FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a Narcissist ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more confused than normal now Tame

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I’m not one, or am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I’m not one, or am I."

I’d say you’re not

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What if I think i'm one so know I can't be one so I am one

Back when i finish kissing the mirror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good narcissistic tendency everyone

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I know I’m not one, or am I.

I’d say you’re not

Errrr...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Next

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I’m not one, or am I.

I’d say you’re not

Errrr...

I’m just hubris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Of course I'm not. You're always picking on me. Every thread you write is a dig at me. Look at my threads, they're the best. I own this forum, you'd be nothing without me. Now where is that guy I was talking to, he's infatuated with me. "

Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens......

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It sounds interesting, therefore unlikely to be me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think I can be at times, at others I am full of self doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha! What do you know!

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far too lovely to be a narcissist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I can be at times, at others I am full of self doubt."

This. Just looked at the traits and it doesn’t look good, I think I could be one, therefore I’m not one, phew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "

She will walk funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "

It’s amazing how I stay so humble, give me a massive pair of tits and I’d be unbearable.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I've been told that I am an empath, the very opposite of being a narcissist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here’s a fun idea, list all the people you think are complete narcs from the forums.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

No I love myself too much for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give a woman an enormous penis and look what happens...... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you suspect you could be one, do you have Narcissistic traits, if you do, then you’re not one, narcissists have no self awareness, so if you don’t think you are one, then you could well be one. Enjoy."

Actually a lot of narcissists know they are but don’t care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a sadistic masochist but pleased to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s a fun idea, list all the people you think are complete narcs from the forums.

Tame you are so naughty!!

If you dare Peach to do it she might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?"

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?"

No, they’re totally Oblivious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissism is different from narcissistic abuse in a relationship. And yeah if you question if you are then you aren't as narcs will never question themselves, they believe they are superior and would never admit to faults or weaknesses.

I know one exactly like that in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?

No, they’re totally Oblivious."

No they aren’t necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?

No, they’re totally Oblivious."

Even when you tell them and give examples of their behaviour they still can't see it. It's very frustrating.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I know one exactly like that in the forums

If I give you a mirror, you can see one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?

No, they’re totally Oblivious.

No they aren’t necessarily "

I’ve studied this for over two minutes now by googling some bollocks on google, don’t question my authority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I admit that I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know one exactly like that in the forums

If I give you a mirror, you can see one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a narcissist know they are a narcissist?

No, they’re totally Oblivious.

No they aren’t necessarily

I’ve studied this for over two minutes now by googling some bollocks on google, don’t question my authority."

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2014/08/05/you-only-need-a-one-question-test-to-identify-a-narcissist/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.2c356e7b36b8

Another perspective

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know one exactly like that in the forums

Ooh, I wonder who you mean. It’s okay, I know.

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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I'm too perfect to be a narcissist. Can we talk about me now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know one exactly like that in the forums

Ooh, I wonder who you mean. It’s okay, I know.

I know you know and that I know you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare. "

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!! "

No, you Apologised once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!! "

That is top of the diagnostic criteria.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

That is top of the diagnostic criteria..... "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once."

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry."

Not everything I write is = serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a narcissist, but the world does revolve around me. At least my world does any way

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

Not everything I write is = serious."

Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Here’s a fun idea, list all the people you think are complete narcs from the forums.

A bunch are classic Histrionics too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

Not everything I write is = serious.

Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious. "

Huh ?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

Not everything I write is = serious.

Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.

Huh ?! "

Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Is this the psychological version of ‘he who smelt it dealt it?’

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

To a point yes, but I've suffered at the hands of a really nasty narcissist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

Not everything I write is = serious.

Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.

Huh ?!

Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ?"

Nice deflection, even you didn’t know what you meant.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What, Tame? Narcissistic?

Actually, you can't be because you know how to say sorry.

We've all got one or two narcissistic traits. A diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very rare.

Iv just done a look at me thread,maybe I'm one!!!

No, you Apologised once.

Never apologising doesn't = narcissism. It doesn't even = not being sorry.

Not everything I write is = serious.

Yeah I know. What I wrote = serious.

Huh ?!

Good God Y'all ... what is it good fuh ?

Nice deflection, even you didn’t know what you meant. "

I know what I meant

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?"

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong! "

you serious ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

you serious ?"

Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

you serious ?

Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?"

Argumentative=narcissistic

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

you serious ?

Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?"

Answering with questions is - isn't it ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

you serious ?

Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?

Argumentative=narcissistic "

No it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am. Been diagnosed as a narcissistic megalomaniac

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous."

Yes. As I recall. You are.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are."

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay you were wrong. Okay ?

Narcissistic trait never admitting you’re wrong!

you serious ?

Why, is that a narcissist trait too ?

Argumentative=narcissistic

No it doesn't "

OK you win

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a narcissist?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What's a narcissist?"

Someone who picks daffodils x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x "

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

I've metamorphosised. It's emote emote emote all the way these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

Ahhhhh good evening pauly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?"

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

I've metamorphosised. It's emote emote emote all the way these days."

Your words, like your teeth, are a loss to the world..... I’m going to start a crowdfunder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

Someone who picks daffodils x "
oh cool .... I don't pick daffodils so I'm not a narcissist .... I think....

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

Ahhhhh good evening pauly"

Nope try again, but really really close xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ah a form of Catch22

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have one of those symptoms

I must be just a drop in the ocean Narcy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"
I'm definitely not narcissistic then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one of those symptoms

I must be just a drop in the ocean Narcy"

Ooh which one? Do tell....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone has to love/adore me, might as well be me, I’m gorgeous.

Yes. As I recall. You are.

Want your teeth back granny? I could write you a song

Life is thuckin' without them. x

As I recall that’s why I stole them. I’ll dhl them, your posts need more bite

Ahhhhh good evening pauly

Nope try again, but really really close xx"

Is it Paul or pauly or am I on the wrong bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is getting complicated, I'm an uneducated man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

Someone who picks daffodils x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"

That sounds very familiar...

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others

That sounds very familiar...

Tea"

I was thinking of you as I read this the first time. 'wow!' I said to myself, 'this is exactly like Tea Monkey and all the terrible things he says and does to people on the forums. What a diva!'.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"What's a narcissist?

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others"

That’s me ex right there. He was also diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Living with him was quite an eye opener to say the least

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I was married to a narcissist for 17 yes but didn’t know till 5 yrs after we split so I took great pleasure in telling him he was.

Result was he tells everyone I’m narcissistic as I’m the controlling one. I question whether I am quite often but then realize I can’t be if I am questioning myself.

Oh and I’m not controlling it’s just my way is always best!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Trump

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Trump"

Its okay, I don't think anyone heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it the same thing as being an utter twat? I reckon most things in life tend to belong on a scale or spectrum, I'd say we're all a bit narcy at times. Don't fear the label, innit....

Xteve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’re thinking of narcissistic personality disorder, which is different from narcissism. Every human being on the planet has narcissistic traits, though, not to the degree that it would be labelled as a disorder.

I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trump

Its okay, I don't think anyone heard"

Are you the OP's 2nd profile?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Trump

Its okay, I don't think anyone heard

Are you the OP's 2nd profile?"

Pectus excavatum will give you your answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it the same thing as being an utter twat? I reckon most things in life tend to belong on a scale or spectrum, I'd say we're all a bit narcy at times. Don't fear the label, innit....

Xteve"

Nah, twats have a level of self awareness.

We’re all on the spectrum but some people are so far along they’re out of sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My understanding of NPD is that there are three different types of narcissist and five subtypes.

Narcissistism isn't necessarily a bad thing. Most successful people are narcissists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both. "

No, you never. I’m right and you’re wrong. It’s so f*cking hard always being more intelligent than everyone else!

The world couldn’t handle there being more of me. I’m too god damn perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m fully aware what the difference between the two is authority on everything guy, I think I stated both.

No, you never. I’m right and you’re wrong. It’s so f*cking hard always being more intelligent than everyone else!

The world couldn’t handle there being more of me. I’m too god damn perfect. "

See what you did there.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Someone who does things to manipulate others' opinions of them, however done, may still be one. It's about their motivation and behavior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a narcissist?

This!

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people

Fixation on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.

Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions

Need for continual admiration from others

Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others

Exploitation of others to achieve personal gain

Unwillingness to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people

Intense envy of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them

Constantly demeans, bullies and belittles others

That’s me ex right there. He was also diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Living with him was quite an eye opener to say the least

Blumin' eck - that’s like a whole corporate office worth of people all in one!

Respect to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're over complicating narcissism here, just look for those that are always starting threads about themselves and you've found your subject matter.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Well .......... I just did a narcy test. Can't vouch for it but obvs I believe in it cos I scored reet low.....

So there you have it. Dr. Internet says i'm great.

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over a year ago

"Well .......... I just did a narcy test. Can't vouch for it but obvs I believe in it cos I scored reet low.....

So there you have it. Dr. Internet says i'm great. "

Which test was it? I think we should all do it.

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