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By *ice guy cw OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Being on here for a while now and I've sent a good few messages to women but I don't get any replys . I think its bad manners not to reply and let them no ur not interested.

It seems the genuine guys on here don't get a look in at all,Be nice to meet someone even if it was just for drink or meal and chat.Just my thoughts on the site.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sigh.....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Why should someone meet you?

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By *rincessPussycatTV/TS
over a year ago

a world of her own

Have a read of the interminable prior threads on this very same topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on here for a while now and I've sent a good few messages to women but I don't get any replys . I think its bad manners not to reply and let them no ur not interested.

It seems the genuine guys on here don't get a look in at all,Be nice to meet someone even if it was just for drink or meal and chat.Just my thoughts on the site. "

If you sent me a message the first thing i would do is read your profile... and therein lies the problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

The above is from the site FAQs.

I can understand how frustrating it must be to send out messages and not receive a response but once you realise that it means that the person isn't interested and it's not considered rude you might find it less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months is not what I would consider a good while.

If you read the site FAQs is states that no reply is not bad manners.

Do you stop and talk to every AA or virgin media salesperson in every supermarket or high street when they try to engage with you, or do you put your head down and walk past? Or maybe pretend you're listening to music or on the phone?

P

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Your profile tells nothing about you, your status is moans and seems desperate. Would put me off replying massively.

I tend to delete messages when I’m not interested, I don’t have time to reply to every message, and if I do usually ends up with nasty replies, or begging etc. Easier to delete, not intending to be malicious

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nobody replies to my random faf messages

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By *rincessPussycatTV/TS
over a year ago

a world of her own


"Nobody replies to my random faf messages "

I'm sorry. I was having a busy day

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nobody replies to my random faf messages

I'm sorry. I was having a busy day"

Ok, you're excused

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The site rules and normalised behaviour states that no reply equals no further interests at present. It takes some adjustment to get used to it but it will help you when you do so, taking here as unique and different to the outside world.

Your focus can be on optimising how you engage with others, not restricting yourself in anticipation of each message achieving gold - it's not a meet until you are face to face. Look for tips and experiment as well as people who are just great but don't have to be a shag.

Don't take anything personally to knock yourself - just learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here 9 1/2 years and have the grand total of 6 meets, 3 were socials and one was a bloke. This is not a site that it is easy for most men to meet people. You need to find your way of standing out in the crowd.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to talk to a cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the amount of time here means anything substantial.

Meets will happen when people feel a mutual connection and comfortable. Just seeing a cock pic is going to put most people off.

I can't really speak with confidence but I can say this... Your profile needs to evolve over time and keep trying new things.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on here for a while now and I've sent a good few messages to women but I don't get any replys . I think its bad manners not to reply and let them no ur not interested.

It seems the genuine guys on here don't get a look in at all,Be nice to meet someone even if it was just for drink or meal and chat.Just my thoughts on the site. "

A profile is your shop window, I'd say yours is in liquidation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no obligation to reply back to someone’s messages. I see it as a polite way of saying ‘No Thanks’. I wouldn’t throw a tantrum on the forum about it. Just move on and concentrate on your profile and make it stand out. Perhaps have more face pics and not body pics.

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

You should try a few socials get to no people that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I probably wouldn’t reply if you messaged me with your profile pic or text speak. I can’t tell if you are genuine or not from that.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Been here a long time and had lots in my profile at times and just had hassle more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I probably wouldn’t reply if you messaged me with your profile pic or text speak. I can’t tell if you are genuine or not from that. "

Dick pics are so annoying. Either have a face or nothing at all. Very childish too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a long time and had lots in my profile at times and just had hassle more than anything."

Have you ever met anyone though?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Been here a long time and had lots in my profile at times and just had hassle more than anything.

Have you ever met anyone though? "

Off here, nope

Well a guy in my street came over. As he seen me on here even though I didn’t agree.

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