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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever been refused service in a pub or anywhere else for some reason?

I just got refused service in a pub because I'm wearing shorts Lol

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

I got refused because I'm a gypsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I was underage, can think of anything in recent times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, a night club in Oldham cos I was wearing a hoody (I'd nipped out, but ended up being out, out)

A bar in Berlin cos I was too fat or too old (or both)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been refused service in a pub or anywhere else for some reason?

I just got refused service in a pub because I'm wearing shorts Lol "

I can't remember getting refused service but I got to the grand old age of 51 before I got barred from a pub for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got refused as a group once because the guys had all dared each other to shave their heads and they looked like a group of thugs

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Not refused but overlooked, and not because of my height.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I suffered the embarrassment of being refused service in the local pub that was known for serving underage drinkers....when I was 18!! Just didn't have ID in me at the time...to make matters worse my mate who was 16 at the time they served no bother!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not refused but overlooked, and not because of my height.

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I've had that in rural parts of Scotland.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy "

That's happened to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got refused because I was 15

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I’d been drinking in pubs since I was 14! Only when I was 19 was I asked for ID, I didn’t have any, why would I I’d never been asked before! Got refused to be served!

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve been refused entry to a Walkabout of all places at the age of 45 at midnight.... group already in and I was the last to enter and the soberish one.... but I got smart with the bouncer when he asked “have you been drinking” my response, “are you kidding (laughing) who hasn’t been at this time of night”

Short shift out of line haha

But I had a better night in a hotel bar rather than the sticky floored W

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Had people say service was refused but just continued and they went along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get refused to be served cigarettes so I got fed up and gave up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked to leave a pub in Seattle some years ago. I think the issue was that I was English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shirt no shoes no service - yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I got work clothing on (builder)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my female friend went into a bar, lot of people waited to be served so we just started dancing whilst we waited for a queue to go down. Then we've been asked to leave coz we didn't buy drinks straight away.. I also think they were jealous of our free spirited dancing as others were enjoying it. Oh well

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Got refused years ago for wearing a biker jacket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy

That's happened to me before "

I wasn't aware that kind of discrimination was still allowed

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy

That's happened to me before

I wasn't aware that kind of discrimination was still allowed "

Lots of things that aren’t ‘allowed’ still go one everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No from both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only for not ID, now I am clearly of age I dont always have ID on me. I have been refused cigarette papers......wasnt buying tobacco just the papers.

They wouldn't serve the person i was with as he would be buying them for me. Thing is they weren't for me full stop. I don't smoke.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


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It's usually the people working 4 part time jobs for minimum wage just to keep a roof over their heads in pubs who say no for the landlords. "

Corrected that for you

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords. "

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No I haven’t thank goodness.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy "

That's a shame...It's not good to be pre-judged. I'd take my money elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy

That's happened to me before

I wasn't aware that kind of discrimination was still allowed

Lots of things that aren’t ‘allowed’ still go one everyday. "

Yeah it happens all the time

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Years ago when I had rock port shoes nowhere would let me inside due wearing them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Years ago my friend and I were refused drinks at a bar because we were not with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got refused to cream pie a woman because she was afraid of getting 'pregnant'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is. "

Seriously? So you have never seen someone getting served whilst holding a phone in their hand . Doesn't mean I'm being ignorant. I think the way you just judged me is being "ignorant as fuck"

She said it was the pubs policy not to serve anyone who is using a phone in the pub. I didn't know this until I walked in and there were no signs.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Yes, most bars in central York will refuse you in trainers, even smart ones. I've been refused entry to a pub for apparently being too d*unk,when I'd only had two pints and wasn't even acting up or slurring, the bouncer was just being a dick. And at 18 I was refused a few times because I had a baby face and forgot to bring ID out...

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I got refused entry into the USA at Newark and was marched to secondary by two armed police....but only for a few hours, then they decided to let me in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is.

Seriously? So you have never seen someone getting served whilst holding a phone in their hand . Doesn't mean I'm being ignorant. I think the way you just judged me is being "ignorant as fuck"

She said it was the pubs policy not to serve anyone who is using a phone in the pub. I didn't know this until I walked in and there were no signs. "

I wait until the person has finished their call to serve them. No we don't have signs, but if they aren't prepared to give me their full attention I'm not gonna fuck about having a 3 way conversation with them and whoever they're talking to trying to take their order, when I can serve the 2 other people waiting to get served in the same or a shorter amount of time.

Been there, done that, got grunted at with their order, then if you try to repeat it back to them to make sure you've got it right you get huffed at, sighed at, dirty looks because you have the audacity to interrupt the conversation they're having, or you stand for an age waiting for payment because they're concentrating on the call, not on the fact they're being served.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked to leave a few ??

But I am going to say, if they won't serve you with a cap on take it off and wait till you finish your call to order.

But at the end of the day the licencee can refuse anyone service with no reason.

Just check in on face book and give a bad review.

I did that after an argument with some door staff, then the fun began when I had them and their mates start commenting, lol, two showed up for interview when I was supervising and didn't remember me until I asked if they always use homophobic language online!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is.

Seriously? So you have never seen someone getting served whilst holding a phone in their hand . Doesn't mean I'm being ignorant. I think the way you just judged me is being "ignorant as fuck"

She said it was the pubs policy not to serve anyone who is using a phone in the pub. I didn't know this until I walked in and there were no signs.

I wait until the person has finished their call to serve them. No we don't have signs, but if they aren't prepared to give me their full attention I'm not gonna fuck about having a 3 way conversation with them and whoever they're talking to trying to take their order, when I can serve the 2 other people waiting to get served in the same or a shorter amount of time.

Been there, done that, got grunted at with their order, then if you try to repeat it back to them to make sure you've got it right you get huffed at, sighed at, dirty looks because you have the audacity to interrupt the conversation they're having, or you stand for an age waiting for payment because they're concentrating on the call, not on the fact they're being served.

P"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was also refused a room when I turned up at a hotel in the Midlands.. Because the lady on reception said they didn't take cash.

I rang Central reservations before I got there and the man on the phone said they will take cash.. Which I told her but she wouldn't believe me.. So i rang Central reservations again when I was there and handed the phone to her and the guy on the phone told her to take cash.

She still wouldn't take cash and I ended up having to sleep in the van

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s legal to refuse to serve anyone at all, and the law doesn’t require a reason is given. It’s usually better not to give a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy "

Did they let the horse in?

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Sign in a Spar near here

We don't talk on our phones while we are serving you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s legal to refuse to serve anyone at all, and the law doesn’t require a reason is given. It’s usually better not to give a reason!"

That is interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy

Did they let the horse in?"

Lol I know someone who tried to get served at a McDonald's drive-thru when he was on a horse and cart.

He got refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s legal to refuse to serve anyone at all, and the law doesn’t require a reason is given. It’s usually better not to give a reason!"

Especially not if it's a B&B or cake shop.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Friend got refused entry to a rock club once for being too smart - it was Halloween and he was dressed as dracula in white shirt and black trousers with a cape

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Not since giving up alcohol.

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

got refused in America as I had no ID to prove I was 21 or over at the time!!

hing was I was 38 at the time! lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt want to go out with you op you get refused a lot. I dont recall ever being refused maybe when i was a teenager for being to pissed but i dont recall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in New York. Apparently I needed ID to buy a lighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I got refused into a night club because my clothes weren't designer. Good jeans on, shoes, white t shirt and jacket is not good enough apparently.

Got refused entry into a pub after a remembrance parade. I only go with my beret and medal clasps on but a whole group of us got refused.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once refused entry into a hotel becuase they thought I was a prostitute. They'd seen me walk in with my uncle who is white and didn't believe we were related and wouldn't let me back in again as I didn't have a room key. I had to call him and my aunt to "verify" me. My aunt tore them a new one when she got downstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have because I didn't have ID. I was 30 at the time

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint."

Completely agree with the landlord for refusing to serve you whilst on your phone. Fucking height of rudeness and bad manners, that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This makes me feel bad arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once refused entry into a hotel becuase they thought I was a prostitute. They'd seen me walk in with my uncle who is white and didn't believe we were related and wouldn't let me back in again as I didn't have a room key. I had to call him and my aunt to "verify" me. My aunt tore them a new one when she got downstairs. "

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Friend got refused entry to a rock club once for being too smart - it was Halloween and he was dressed as dracula in white shirt and black trousers with a cape "

That was every Goth's look in the 80s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once refused entry into a hotel becuase they thought I was a prostitute. They'd seen me walk in with my uncle who is white and didn't believe we were related and wouldn't let me back in again as I didn't have a room key. I had to call him and my aunt to "verify" me. My aunt tore them a new one when she got downstairs. "

That's awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was shooed out of a Chinese supermarket on Monday. The door was open but the shop was closed. This little old Chinese lady starts shouting at me while pushing me out the front door lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been refused lots of times but as someone said earlier .... the licensee can refuse anyone - if they dont want you in they dont need to give you a reason. I just move on to somewhere that does want my money !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy "

That is so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got refused because I'm a gypsy

That's happened to me before

I wasn't aware that kind of discrimination was still allowed "

It's not but unfortunately the management can refuse to serve anyone don't even need to say why it's wrong in my eyes as we all human

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My friend was banned from a pub, because he was too quiet the landlord thought he was waiting to kick off with someone lol but that's just the way he is very quiet and keeps himself to himself.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've worked in pubs & clubs practically all my life.

I've refused to serve, kicked out, removed, barred more people than I've had hot dinners.

I've got a few scars to go with some of the tales too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have because I didn't have ID. I was 30 at the time "

I got refused entry to a bar a few weeks back because I had no ID. I wasn't fussed, but my mate managed to talk the bouncer round. I'm 43 and my mate is 30

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By *ackdd72Man
over a year ago

the valleys

Got refused entry into a bar in New York for having no id I was 38 my mate was 37 I just chuckled but he was bloody livid

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Ive been refused because I was wearing a cap and another time because I was on my phone whilst ordering a pint.

It's usually the dossers in pubs who say no for the landlords.

Totally agree with them nit serving you when you're on your phone. Ignorant as fuck that is. "

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I quite frequently get asked for ID in supermarkets.... drives me nuts, I’ve got nearly £200 worth of groceries and a couple of bottles of spirits both £40 +. Really people I’m nearly 40!

Use your common sense, I may have shaved today but my crows feet look like the Mariana Trench

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Me and my female friend went into a bar, lot of people waited to be served so we just started dancing whilst we waited for a queue to go down. Then we've been asked to leave coz we didn't buy drinks straight away.. I also think they were jealous of our free spirited dancing as others were enjoying it. Oh well "

This happened to me at a well known venue...I wouldn't mind but my friend was waiting to be served...I was not a happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got refused entry into a bar in New York for having no id I was 38 my mate was 37 I just chuckled but he was bloody livid "

I was at a rodeo in Oregon and saw on old man refused service at the open air bar because he didn't have ID. He had to be in his 80's and he was with his family. They were ok about it though and didn't kick up a fuss

I don't think it's just an age thing as they don't like to serve anyone with a foreign id. They are a real stickler for id across the pond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend was banned from a pub, because he was too quiet the landlord thought he was waiting to kick off with someone lol but that's just the way he is very quiet and keeps himself to himself. "

I got banned from Costermongers in Brum because I got a bird to measure my cock in the toilets with "her" tape measure.

Very unfair as we were in the gents and only I got collared and chucked out lol.

Wasn't even my idea.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No proof of age, many years after I wasn't a teenager, recently. I respect people needing to keep their employment but I show some signs of wear and tear, as well as knackers yard pre-eligibility

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