FabSwingers.com forum: What keeps you all going?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now there's a question I have been striving to answer all weekend (and for the 50 years or so previously). No definitive answer yet

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

A wonderful daughter, a great new job and a search for a fwb that’s bringing new experiences and meeting interesting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely don't know but as long as I manage to get women with nice tits to blow my shaft in my grey Talbo on lidl:'s carpark I am happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean this to sound negative but there isn't one. In the grand scheme of things we're pretty insignificant.

Personally though I keep going out of love. Because I want to give back what I get from those wonderful people in my life, I want them to be proud of me as I am of them so I strive to be a better person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to struggle with this massively. I think just being is enough purpose. I mean, nobody asks that of a sparrow, or a cat, or a tree (insert preferred organism here).

Depression made me feel like I was without purpose and therefore life wasn't worth living. Now I'm recovered I can experience little moments of joy all throughout each day and I no longer question the validity of my life. I'm here, that's it, end of.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I don't mean this to sound negative but there isn't one. In the grand scheme of things we're pretty insignificant.

I agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea. But I think it’s the little things, like the next brew, the next bike ride, the next great song song I haven’t heard. The next good band I’ve yet to discover. Finding a place I’ve never been to that I should go to.

With The alternative I won’t see any of that. But it’s only humans that think life has to have meaning, that’s down to ego, animals just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows. But I do enjoy life.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Tea and biscuits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?"

What do you think OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?

What do you think OP?

Why don’t you answer the question first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea. But I think it’s the little things, like the next brew, the next bike ride, the next great song song I haven’t heard. The next good band I’ve yet to discover. Finding a place I’ve never been to that I should go to.

With The alternative I won’t see any of that. But it’s only humans that think life has to have meaning, that’s down to ego, animals just get on with it. "

The birds in my garden tweet at each other #moreseeds

I like the 'place I've never been to' thought. New things to discover.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

That one day there will be a sunrise and the fields, kissed with dew, will bear host to a woman of astounding beauty riding an alpaca, she won't deviate as she arrows across the grass of springs plenty. She'll arrive at the back gate and step down from her steed, her linen dress caught by the playful breeze, and swing open the gate to my garden.... Rushing fourth with a bowl of Strawberries and honey, I will stumble down my garden, breathless I reach her. She looks at me, and my first words are "I love you", she smiles knowingly and her eyes flutter, acknowledging my desire. "I know" she says, "now be a good chap and fetch the strap on"....

Could happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?

What do you think OP?

I can’t answer any of my own questions unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?

What do you think OP?

I can’t answer any of my own questions unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That one day there will be a sunrise and the fields, kissed with dew, will bear host to a woman of astounding beauty riding an alpaca, she won't deviate as she arrows across the grass of springs plenty. She'll arrive at the back gate and step down from her steed, her linen dress caught by the playful breeze, and swing open the gate to my garden.... Rushing fourth with a bowl of Strawberries and honey, I will stumble down my garden, breathless I reach her. She looks at me, and my first words are "I love you", she smiles knowingly and her eyes flutter, acknowledging my desire. "I know" she says, "now be a good chap and fetch the strap on"....

Could happen "

Lmao, I do like the idea of this tbh

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

3 little people grow up into adults....then I'm done....next life new trials and tribulations....

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don't mean this to sound negative but there isn't one. In the grand scheme of things we're pretty insignificant.

I agree as far as there being no point to life, we just exist.

As for what drives me, I really cant say I used to think it was because I couldn't put my parents through it, but now I just think that they were selfish for having me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My family. Without them i’d probably be happy to just fall asleep and never wake up again.

Which is a bit of a shitter really as i have two boys and everyone likes to tell you that boys fly the family nest asap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point is to live the best life you can live.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

At the moment it's my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live, love, laugh, learn, leave a log

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son... I'm doing it all for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Live, love, laugh, learn, leave a log"

I can see that on a plaque now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter ... my job .... my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Live, love, laugh, learn, leave a log

I can see that on a plaque now...

I should make one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sertraline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is your purpose in life. Your reasons for carrying on day to day - year to year?

In your opinion: what is the point in life?"

The answer to that is too deep and personal for this forum.

But I do only have one life, a one way ticket and there are no refunds or returns.

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

The hope of ending my life with the woman I love, but is a little out of reach at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My family. Without them i’d probably be happy to just fall asleep and never wake up again.

Which is a bit of a shitter really as i have two boys and everyone likes to tell you that boys fly the family nest asap!!"

They'll still need you when they've flown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner was my strength through years of terrible mental health and I know I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him. I want to see my daughter grow and I want to grow old with my partner. They are the reason I carry on each day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s about making the most impact on others, and being unselfish when it matters.

And above all, not being one of those people with no backbone, are selfish through life and just moan but never actively seek change.

And a cold beer in the sunshine after earning it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

At the moment , just my dog , that's sad isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting back in debt

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Habit, wake up go to work, come home from work, eat,sleep, repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get as much buzz and happiness out of life as I can. Basically, do what I can to enjoy what life has to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment , just my dog , that's sad isnt it

Not sad at all. You'll be his/ her whole world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can have a bit of a laugh over something tomorrow that would be nice and if have a bit of a laugh the day after that would be alright too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red wine and dressing like a woman.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Could happen "

I'm sure I've seen that willy before somewhere.....

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