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Wanting what you can’t have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Love. "

I love you as a sentient being loves a fellow ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to have a new leg

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I want peace , love and warmth for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A peaceful mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some boobies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love. "

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Oh that is a very long list you are asking for there.

The patience to type out such list would be at the top right now!

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

A naughty lady that visits us every now again,that would be fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Merc.

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

I want the one I can't have

And it's driving me mad

It's all over, all over, all over my face...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want the one I can't have

And it's driving me mad

It's all over, all over, all over my face..."

As in a person? Have you told them? Bloody tell them! Life’s too short.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I could write a list, but it won't make any of it real

Just wishful thinking

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love? "
when i think ive found it i realise its just not meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A naughty lady that visits us every now again,that would be fantastic "

One that the wife is keen on I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bus driver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to get married in shorts and flip flops but he doesn’t want me...can’t think why.....lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love? "

Can I? Haven't I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to get married in shorts and flip flops but he doesn’t want me...can’t think why.....lol... "

. There’s time yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to have a new leg "

Looks like you got a new dress instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I? "

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Mads Mikkelsen.

I'm quite lucky because there's nothing I want that I can't have - some things require me to put in more effort etc but I have faith they'll work out.

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"I want the one I can't have

And it's driving me mad

It's all over, all over, all over my face...

As in a person? Have you told them? Bloody tell them! Life’s too short. "

On the day that my mentality

Catches up with my biology

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bus driver "

Me friends’ dad is one. Shall I see if you can have him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to have a new leg

Looks like you got a new dress instead "

From the best designer Allison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to wank me off be nice now

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I can't seen to have the simple things in life that couples take for granted

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By *rchid0103Woman
over a year ago

Southport

To eat and drink what I want and not put on weight . Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know? "

I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To eat and drink what I want and not put on weight . Please "

Oooooh yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To eat and drink F&B's sperm not put on weight . Please "

Considered it done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To eat and drink F&B's sperm not put on weight . Please

Considered it donated x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex daily."

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"I can't seen to have the simple things in life that couples take for granted "

That’s an easy fix

Start farting in bed

Leave the toilet seat up

And put your dirty cups and plates on the side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sort of relate to what your saying.

It definitely happens to me with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't seen to have the simple things in life that couples take for granted

That’s an easy fix

Start farting in bed

Leave the toilet seat up

And put your dirty cups and plates on the side "

And take your clothes off in one go so that pants and socks are still in the trousers then leave them on the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex daily.

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen "

Oh I agree with you. My face is wide open with a smile the day after the night before. I want it like that every day

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know? "

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex daily.

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen

Oh I agree with you. My face is wide open with a smile the day after the night before. I want it like that every day "

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him"

You could if you stopped playing hard to get with me

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I want someone back in my life but its never going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex daily.

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen

Oh I agree with you. My face is wide open with a smile the day after the night before. I want it like that every day

Absolutely. "

I thought I'd find it on fab.. 7 years later I post about it in forums

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I can't seen to have the simple things in life that couples take for granted

That’s an easy fix

Start farting in bed

Leave the toilet seat up

And put your dirty cups and plates on the side

And take your clothes off in one go so that pants and socks are still in the trousers then leave them on the floor

"

I think my sons in training for all the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P"

Wow

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I want someone back in my life but its never going to happen "
that's sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P"

That’s lovely but with regards to the last bit, if it came down to it would we though? I can say without doubt that I would take a bullet for either of my kids. Anyone else though? I don’t think I would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex daily.

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen

Oh I agree with you. My face is wide open with a smile the day after the night before. I want it like that every day

Absolutely.

I thought I'd find it on fab.. 7 years later I post about it in forums "

Tell me about it!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Another child !

I was an only child and I never wanted my lad to be, just how it worked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P"

I fucking love this TT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex daily.

And this . I’m sure I’d be a much nicer person if this were to happen

Oh I agree with you. My face is wide open with a smile the day after the night before. I want it like that every day

Absolutely.

I thought I'd find it on fab.. 7 years later I post about it in forums

Tell me about it! "

Well it's my birthday tomorrow so I'm optimistic I'll have a big smile on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P

That’s lovely but with regards to the last bit, if it came down to it would we though? I can say without doubt that I would take a bullet for either of my kids. Anyone else though? I don’t think I would. "

I honestly believe I would.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P

That’s lovely but with regards to the last bit, if it came down to it would we though? I can say without doubt that I would take a bullet for either of my kids. Anyone else though? I don’t think I would.

I honestly believe I would.

P"

Awww

I know I’m maybe a bit too pragmatic in my ways and the way I think but I wouldn’t because my kids are really all that matter to me in the whole scheme of things and nobody can ever go above that for me. So if I did where would they be?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want someone back in my life but its never going to happen "

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice genuine couple looking to meet and decent guy for friendship and long term fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice genuine couple looking to meet and decent guy for friendship and long term fun"

Same but not a couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Autonomy over myself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that I can't have it, it's that I can't have it right now that's bothering me!

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much "

. Exactly

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 30/05/19 18:20:08]"

Did you get what you wanted then?? But do you still want it now you’ve got it?

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London


"Mads Mikkelsen.

I'm quite lucky because there's nothing I want that I can't have - some things require me to put in more effort etc but I have faith they'll work out."

Do you have Bentley, RR & Lambourgini ma'am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly "

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want someone back in my life but its never going to happen "

...xxxx

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

I'd love to be able to just log in on Fab anytime I need a fuck and get it. No fuss, no rants, dos and dont's I can hardly remember by the time I finish reading some profiles.

That will be true swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ???? "

Haha are you sure you’re not a woman?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I want someone back in my life but its never going to happen that's sad "

And happens so often xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

When you could never imagine growing old with those who've been in your life before, but now you can. When you can picture yourself still smiling and laughing with someone when you're struggling to remember your own name due to old age.

When you know it would be the most brutal thing to have to do, but you would leave even though it would break your heart if it meant they would be happier than if you stayed. When the thought of their snotty nose doesn't gross you out, it makes you want to look after them.

When they hurt, you hurt.

When you take on their mannerisms and they take on yours and it all feels so natural. When you'd lay your life on the line for theirs.

.....

P

That’s lovely but with regards to the last bit, if it came down to it would we though? I can say without doubt that I would take a bullet for either of my kids. Anyone else though? I don’t think I would.

I honestly believe I would.

P

Awww

I know I’m maybe a bit too pragmatic in my ways and the way I think but I wouldn’t because my kids are really all that matter to me in the whole scheme of things and nobody can ever go above that for me. So if I did where would they be?!! "

Not fearing death makes my choice lots easier

P

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I'd love to be able to just log in on Fab anytime I need a fuck and get it. No fuss, no rants, dos and dont's I can hardly remember by the time I finish reading some profiles.

That will be true swinging."

There are sites where you can get just that.......filled with working ladies who will put aside their own sexual desires and fantasies because you’re paying them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reliable watch partner

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If I want it I go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spanking fun

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"A naughty lady that visits us every now again,that would be fantastic

One that the wife is keen on I guess x"

Always helps,we don't just fu#k ppl for the sake of it.i do apologise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I want it I go for it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time is the one commodity I'm short on.

With more time, I could meet people on my friends list and see if we get on. I'm not going to torture myself by wondering what might be so I'm content with my lot in life.

Although a local fwb wouldn't go amiss...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to be able to just log in on Fab anytime I need a fuck and get it. No fuss, no rants, dos and dont's I can hardly remember by the time I finish reading some profiles.

That will be true swinging.

There are sites where you can get just that.......filled with working ladies who will put aside their own sexual desires and fantasies because you’re paying them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

I know. "

I don't think I have been in love... thought I was every time, it's a cliché I know, but until you love yourself how can you truly love someone else! I am learning to love myself and hope to have love before it's too late!!

And I believe it is possible to love more than once xx

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have? "

You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ????

Haha are you sure you’re not a woman? "

No because then I would make them want it as much as I wanted it but if they wanted it more than me I would take it away from them and pretend I didn’t want it to make them only want it more but then I wouldn’t be sure if I even wanted it anymore or if I was just pretending and maybe even think that then they didn’t want it so that would then just make me want it even more because I’d be thinking they’ve possibly taken it away from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My youth back

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I completely agree. When I get what I want I always want more. Nothing wrong with accepting that sometimes you don’t get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ????

Haha are you sure you’re not a woman?

No because then I would make them want it as much as I wanted it but if they wanted it more than me I would take it away from them and pretend I didn’t want it to make them only want it more but then I wouldn’t be sure if I even wanted it anymore or if I was just pretending and maybe even think that then they didn’t want it so that would then just make me want it even more because I’d be thinking they’ve possibly taken it away from me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ????

Haha are you sure you’re not a woman?

No because then I would make them want it as much as I wanted it but if they wanted it more than me I would take it away from them and pretend I didn’t want it to make them only want it more but then I wouldn’t be sure if I even wanted it anymore or if I was just pretending and maybe even think that then they didn’t want it so that would then just make me want it even more because I’d be thinking they’ve possibly taken it away from me

"

My head hurts

Hahaha

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"A Merc. "

Lord won't you buy me a mercedes benz,

my friends all have porsches, i must make amends.

Sorry bit of Janis Joplin jumped into my head then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kisses and a little naked contact, confidence and better health.

I always wanted a child but alas the clock is nearly stopped and I feel such a huge loss to get to this fucking age without a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want for anything really. I used to be of the mindset that happiness was in the future 'when I get married I'll be content, when I get that job I'll be content' etc. I stopped that shit years ago. I only have the 'now' and wishing away my time or waiting for things to improve rather than accepting reality for what it is makes no sense whatsoever. Having the courage to recognise what you have the power to change and taking responsibility for it was a big step. Accepting what I couldn't change was another. The only thing I fear that I may not experience is a fulfilling, healthy and loving relationship with a life partner. Having Aspergers means that having the energy and capability to nurture and sustain a relationship will always be a challenge while I have dependant children. Plus, there are very few people who would be understanding and accepting of my need for long periods of solitude. I'm trying to accept that I may always be a little bit lonely, but it's hard to come to terms with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happiness seems to be a thing I can't have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now I’m think if I found one would I want them as much

. Exactly

Maybe I should take it away from them and make them want it more ????

Haha are you sure you’re not a woman?

No because then I would make them want it as much as I wanted it but if they wanted it more than me I would take it away from them and pretend I didn’t want it to make them only want it more but then I wouldn’t be sure if I even wanted it anymore or if I was just pretending and maybe even think that then they didn’t want it so that would then just make me want it even more because I’d be thinking they’ve possibly taken it away from me

My head hurts

Hahaha "

Funnily enough I totally understood that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have? "

She's going off on one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want for anything really. I used to be of the mindset that happiness was in the future 'when I get married I'll be content, when I get that job I'll be content' etc. I stopped that shit years ago. I only have the 'now' and wishing away my time or waiting for things to improve rather than accepting reality for what it is makes no sense whatsoever. Having the courage to recognise what you have the power to change and taking responsibility for it was a big step. Accepting what I couldn't change was another. The only thing I fear that I may not experience is a fulfilling, healthy and loving relationship with a life partner. Having Aspergers means that having the energy and capability to nurture and sustain a relationship will always be a challenge while I have dependant children. Plus, there are very few people who would be understanding and accepting of my need for long periods of solitude. I'm trying to accept that I may always be a little bit lonely, but it's hard to come to terms with. "

Wow that’s just how i think now. Live everyday and don’t worry too much about the future. Partly since my daughter was diagnosed with all her issues. It can drive you to depression (and it did) just worrying about the future. It really is easier to just take each day as it comes and not look too far ahead. I really believe that now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to have a man bun again. That’s not gonna happen any time soon

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

I’m lucky. I essentially have everything I want. I mean, I could do with the usual stuff: more money (I have enough), more satisfying career (I generally like what I do). But I’m fortunate with the stuff that really matters. The biggest thing I want but can’t have is for my wife not to struggle with her mental health.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

I do believe you can have your cake and want it.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have? "

Everything for free so I don't have to work and can have more time for fun lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My usual desire is to be left alone to do my own thing.

Why is it that the most stupid people are always the loudest and SO eager to tell you how to run your own life, whilst theirs is so erm... mediocre?

Nowt as queer as folk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do believe you can have your cake and want it."

I like this. Absolutely!

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have? "
how long have you got ... theres so much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A younger body again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to love my girl as much as I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't kidding when I said boobs. I'd love some to fill the spot where my fried eggs reside currently.

It may be a while (if ever) before I could afford them.

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

My inbox to be full with offers for me to pop over and have a cuddle and fumble

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Incorrect (personally speaking), what I desire would be non the less awesome if it were practically possible. Alas family, finances and rules of physics prevent this (a least for a fair few years). But one day I/we will be able to and it will be awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

I know.

I don't think I have been in love... thought I was every time, it's a cliché I know, but until you love yourself how can you truly love someone else! I am learning to love myself and hope to have love before it's too late!!

And I believe it is possible to love more than once xx"

I'm not sure you have to love yourself to love someone else. I've been in love, not sure I've ever loved myself. I get on my nerves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

I know.

I don't think I have been in love... thought I was every time, it's a cliché I know, but until you love yourself how can you truly love someone else! I am learning to love myself and hope to have love before it's too late!!

And I believe it is possible to love more than once xx

I'm not sure you have to love yourself to love someone else. I've been in love, not sure I've ever loved myself. I get on my nerves "

. Oh I get on my nerves so much! I get angry with myself all the time for being such an idiot! I do quite like myself though. Don’t think I’d want to change.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I do believe you can have your cake and want it.

I like this. Absolutely! "

Except of course, I meant eat it. Have your cake and eat it. :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do believe you can have your cake and want it.

I like this. Absolutely!

Except of course, I meant eat it. Have your cake and eat it. :D"

I have it, eat it and still want it!

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I do believe you can have your cake and want it.

I like this. Absolutely!

Except of course, I meant eat it. Have your cake and eat it. :D

I have it, eat it and still want it! "

There can never be enough cake. More cake. More eat. More want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

I know.

I don't think I have been in love... thought I was every time, it's a cliché I know, but until you love yourself how can you truly love someone else! I am learning to love myself and hope to have love before it's too late!!

And I believe it is possible to love more than once xx

I'm not sure you have to love yourself to love someone else. I've been in love, not sure I've ever loved myself. I get on my nerves "

I think respect yourself is a more appropriate term than love yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty lucky....I have a pretty good life, amazing kids, a great ex husband who does right my me and his girls ..... The one thing I would want right now would be more time with Mr F...and you're probably right... I can't have that so it does seem to make me want it even more!!! Lol!

Oh and the whole eat what I like and not put weight on would be pretty good too!!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love.

You can have that though. It’s just that you haven’t found it. Have any of us though? Someone said to me recently I thought I’d been in love before but I realised I hadn’t because nothing had felt like they were feeling at that time. So do we really know if we’ve been properly in love?

Can I? Haven't I?

That’s the thing. How do we really know?

I know.

I don't think I have been in love... thought I was every time, it's a cliché I know, but until you love yourself how can you truly love someone else! I am learning to love myself and hope to have love before it's too late!!

And I believe it is possible to love more than once xx

I'm not sure you have to love yourself to love someone else. I've been in love, not sure I've ever loved myself. I get on my nerves

I think respect yourself is a more appropriate term than love yourself. "

This

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I'm pretty lucky....I have a pretty good life, amazing kids, a great ex husband who does right my me and his girls ..... The one thing I would want right now would be more time with Mr F...and you're probably right... I can't have that so it does seem to make me want it even more!!! Lol!

Oh and the whole eat what I like and not put weight on would be pretty good too!!!

PT x"

Ha. I wrote a Fifty-Shades-type story about a woman called Samantha Ward and a certain Mr F! I too would want more time with Mr F :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty lucky....I have a pretty good life, amazing kids, a great ex husband who does right my me and his girls ..... The one thing I would want right now would be more time with Mr F...and you're probably right... I can't have that so it does seem to make me want it even more!!! Lol!

Oh and the whole eat what I like and not put weight on would be pretty good too!!!

PT x

Ha. I wrote a Fifty-Shades-type story about a woman called Samantha Ward and a certain Mr F! I too would want more time with Mr F :D"

Ah well. Since you’re not MR. F’s type I guess that another thing you can’t have!

All best, Mr. F !!

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I sometimes wonder if I had it would I still want it... Maybe I won't know until or if it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life! "

Xteve ^ (soz)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

Xteve ^ (soz) "

Thought it must be Saff as it was quite profound and lacked a few “innits”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

Xteve ^ (soz)

Thought it must be Saff as it was quite profound and lacked a few “innits” "

Pmsl, I'm tame now, innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I want I can't have.

If I could there would be nothing more to want in my life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

Xteve ^ (soz)

Thought it must be Saff as it was quite profound and lacked a few “innits”

Pmsl, I'm tame now, innit "

Impala? I can't keep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

Xteve ^ (soz)

Thought it must be Saff as it was quite profound and lacked a few “innits”

Pmsl, I'm tame now, innit

Impala? I can't keep up."

Improved, I hope....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can't think of anything I want but couldn't work towards getting. Apart from fantasy things like spending time with those who have passed or the ability to travel hundreds of miles in an instant.

Dotty x

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I'm pretty lucky....I have a pretty good life, amazing kids, a great ex husband who does right my me and his girls ..... The one thing I would want right now would be more time with Mr F...and you're probably right... I can't have that so it does seem to make me want it even more!!! Lol!

Oh and the whole eat what I like and not put weight on would be pretty good too!!!

PT x

Ha. I wrote a Fifty-Shades-type story about a woman called Samantha Ward and a certain Mr F! I too would want more time with Mr F :D

Ah well. Since you’re not MR. F’s type I guess that another thing you can’t have!

All best, Mr. F !!"

:D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly can't think of anything I want but couldn't work towards getting. Apart from fantasy things like spending time with those who have passed or the ability to travel hundreds of miles in an instant.

Dotty x"

Hello you. Nice to see you back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think how you view this post is based on perspective I guess. There's nothing I want in life that I can't have..... .....I don't necessarily have everything I want but I'm happy as fuck rn and I'm also a firm believer in positive thinking and if you want something, within reason, it's usually achievable with some clever thinking....

Don't be beaten down by life!

Xteve ^ (soz)

Thought it must be Saff as it was quite profound and lacked a few “innits”

Pmsl, I'm tame now, innit

Impala? I can't keep up.

Improved, I hope.... "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

A big shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly can't think of anything I want but couldn't work towards getting. Apart from fantasy things like spending time with those who have passed or the ability to travel hundreds of miles in an instant.

Dotty x

Hello you. Nice to see you back "

Hello you

Thank you x

Dotty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Clean air

A husband

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

A massive penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

"

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I would say love I doubt it will happen.

If I could have something right now it would be a magic wand to wave away all the sadness, depression and other mental health issues that so many suffer with out of sight. And I have one particular guy in mind I would wave it at the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

"

Despite our many clashes, this is the day that I truely dread...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

Despite our many clashes, this is the day that I truely dread..."

Me too. I can’t even imagine how devastated I would be to lose either of my parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

"

I was going to say my brother earlier too. I would give anything for that to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

Despite our many clashes, this is the day that I truely dread..."

Yeah me and my mum clashed constantly but she was my rock. Hardest thing ever loosing her suddenly. I lost my sister and dad in the past but mum was the hardest

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we want what we can’t have is because we can’t have it. If we could have it I don’t think we’d want is as much! (Well I know what I mean anyway)

So what do you want in life that you can’t have? "

And that..in a nutshell..is what women want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can have anything I want...I just don't want that much

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By *rchid0103Woman
over a year ago

Southport

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By *rchid0103Woman
over a year ago

Southport


"To eat and drink F&B's sperm not put on weight . Please

Considered it done x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To eat and drink F&B's sperm not put on weight . Please

Considered it done x

"

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Fresh clean air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I want that I can't have is my mum back...

I think anything else is achievable really.

"

No ones love is quite like that of a mother. Unless some twist of fate occurs, we will all have to endure one day. Healing vibes sent your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wish I had the ability to tolerate bull shit but it seems I’m totally incapable, and call it out on an all too regular basis - hence I’m now freelance with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To eat and drink F&B's sperm not put on weight . Please

Considered it done x

"

My fringe is jealous.

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