? Is it confusing when couples have singles accounts as well as a couples one? Is there a greater issue that people have or is it simply a case that it makes little to no difference?

Tea

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We met on here, both still have our singles accounts. We very rarely use them these days, mostly if we both want to chat in the chat rooms at the same time.

We don’t see it as a problem.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t have a problem with it. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no issue with it as it is perfectly reasonable for 2 people to run 3 profiles to suit different circumstances.

Woe betide a singleton who does though...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest crush on here has a singles account and a couples account. She’s beautiful on both.

No it makes no odds to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No problem. They just manage to thrill a thread when they use all three accounts to chat to themselves "

Fill a thread**. They might find it a thrill, mind...

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We met on here, both have met others alone and both meet as a couple. Dont see the problem personally xx

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

To be honest we usually only play with like minded people, so we rarely end up playing with couples that have single accounts as well. We play as a couple and tend to play with couples that only play together also. Not that anyone is ruled out, but that’s the way it normally ends up being like. We’ve also tried with fb’s too and that’s not worked for us either.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

We prefer if they make reference to their couples account on their single ones and vis versa. Many don't which makes us think maybe they are not being honest with each other, tho it is up to them how they play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on how you're using the profiles.

I don't really use my singles profile anymore, I still have it but as I've no intention whatsoever meeting as a single at the moment I don't see the point or relevance in using it. I think it will cause confusion or waste the time of people who may want to meet or message Princess Peach.

I have however used that profile to comment on the forum if it's been a subject that has had more relevance to that profile, or to get my point across as Peach.. my point well and truly across, but one that is solely my perspective and view and not held by B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesnt bother me but what i find really odd is couples who are sat in the same room as each other talking to each other through the forums

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No as long as they cross reference the profiles no problem,can be confusing otherwise.

I have this profile and a couple profile too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x"

That will drop the number of people online then...

Can couples log into their profile from 2 locations at the same time? say if one is away through work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

That will drop the number of people online then...

Can couples log into their profile from 2 locations at the same time? say if one is away through work?"

They can yes.. x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I couldn't careless one way or the other to be honest whatever makes you happy

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x"

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters."

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

That will drop the number of people online then...

Can couples log into their profile from 2 locations at the same time? say if one is away through work?

They can yes.. x"

We’ve tried it and it doesn’t work. If logged in on one device it boots you out when the same account is logged in on a different device. Hence why it can be useful for some to have singles accounts sometimes

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x"

That seems a silly rule and one that’s clearly often flaunted.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

If they play as both single and couple surely it makes sense.

We only play as a couple hence no singles accounts....J

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't mind it - people are free to use fab as they wish and as long as it's not harming anyone, that's okay. There are a few circumstances where it makes me a bit but meh. You do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

That seems a silly rule and one that’s clearly often flaunted. "

I've no idea.. assumed it was a new thing.. maybe not. Was very clear though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take less notice of couples profiles, (except Lacey and Sam) cause I don’t know which one is doing the commenting. They seem to lack humour and take things a bit serious, (except Sam and Lacey).

Couples are usually a bit lovey dovey and rarely say anything interesting, or it’s just the bloke having a whinge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I'd notice really... unless they had the same avatar. I don't get why couples who also have single accounts would use their couple account on the forum though. Hubby and I only ever use our single profiles for the forum. Oh hang on. They probably do it to flaunt the fact that they got together huh?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us..."

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I'd notice really... unless they had the same avatar. I don't get why couples who also have single accounts would use their couple account on the forum though. Hubby and I only ever use our single profiles for the forum. Oh hang on. They probably do it to flaunt the fact that they got together huh?"

I might make a couples profile with C to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of these couples having a profile together unless they are using it to arrange meets..

If its just to chat whilst not meeting stick to your single profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses. "

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have no problem with people having single and couples accounts.

This makes sense if they are a new couple or meet separately. I am also part of a couple on here but have this account to meet alone.

When posting from the couple account we try to remember to add our name, so as not to confuse people.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I don't see the point of these couples having a profile together unless they are using it to arrange meets..

If its just to chat whilst not meeting stick to your single profile "

It’s three times the price to have two singles and a couples profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don’t mind it if all involved are comfortable then I certainly wouldn’t judge, just another preference some will have a issue with and some won’t, as a new member here my biggest issue is unverified couples or singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of these couples having a profile together unless they are using it to arrange meets..

If its just to chat whilst not meeting stick to your single profile

It’s three times the price to have two singles and a couples profile! "

Pfft these people have money to burn!!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I take less notice of couples profiles, (except Lacey and Sam) cause I don’t know which one is doing the commenting. They seem to lack humour and take things a bit serious, (except Sam and Lacey).

Couples are usually a bit lovey dovey and rarely say anything interesting, or it’s just the bloke having a whinge. "

Get on your tits doesn't it

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Some even have a couple singles accounts

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We meet as a couple, and as singles....so....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't see the point of these couples having a profile together unless they are using it to arrange meets..

If its just to chat whilst not meeting stick to your single profile

It’s three times the price to have two singles and a couples profile! "

3 x 0 is still 0.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"We meet as a couple, and as singles....so...."

So you shouldn't. It's very upsetting for some.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Don’t see why that’s a problem. Don’t mind it at all.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m easily confused. This all confuses me. I never seem to know who is together until someone points it out or if they’ve been all over the forums declaring their innermost

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

No problem at all with it. As long as everybody is open and honest and having fun. Seems fair enough to me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff"

I have never heard of this before. I know you're not supposed to verify your own profiles, was that what they meant perhaps? There must be thousands of couples on the site as a whole who also have singles profiles!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't have a problem with couples posting using whatever profile they want, sometimes takes me a minute to get my head around who is who though.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No skin off my nose.

I do wish they’d reference their single accounts or couples accounts but that’s just because i’m a nosey cow and like to know the ins and outs of a cats arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff

I have never heard of this before. I know you're not supposed to verify your own profiles, was that what they meant perhaps? There must be thousands of couples on the site as a whole who also have singles profiles! "

No idea.. we didn't verify our couples profile. We have one off a friend that's met us both.. thought it was a really odd thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?"

They wouldn't. A single male and a TV one, maybe.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I have my single account, so does my partner. We also have a Couples account. We were both on here as singles when we met on here. The couples account is useful for our joint fab activity as a couple and for people who are intrested in us as a couple. But we are also sovereign individuals with our seperate views, opinions and activities. So it's natural that we have representation as individuals and as a couple to reflect the ways in which we use fab. If people take the time to read the profiles they'll have no confusion.

Also as so many with singles accounts are not actually single, maybe they should change the category from single to individual (or something like that)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?"

Then they should be honest about it

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff"

Maybe admin could clarify this. If its teue then hell of alot of accounts need to be deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?

They wouldn't. A single male and a TV one, maybe."

Yes they would Happens often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no issue with it as it is perfectly reasonable for 2 people to run 3 profiles to suit different circumstances.

Woe betide a singleton who does though..."

Nah just don't tell anyone what the other profiles are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something of a fab paradox. Because if a guy who is meeting people on his own uses his couples profile to do so he is accused of being a fake couples profile.

If he creates a singles profile to do so, he's apparently breaking the rules.

Can't win.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have no problem with it. People can play how they wish either as singles or as part of a couple or not play at all...their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have our single accounts as well as this one and occasionally comment on those, but mainly on this one! We only really meet as a couple so that's why we use this profile more.... and I always put PT at the end so people know it's me, the female, commenting!

I don't see its a problem how people use their profiles!! So many seem to judge how people use this site.... Why can't we have joint profiles?...why can't we LPP all over the show if we want to?....but likewise why can't we comment as our singles account?... Just let people be!!

PT x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


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Also as so many with singles accounts are not actually single, maybe they should change the category from single to individual (or something like that)?"

That's a really good idea...maybe a suggestion in the appropriate forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I'd notice really... unless they had the same avatar. I don't get why couples who also have single accounts would use their couple account on the forum though. Hubby and I only ever use our single profiles for the forum. Oh hang on. They probably do it to flaunt the fact that they got together huh?"

I don't believe that happens.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?

They wouldn't. A single male and a TV one, maybe.

Yes they would Happens often "

A TS is a transsexual, someone who is transitioning from one gender to another. In the case of a MtoF why would they have a male profile if they're transitioning to a female?

A TV is a transvestite, a man who dresses as a woman, may even identify as a woman, but not in female apparel permanently. They might two profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?

They wouldn't. A single male and a TV one, maybe.

Yes they would Happens often "

That's really not very usual. A cross-dressing one and a male/female one perhaps. Since tv/ts are lumped together it's difficult to ascertain what is being referred to. I personally don't believe it's anyone's business if people have TV accounts as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not something I'd notice really... unless they had the same avatar. I don't get why couples who also have single accounts would use their couple account on the forum though. Hubby and I only ever use our single profiles for the forum. Oh hang on. They probably do it to flaunt the fact that they got together huh?

I don't believe that happens. "

No it doesn't, people never, ever post look at me threads...

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff

Maybe admin could clarify this. If its teue then hell of alot of accounts need to be deleted."

Hard when they only sign off as admin so no idea who said it.. doesn't make business sense though...

saff

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I take less notice of couples profiles, (except Lacey and Sam) cause I don’t know which one is doing the commenting. They seem to lack humour and take things a bit serious, (except Sam and Lacey).

Couples are usually a bit lovey dovey and rarely say anything interesting, or it’s just the bloke having a whinge. "

See this is the thing that I don’t get, why does everyone automatically assume it’s the male half of a couple posting? I regularly use the forums, have done since I joined Fab. Hubby just doesn’t get it, he very rarely ventures in here and I think he’s only ever posted a couple of times in all the years he’s been on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would be the thoughts if someone had a male and a TS profile on the go?

Then they should be honest about it "

Why? It's really nobody else's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x"

Tru dat, innit

Xsteve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff

Maybe admin could clarify this. If its teue then hell of alot of accounts need to be deleted.

Hard when they only sign off as admin so no idea who said it.. doesn't make business sense though...

saff "

Was it in a message? Fake account pretending to be Admin maybe? There's hundreds, maybe thousands of couples who also have singles profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out. "

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I take less notice of couples profiles, (except Lacey and Sam) cause I don’t know which one is doing the commenting. They seem to lack humour and take things a bit serious, (except Sam and Lacey).

Couples are usually a bit lovey dovey and rarely say anything interesting, or it’s just the bloke having a whinge.

See this is the thing that I don’t get, why does everyone automatically assume it’s the male half of a couple posting? I regularly use the forums, have done since I joined Fab. Hubby just doesn’t get it, he very rarely ventures in here and I think he’s only ever posted a couple of times in all the years he’s been on Fab. "

True, my OH never posts but I do generally end posts with a J

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses.

By admin.. we did use different email accounts.. I'm confused..

Saff

Maybe admin could clarify this. If its teue then hell of alot of accounts need to be deleted.

Hard when they only sign off as admin so no idea who said it.. doesn't make business sense though...

saff

Was it in a message? Fake account pretending to be Admin maybe? There's hundreds, maybe thousands of couples who also have singles profiles.

No definately admin..

saff "

Shush!

Xsteve

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character


"I take less notice of couples profiles, (except Lacey and Sam) cause I don’t know which one is doing the commenting. They seem to lack humour and take things a bit serious, (except Sam and Lacey).

Couples are usually a bit lovey dovey and rarely say anything interesting, or it’s just the bloke having a whinge.

Get on your tits doesn't it "

You can get on my tits if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In theory it doesnt bother me at all. I feel sad sometimes when people lose their single identity though. But in the grand scheme of things, No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff "

It's fair in my opinion. Think of the ass hole like behavior I could have got up to? Being duplicitous, deceitful out in the open. Real friendships and relationships are formed in here. How would you feel Saff if it turned out you were in bed with a con-artist?

I asked because I'm not that type of person. Only commented once or twice to myself on my own thread, because I was bored and thought it funny. Then once by accident. So I explained the situation to a Mod, came to same decision as them, shouldn't be allowed at all.

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By *exylilzWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Me and my bf both have single accounts as well as a couples one. We both have the access to the couples one so we can chat to who ever we want so we can meet as a couple not just singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff

It's fair in my opinion. Think of the ass hole like behavior I could have got up to? Being duplicitous, deceitful out in the open. Real friendships and relationships are formed in here. How would you feel Saff if it turned out you were in bed with a con-artist?

I asked because I'm not that type of person. Only commented once or twice to myself on my own thread, because I was bored and thought it funny. Then once by accident. So I explained the situation to a Mod, came to same decision as them, shouldn't be allowed at all.

"

Depends on the context of the profiles though. If it was cixi and you as an example I don't see an issue..deliberately being deceptive is not ok, but personalities are often multifaceted and complex. Not everyone fits into a box..

saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff

It's fair in my opinion. Think of the ass hole like behavior I could have got up to? Being duplicitous, deceitful out in the open. Real friendships and relationships are formed in here. How would you feel Saff if it turned out you were in bed with a con-artist?

I asked because I'm not that type of person. Only commented once or twice to myself on my own thread, because I was bored and thought it funny. Then once by accident. So I explained the situation to a Mod, came to same decision as them, shouldn't be allowed at all.

Depends on the context of the profiles though. If it was cixi and you as an example I don't see an issue..deliberately being deceptive is not ok, but personalities are often multifaceted and complex. Not everyone fits into a box..

saff "

It was. Still.. I agree with Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a good idea those with more than one profile to reference it.

For example I don’t want to meet a ‘Single Man’ only to discover later he’s part of a Fab Couple.

As for the forums, it’s not an issue although I do think it’s weird when you start having multi-way conversations between all your profiles. Or if you’re both using the couple one to talk to each other though that on a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both a couples profile and single ones. We reference our couples profile on the single ones but not the other way round as we don't feel the need. We mainly post on the forums on our individual profile as we both enjoy posting regularly and have different styles and use the forums in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of these couples having a profile together unless they are using it to arrange meets..

If its just to chat whilst not meeting stick to your single profile "

We use our couples profile for clubs, parties and socials. We use our single profiles for the forums. On all profiles we make it very clear what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had my single profile and a couples profile on several occasions. I have a defunct couples profile now that I need to delete. It’s never been an issue, although I have had to photoverify this account and the couples account for the first time ever. It makes sense to me that you can have different accounts for different purposes. It seems odd that Fab would say this isn’t allowed.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"We meet as a couple, and as singles....so....

So you shouldn't. It's very upsetting for some."

lol so i see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet as a couple, and as singles....so....

So you shouldn't. It's very upsetting for some.

lol so i see! "

Yeah, some of us don’t meet at all. You’re ruining it for us

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff

It's fair in my opinion. Think of the ass hole like behavior I could have got up to? Being duplicitous, deceitful out in the open. Real friendships and relationships are formed in here. How would you feel Saff if it turned out you were in bed with a con-artist?

I asked because I'm not that type of person. Only commented once or twice to myself on my own thread, because I was bored and thought it funny. Then once by accident. So I explained the situation to a Mod, came to same decision as them, shouldn't be allowed at all.

"

How would that have worked if you'd paid subs for both accounts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah no issue for me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"We meet as a couple, and as singles....so....

So you shouldn't. It's very upsetting for some.

lol so i see!

Yeah, some of us don’t meet at all. You’re ruining it for us "

Bloody typical eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should. I had the decency to ask first, because I thought it could be seen as deceptive, even though that was never my intention.

The Forum moral mob seem to have little objection, neither do I personally. If it's stated in your profile text that you're coupled up and not actually single, I can't see why ANYONE could have an issue with it.

If it's not.. Are they any better than the "Fabstraight" Men that everyone loves to knock and mock for profile dishonesty?

I think not, though again, I don't have an issue with it. It's not hard to figure out who is with who, if you care enough to find out.

Ouch.. that doesn't seem fair these profile rules are far from clear.. I've no idea what they are now!

Saff

It's fair in my opinion. Think of the ass hole like behavior I could have got up to? Being duplicitous, deceitful out in the open. Real friendships and relationships are formed in here. How would you feel Saff if it turned out you were in bed with a con-artist?

I asked because I'm not that type of person. Only commented once or twice to myself on my own thread, because I was bored and thought it funny. Then once by accident. So I explained the situation to a Mod, came to same decision as them, shouldn't be allowed at all.

How would that have worked if you'd paid subs for both accounts?"

I don't know, I don't pay subs. If it's against the rules.. Then I guess you're lucky to keep one at all.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I don’t mind if the ‘singles’ are honest from the start of the conversation but I find that a lot of men have been chatting away and then drop in conversation their bi curious partners... seems a bit deceitful? I also don’t like the single female profiles who then announce they have a partner who always accompanies them to meets... also seems deceitful to me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are quite a few newly formed couples knocking around the forums of late and as is natural, they open couples accounts. Fairly often these couples run concurrently with the existing singles accounts, at least for a while.

My question is this; do people have an issue with this? Is it confusing when couples have singles accounts as well as a couples one? Is there a greater issue that people have or is it simply a case that it makes little to no difference?

Tea

"

Welcome new couple profile

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don’t mind if the ‘singles’ are honest from the start of the conversation but I find that a lot of men have been chatting away and then drop in conversation their bi curious partners... seems a bit deceitful? I also don’t like the single female profiles who then announce they have a partner who always accompanies them to meets... also seems deceitful to me "

Yeah, they shouldn't be on a single profile if they're not meeting on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married to a tv kinkster on here, Jenny-TV. We will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary later this year.

We have separate profiles on fab, simply because we do not meet nor play together with others.

We may travel and attend the same clubs together but that is it, our kinks clash, never the twain shall meet.

Neither of us makes a secret of it. We're both too old to be bothered with that malarkey, keeping up with lies seems too much like hard work.

Take us separately or leave us. No approval sought or needed, it is quite simply our separate thing.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm married to a tv kinkster on here, Jenny-TV. We will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary later this year.

We have separate profiles on fab, simply because we do not meet nor play together with others.

We may travel and attend the same clubs together but that is it, our kinks clash, never the twain shall meet.

Neither of us makes a secret of it. We're both too old to be bothered with that malarkey, keeping up with lies seems too much like hard work.

Take us separately or leave us. No approval sought or needed, it is quite simply our separate thing.

"

Wow 25 years that's amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife has her own account on here to chat away and meet if she chooses x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x"

That isn't true

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"According to admin it's not allowed to have both singles and couples accounts on here?!?!

Saff x

Where does it say that? If people have different meet criteria then they can be both single and couple meeters.

I can't find anywhere it does.. but was said to us...

By who tho? I thought you could as long as you use different email addresses. "

It isn't true, people can have multiple profiles, ie single and couple, you just can't use the profiles to deceive anyone

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I wasn't allowed to use Forum under two different accounts, so I don't see why others should.

"

As my other post, people are not allowed two profiles to deceive, ie pretend you are not the same person

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...people are allowed other profiles but on the forums they can't post on multiple profiles to deceive..ie pretend they are someone else or use another profile to answer themselves, cause rows, reinforce their views that they have made on one profile by using a second one etc

It is confusing for mods as much as it is for users, so if you think multiple profiles are being used for any of the above please report.

For anyone else, if you have an issue with a decision Admin have made, speak to them through the contact button if you are not happy as giving wrong information on the forum is confusing for people

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