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What to wear on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just interested in what the ladies of fab like to wear when you meet someone new? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever i feel comfortable in

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

An air of filthy hedonism.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever i feel comfortable in"

Come as you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heels and a smile

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Heels and a smile "

Just a smile

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Dungarees and black socks

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Something clean and comfortable - that sounds really boring but I don't want to feel overdressed or constantly need to be fiddling with my outfit. A dress and a cardigan - not that sexy but I look cute and feel relaxed in it. Depends on where as well.

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By *234 hot sairaTV/TS
over a year ago

west midland

Tights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I can fit into the sexy stuff again

Heels and some of those stocking things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always something that makes me feel sexy on it

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always "

Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Cleavage. No one notices the clothes.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Generally just normal clothes I would wear but try to look smart casual. Hair and make up done and perfume etc.. Probably show some cleavage but not in an obscene way.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always

Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?"

Liquid lipsticks, but they'll dry your lips. Rimmel Provocalips is supposed to be bulletproof but I have such dry lips I don't dare.

But a lot of matte lipsticks sort of just disappear with a passionate kiss. My last meet I was wearing something that went everywhere (Boots No7 moisturising, dunno what I was thinking)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Generally just normal clothes I would wear but try to look smart casual. Hair and make up done and perfume etc.. Probably show some cleavage but not in an obscene way. "

This is my answer too, but I have a signature look lol.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

First meet casual smart, dress to impress with a nice perfume

Follow up... if there is a connection! Well, who knows what’s underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I know works well for me depending on where I’m meeting.

I’ll make sure my makeup / hair looks good and adaptable if I’m going straight from work. Generally smart / casual - possibly a dress straight from office and jeans / jacket from home.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If meeting in private location then I have worn very little or what was requested

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


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Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?

Liquid lipsticks, but they'll dry your lips. Rimmel Provocalips is supposed to be bulletproof but I have such dry lips I don't dare.

But a lot of matte lipsticks sort of just disappear with a passionate kiss. My last meet I was wearing something that went everywhere (Boots No7 moisturising, dunno what I was thinking) "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wear sexy underwear and heels for confidence; the rest just needs to be 'appropriate' for the venue and time of day.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


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Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?

Liquid lipsticks, but they'll dry your lips. Rimmel Provocalips is supposed to be bulletproof but I have such dry lips I don't dare.

But a lot of matte lipsticks sort of just disappear with a passionate kiss. My last meet I was wearing something that went everywhere (Boots No7 moisturising, dunno what I was thinking)

Thank you"

Basically the more comfortable a lipstick is, for the most part, the more maintenance it needs and the more of a mess it might make. Mattes tend to be more durable than satin (forget gloss), but kissing (etc) is tough on lipstick.

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always

Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?"

Best lippy ever is maybelline 24hr stay on. Does exactly what it says, tried and tested, it's fabulous!

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By *lindfold SubMan
over a year ago

Shinfield

A smile and some nice aftershave for me...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere.

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere. "

I've tried them all, and the maybelline seems to be the best for me. I could have a hectic busy night and look like a panda the following morning but the lippy stays put!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere.

I've tried them all, and the maybelline seems to be the best for me. I could have a hectic busy night and look like a panda the following morning but the lippy stays put! "

I've given up on it haha. My lips are so dry, the liquids are a no go. My usual is a matte bullet of some description. I know I'm going to lose it in the first kiss, but it won't tear up my lips or smear all over me and my meet.

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere.

I've tried them all, and the maybelline seems to be the best for me. I could have a hectic busy night and look like a panda the following morning but the lippy stays put!

I've given up on it haha. My lips are so dry, the liquids are a no go. My usual is a matte bullet of some description. I know I'm going to lose it in the first kiss, but it won't tear up my lips or smear all over me and my meet. "

Try the maybelline one. It's double ended!! Colour one end balm/sealer other end!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere.

I've tried them all, and the maybelline seems to be the best for me. I could have a hectic busy night and look like a panda the following morning but the lippy stays put!

I've given up on it haha. My lips are so dry, the liquids are a no go. My usual is a matte bullet of some description. I know I'm going to lose it in the first kiss, but it won't tear up my lips or smear all over me and my meet.

Try the maybelline one. It's double ended!! Colour one end balm/sealer other end! "

I have. Bleeding lips!

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"... And the worst, probably, is Nars Audacious. Amazing colours, I love them, but fuck me they smear everywhere.

I've tried them all, and the maybelline seems to be the best for me. I could have a hectic busy night and look like a panda the following morning but the lippy stays put!

I've given up on it haha. My lips are so dry, the liquids are a no go. My usual is a matte bullet of some description. I know I'm going to lose it in the first kiss, but it won't tear up my lips or smear all over me and my meet.

Try the maybelline one. It's double ended!! Colour one end balm/sealer other end!

I have. Bleeding lips! "

Oh! Any of the clairins might be worth a shot either

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most of the time I wear a Mac or UD matte (not Mac Retro Matte but I can do UD Mega Matte). I occasionally disappoint by losing the lipstick so quickly, but... I make up for it

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Depending on where we was having the meet I would normally wear a tiny mini dress and thigh boots or killer heels

No underwear just in case as I like to be prepared

Makeup and hair always done and nice perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always

Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?"

Yes! Kiko do amazing stay put gloss. Trust me, it seriously stays put for hours, colours are stunning too. There are Kiko shops or on line

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Social, swing dress. Nice makeup (not too vampy/ fuck me), a nice but not sexy perfume. Hold ups and smart shoes.

After that (first full meet), sometimes a swing dress, sometimes not. Similar ensemble on the outside although I open myself up to vampy/ fuck me makeup (note to self: smeary lipstick is not a good plan) and wear my more sexy perfume. Lingerie underneath rather than regular underwear. Usually nip to the loo to ditch the modesty/ chub rub shorts before the action starts, but not always

Any tips/recommendations for good lipstick that won't smear when kissing?

Best lippy ever is maybelline 24hr stay on. Does exactly what it says, tried and tested, it's fabulous! "

Definitely agree! Have this in loads of shades love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just interested in what the ladies of fab like to wear when you meet someone new? Xx "

Usually my meets are early hours of the morning, so I can hop in the car wearing what I like, unlike with a day time meet. Usually a body stocking with a short skirt and jacket over the top.

Only thing is, after a meet a few weeks ago, we were in the car and a woman was lay in the middle of the road. I immediately regretted my attire thinking I was going to have to call emergency services and do first aid. I just threw his hoody on and went to help. Luckily she was just d*unk and wasn't injured and didn't need help other than getting home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on time and place. I'm a dress type of girl so often a dress with some cleavage for a social

For a play meet, well I've turned up to my fwb in anything from pretty dresses, slutty dresses, just a coat, dress up role play outfits and everything in between. Always a nice chemise, or bra and knicker set, stockings nice shoes and makeup

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Avon tattoo lipstick is brilliant xx

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