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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure if it's just me, but yeah since swinging and seeing other cocks etc I sometimes feel a bit inadequate.. but that sort of thinking has always been there for me, it's beginging to disappear though now after talking to a lot of nice people on here.

Anyway, what I was going to say is... since swinging, and especially after my first trip to Isis I have begun to have a big increase in conficence. And I mean all round conficence, in life, bit less shy, don't stress as much at work, will talk to others more etc etc.

I wonder why swinging seems to have this huge positive effect on me? Has anyone else experienced this too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because after years and years of "programming" and "brainwashing" that gives you guilt about the way you may think of sex, you shrug it off and take control.

It's liberating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because after years and years of "programming" and "brainwashing" that gives you guilt about the way you may think of sex, you shrug it off and take control.

It's liberating."

It is liberating yh, I also have confidence outside of my sex life though now too. Are these somehow connected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess so. Why, cos I believe if you find you "can do" in one area of life and it does not matter which, this is easily extended and grown into all other areas and opportunities. Thereby growing more and more confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there is also a private "buzz" from knowing that you are so much more than what people assume you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bit less shy now, after meeting different types of men, if i meet someone and we dont get on, or fancy each other it doesnt bother me too much because there have been more that i did get on with than didnt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think there is also a private "buzz" from knowing that you are so much more than what people assume you are. "

Ahh yes, this makes sense.

Actually a thought that has often crossed my mind is that bosses etc are evil and intimidating. But in swinging the people you are playing with could well be bosses etc and so your equal with them and I view them a bit different now. As I big stress point and confidence problem for me was with work, bosses and people higher up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there is also a private "buzz" from knowing that you are so much more than what people assume you are.

Ahh yes, this makes sense.

Actually a thought that has often crossed my mind is that bosses etc are evil and intimidating. But in swinging the people you are playing with could well be bosses etc and so your equal with them and I view them a bit different now. As I big stress point and confidence problem for me was with work, bosses and people higher up."

Great that you got such positive results, hope it continues for ya! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think there is also a private "buzz" from knowing that you are so much more than what people assume you are.

Ahh yes, this makes sense.

Actually a thought that has often crossed my mind is that bosses etc are evil and intimidating. But in swinging the people you are playing with could well be bosses etc and so your equal with them and I view them a bit different now. As I big stress point and confidence problem for me was with work, bosses and people higher up.

Great that you got such positive results, hope it continues for ya! x"

Thank you xx

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