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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here to pass the time

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

To find a sexy lady into threesomes and explore the wife's bisexuality,can't really do that on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined fab for fucks, not dates.

Pulling d*unk men in pubs isn't really my scene.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't know what I am anymore so I must be here out of habit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not allowed to show women my knob in public places

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By *ubenesque.Woman
over a year ago

over by there


"I don't know what I am anymore so I must be here out of habit.

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Ditto... definitely just habit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get sucked behind Tesco

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I don't know what I am anymore so I must be here out of habit.

"

Are you a lapsed nun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants to date me so I fuck desperate men instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's not just a swingers site though. FAB = Friends And Benefits. That's what I'm seeking and not dating.

All the proper dating sites have been ruined. I can't say how other women used to use them because I wasn't there for them. All I know is, the men just used them as a sex site.

I deleted dating sites and chose to stay single. Eventually I wanted my other needs met. I'm not into one night stands and random leg overs then go. So I joined FAB.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

Because when I did use dating sites, all the men actually wanted, was a fuck.

They just dressed it up with romantic bullshit & lies.

I wasn't looking for a relationship, the one.

I just wanted to have a bit of fun.

So I joined a site, where false pretenses weren't required, where people could be upfront about their intentions.

Oddly enough, I ended up forging relationships with some amazing people... And getting some pretty damn good sex too

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't know what I am anymore so I must be here out of habit.

Are you a lapsed nun? "

Sort of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it's not just a swingers site though. FAB = Friends And Benefits. That's what I'm seeking and not dating.

All the proper dating sites have been ruined. I can't say how other women used to use them because I wasn't there for them. All I know is, the men just used them as a sex site.

I deleted dating sites and chose to stay single. Eventually I wanted my other needs met. I'm not into one night stands and random leg overs then go. So I joined FAB."

Where does it say that's what Fab stands for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it here, it’s fab

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Because it's even more challenging to find a local (ish) dominant guy who is more than just a 50 shades fan.

I did try on those sites first. Tgey ran for the hills when the brat in me came out for play time

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like being honest about my intent.

I want the cock. I want the romance. I want a relationship.

Just not sure which order i want it all in. So on here till i figure myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it's not just a swingers site though. FAB = Friends And Benefits. That's what I'm seeking and not dating.

All the proper dating sites have been ruined. I can't say how other women used to use them because I wasn't there for them. All I know is, the men just used them as a sex site.

I deleted dating sites and chose to stay single. Eventually I wanted my other needs met. I'm not into one night stands and random leg overs then go. So I joined FAB.

Where does it say that's what Fab stands for? "

What I was told by many when I first joined few years ago. Makes sense because seeing the rules etc, you'll see it's not just a swingers site. A few assume it stands for fabulous swingers. But that doesn't make sense at all considering everything this site entails.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't know if I'm a swinger, I'm here for great sex in a myriad of ways. This site allows me to safely explore my sexuality with a diverse group of people that I might not have come across otherwise. And I love being able to discuss sex quite freely and have sex frequently without people thinking that I want relationships etc.

I think that sometimes 'swingers' can read as being really elite and judgey, much like those who proclaim they are not can also.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

hard to find or chat up a couple in a pub... but id probably be classed as a non swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it's not just a swingers site though. FAB = Friends And Benefits. That's what I'm seeking and not dating.

All the proper dating sites have been ruined. I can't say how other women used to use them because I wasn't there for them. All I know is, the men just used them as a sex site.

I deleted dating sites and chose to stay single. Eventually I wanted my other needs met. I'm not into one night stands and random leg overs then go. So I joined FAB.

Where does it say that's what Fab stands for?

What I was told by many when I first joined few years ago. Makes sense because seeing the rules etc, you'll see it's not just a swingers site. A few assume it stands for fabulous swingers. But that doesn't make sense at all considering everything this site entails. "

Ah ok, thanks. Maybe a mod could clarify that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an attention seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it said I'm not a "proper swinger" because I wanted to concentrate on getting the foundations of our relationship laid out in concrete before embarking on the separate meets part of this journey for us.

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I like being honest about my intent.

I want the cock. I want the romance. I want a relationship.

Just not sure which order i want it all in. So on here till i figure myself out."
i totally agree am the same ,not many make the cut on dating sites for me lately no one excites me so when I find a someone that’s worth going into my way for then things will change until then am happy having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think even the very definition of swinging will differ for some couples. It’s just individual isn’t it, I personally think it’s a forum to talk and potentially act freely as a sexual person, in an environment that’s better equipped to do that. If I meet some cool people, have great sex, and enjoy the journey, then that’s a bonus. For me it’s an extension of a life, and something I could walk away from at any time.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Because we are very exhibitionist, it offends the vanillas if done in public places, much better to find voyeurs who are willing on here.

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"To find a sexy lady into threesomes and explore the wife's bisexuality,can't really do that on pof"

You’d be surprised... but there are a lot of catfish on there if that’s what you’re looking for

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

Because when I did use dating sites, all the men actually wanted, was a fuck.

They just dressed it up with romantic bullshit & lies.

I wasn't looking for a relationship, the one.

I just wanted to have a bit of fun.

So I joined a site, where false pretenses weren't required, where people could be upfront about their intentions.

Oddly enough, I ended up forging relationships with some amazing people... And getting some pretty damn good sex too "

Upfront about their intentions lol made me chuckle I would say well over half the men on here are liars and cheats and wouldn't know honesty if it bit them on their lying ass xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I first joined fab for fucks, not dates.

Pulling d*unk men in pubs isn't really my scene.

"

This, and some great chat too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think even the very definition of swinging will differ for some couples. It’s just individual isn’t it, I personally think it’s a forum to talk and potentially act freely as a sexual person, in an environment that’s better equipped to do that. If I meet some cool people, have great sex, and enjoy the journey, then that’s a bonus. For me it’s an extension of a life, and something I could walk away from at any time. "

What a perfect answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a lot easier on here to find what I’m looking for minus the expectations other sites have.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Swinging makes me nauseous, I much prefer the slides.... Wheeeeee...........................

... Eeeee (woot!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly atm I’m just here for the forums. Hopefully find a bi single female to come and play

Mrscxxx

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

Because when I did use dating sites, all the men actually wanted, was a fuck.

They just dressed it up with romantic bullshit & lies.

I wasn't looking for a relationship, the one.

I just wanted to have a bit of fun.

So I joined a site, where false pretenses weren't required, where people could be upfront about their intentions.

Oddly enough, I ended up forging relationships with some amazing people... And getting some pretty damn good sex too

Upfront about their intentions lol made me chuckle I would say well over half the men on here are liars and cheats and wouldn't know honesty if it bit them on their lying ass xx "

This did make me laugh more than it should have!!

So so true this.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

I’m here for sex, clubs & rock n’ roll!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

I wasn’t when I first joined.

I was in a sexless marriage and hadn’t had sex for years. I joined another site and it was terrible. A friend recommended I joined here as I would get the attention from single guys and couples. He was right. I had a great time. And this is where I ended up meeting my now husband, we left Fab but still went to clubs till the club we liked closed and we decided to take the plunge and join as a couple and start the journey to swing properly. It’s been great fun I must say (when people actually turn up to meets that is!) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

If only it was that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a swinger but will only ever play in clubs.

I've had my share of fun this year as has trim.

I often get asked on messages why I'm on here if I'm not meeting.

Well the forum's are awesome, the people on the forum's are awesome. I stay in touch with people I've met in clubs and I perve in stealth mode, reading status's looking at pics, daydreaming about guys I've met but not played with or could do with seconds or guys I've spoken to on here that I've never met but would play with if our paths crossed in clubs.

To be fair my hotlist is very short... About 2 at the moment. And I hardly ever speak to ether of them if at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one wants to date me so I fuck desperate men instead "

There's desperate men on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/05/19 19:21:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why I’m here really. I’ll get back to you on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know if I'm a swinger, I'm here for great sex in a myriad of ways. This site allows me to safely explore my sexuality with a diverse group of people that I might not have come across otherwise. And I love being able to discuss sex quite freely and have sex frequently without people thinking that I want relationships etc.

I think that sometimes 'swingers' can read as being really elite and judgey, much like those who proclaim they are not can also. "

Fair point.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Most people on fab are in the same mind set.....so easier I think...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think even the very definition of swinging will differ for some couples. It’s just individual isn’t it, I personally think it’s a forum to talk and potentially act freely as a sexual person, in an environment that’s better equipped to do that. If I meet some cool people, have great sex, and enjoy the journey, then that’s a bonus. For me it’s an extension of a life, and something I could walk away from at any time. "

I like this.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

When filling out a job application the part that says hobbies do I put swinger in ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

I wasn’t when I first joined.

I was in a sexless marriage and hadn’t had sex for years. I joined another site and it was terrible. A friend recommended I joined here as I would get the attention from single guys and couples. He was right. I had a great time. And this is where I ended up meeting my now husband, we left Fab but still went to clubs till the club we liked closed and we decided to take the plunge and join as a couple and start the journey to swing properly. It’s been great fun I must say (when people actually turn up to meets that is!) lol "

Awww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one wants to date me so I fuck desperate men instead "

The realist shit I've heard all 2019.. respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm definitely a swinger but will only ever play in clubs.

I've had my share of fun this year as has trim.

I often get asked on messages why I'm on here if I'm not meeting.

Well the forum's are awesome, the people on the forum's are awesome. I stay in touch with people I've met in clubs and I perve in stealth mode, reading status's looking at pics, daydreaming about guys I've met but not played with or could do with seconds or guys I've spoken to on here that I've never met but would play with if our paths crossed in clubs.

To be fair my hotlist is very short... About 2 at the moment. And I hardly ever speak to ether of them if at all."

There's loads of other things apart from meeting on here, you're right. Pics, forums, clubs and more.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I ask myself this question most days at the moment. I think sex is so easily available to men these days why would they bother to put any effort into dating which is apparent though all the sites as they are much the same. I'm not a swinger but yes I am single and hope that one day somewhere I'll meet Prince charming trotting around on his black stallion holding milk tray. But I'm more likely to see a flying pig

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

might not meet but I have my reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what category I fit into when I am meeting, but since I'm not doing so at the moment I'm here for the friends and the forums. I've never had a swinging relationship, only monogamy.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve never been on a dating site as I have never looked for dates, I wanted to explore scenarios and sexual boundaries and this and another site helped me do that. Now I stay because the forum can be comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being honest about my intent.

I want the cock. I want the romance. I want a relationship.

Just not sure which order i want it all in. So on here till i figure myself out."

I want all that in one go but with someone who likes to swing also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather a happy harem than, a tired relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not call myself a swinger at all. I’d just describe myself as sexually non-conformist. I just like dipping in and out and trying new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

A tad more transparency on here than other platforms, for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d not call myself a swinger at all. I’d just describe myself as sexually non-conformist. I just like dipping in and out and trying new things.

"

Plus that ^ I'm not a swinger, never was before I joined, very much doubt I will be if I leave.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t have a partner to swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d much rather a happy harem than, a tired relationship. "

Why have dogs and bark yourself I'd have a kennel if I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one wants to date me so I fuck desperate men instead "

Snap

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

Because over time my needs have vastly changed..anyway, why do you care?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

Because over time my needs have vastly changed..anyway, why do you care? "

It's just a question. Why so annoyed?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m not a swinger, I rarely meet but if I do it takes forever to get to that point. I enjoy the socials and the chat. The flirty bits are ok too. That’s it really

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

Because over time my needs have vastly changed..anyway, why do you care?

It's just a question. Why so annoyed?"

Ahh ok.

Am not annoyed one bit, was just asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

A tad more transparency on here than other platforms, for me. "

Do you find men to be more open?

I like that on here they don't lie about wanting 'lurve' when all they want is a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?

Because over time my needs have vastly changed..anyway, why do you care?

It's just a question. Why so annoyed?

Ahh ok.

Am not annoyed one bit, was just asking."

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really here to meet, but I wouldn't say no to anyone crazy enough to want to. I find these forums, and the people who post on them, fascinating, frightening and hilarious. It's great entertainment and a real insight into the minds of British swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like showing off"

This too. I do like the attention and don’t mind admitting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not a swinger why be on Fab? Why not use dating sites or pubs to find a fuck?"

I envy posters who can set a simple question without facing copious amounts of abuse and ridicule.

It's hard being me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To get sucked behind Tesco

"

Well it's different from Lidl, don't let anyone ever tell you that your pleasure seeking lacks variety....

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a real proper swinger. I had a partner who liked to meet couples and swap and also go to parties and clubs. I loved the swinging lifestyle. But he didn't and left me to fend for myself. It's hard to swing if you don't have a partner. So I have occasionally done stuff on my own since then.

I don't like going to the pub alone and I'm not looking to date.

There's nowhere else for me other than a nunnery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm married!! And this is where all the married people are

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I didn’t know you was like that in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? So I can annoy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I use a dating website to try find someone to fuck? people are generally there to, you know... date.

This site might be called 'fabswingers' but to me its just as much of a 'Find someone to fuck' website, except this site at least doesn't seem to have loads of bots trying to get me to visit their webcam site

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

Why am I here...... because people get offended when I walk around comparing my cock next to a sky remote. However on fab it’s not only acceptable but actively encouraged!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it here, it’s fab "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was a real proper swinger. I had a partner who liked to meet couples and swap and also go to parties and clubs. I loved the swinging lifestyle. But he didn't and left me to fend for myself. It's hard to swing if you don't have a partner. So I have occasionally done stuff on my own since then.

I don't like going to the pub alone and I'm not looking to date.

There's nowhere else for me other than a nunnery. "

It's not the same without a partner to share the fun with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why? So I can annoy you."

To annoy me or everyone? You don't annoy me, I like your posts.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I'm married!! And this is where all the married people are "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads "

I don't think you need a partner but it's definitely more fun with one. I don't think it's a novice question, everyone has different opinions. I think it's interesting to see what other people think.

I like the rest of what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads "

I don't think you do, it's as much an open community for casual sex as it is a place for two couples to swap partners.

'Swinging' means different things to different people IMO

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads

I don't think you need a partner but it's definitely more fun with one. I don't think it's a novice question, everyone has different opinions. I think it's interesting to see what other people think.

I like the rest of what you said. "

Agree it probably is more fun with a playmate, but that’s something later on once met singularly and discussed desires and fantasies, then and only then, can you take that next step to what I assume most call swinging.... clubs, couple swapping, etc

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads

I don't think you do, it's as much an open community for casual sex as it is a place for two couples to swap partners.

'Swinging' means different things to different people IMO "

I agree with you. It’s an open place where you can be yourself and hopefully find what you are looking for, whatever that may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is just a platform that works for me. Who cares that I’m not a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you need a partner to truly swing ?

Excuse what probably appears a novice question.

For me I thought this was a place for like minded people to openly chat and discuss their desires freely, with the added bonus that you might actually get to meet some with a similar mindset.

Personally for me, I find people are lot more open here about their circumstances, which is very refreshing and everyone makes their choices of where it leads

I don't think you do, it's as much an open community for casual sex as it is a place for two couples to swap partners.

'Swinging' means different things to different people IMO

I agree with you. It’s an open place where you can be yourself and hopefully find what you are looking for, whatever that may be "

I'm looking for my shoes, haven't found them yet. I left them somewhere round here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a real proper swinger. I had a partner who liked to meet couples and swap and also go to parties and clubs. I loved the swinging lifestyle. But he didn't and left me to fend for myself. It's hard to swing if you don't have a partner. So I have occasionally done stuff on my own since then.

I don't like going to the pub alone and I'm not looking to date.

There's nowhere else for me other than a nunnery.

It's not the same without a partner to share the fun with. "

I agree, definitely not as much fun.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

To find a hot girl to explore my bisexual fantasies with and have a sexy threesome with her and my man xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"

I don't think you do, it's as much an open community for casual sex as it is a place for two couples to swap partners.

'Swinging' means different things to different people IMO

I agree with you. It’s an open place where you can be yourself and hopefully find what you are looking for, whatever that may be

I'm looking for my shoes, haven't found them yet. I left them somewhere round here "

Haha how did you lose your shoes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here because I want to try a threesome and dating sites just don't provide that type of exposure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? So I can annoy you.

To annoy me or everyone? You don't annoy me, I like your posts. "

To annoy anyone who thinks a singleton who likes sex shouldn't be on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because dating sites are crap and I'm not a drinker. And who says I find fucks on here anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why? So I can annoy you.

To annoy me or everyone? You don't annoy me, I like your posts.

To annoy anyone who thinks a singleton who likes sex shouldn't be on fab "

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

The linking of sex and alcohol with one night stands is a potential recipe for disaster for either party.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Because basically the dating sites are just full of married or taken men just wanting NSA, it's all BS.

I love sex and this site has enabled me to explore things I never would on the so called "dating" sites. If you say too much about your sexulity on those sites your just seen as an easy lay. I don't meet often as casual NSA just doesn't do it for me long term. For me the best sex I've ever had was when I was crazy about the person. It just heightens everything.

I may not be a "proper swinger" whatever that is but in the meantime I enjoy the forums and being able to enjoy talking about sex, having a flirt, I also have some things I would still like to explore and just enjoying the ride along the way!

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

When I first joined I wanted sex and thought I'd be doing ok.

Not so given the number of men and their advantages over me.

The site has helped me learn something about myself and the reasons given by others on here have allowed me to see other reasons to stay.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m a shit swinger..... but kinda getting better as time goes on.

I’m here for clubs, fuck buddies and fun.

Anything more is a bonus.

I’ve made some amazing friends too which i didn’t think would happen.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

If the site was restricted to "Married" people seeking MFMF fun with other "Married" folks it would probably not exist due to lack of support!!!!!!!

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m just here to look at dick

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

We were thinking of the things that proved we aren't swingers. We came to the conclusion we are!

It covers so many things though. We love attending socials, we love the chat and banter. We visit clubs but don't necessarily go off and play with others! We have met some lovely people in clubs.

So the social side is great.

Do we play with others? Yes, but that isn't our default when we go to a club.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I’m just here to look at dick "

who is Dick?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just here to look at dick "

Hi, I'm Dick.....

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I’m just here to look at dick

Hi, I'm Dick..... "

hi Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I don't know for certain what a swinger is

2. If it's what I think it is I'm too picky...

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It's not just about a fuck, it's more fb/fwb with similar interests sexually, not the sort of thing you can advertise for really on dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined as was looking for sexy couples to have fun with but didn’t realise how hard it is to find with the amount of males.But not given up yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because basically the dating sites are just full of married or taken men just wanting NSA, it's all BS.

I love sex and this site has enabled me to explore things I never would on the so called "dating" sites. If you say too much about your sexulity on those sites your just seen as an easy lay. I don't meet often as casual NSA just doesn't do it for me long term. For me the best sex I've ever had was when I was crazy about the person. It just heightens everything.

I may not be a "proper swinger" whatever that is but in the meantime I enjoy the forums and being able to enjoy talking about sex, having a flirt, I also have some things I would still like to explore and just enjoying the ride along the way! "

Do you think men on here treat the women differently to the ones on dating sites who think we are an easy lay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1. I don't know for certain what a swinger is

2. If it's what I think it is I'm too picky..."

What do you think it is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were thinking of the things that proved we aren't swingers. We came to the conclusion we are!

It covers so many things though. We love attending socials, we love the chat and banter. We visit clubs but don't necessarily go off and play with others! We have met some lovely people in clubs.

So the social side is great.

Do we play with others? Yes, but that isn't our default when we go to a club. "

Love it.

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm just here to pass the time "

Then you shouldn’t be here. There’s enough time wasters on fab

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Because it's not just a swingers site though. FAB = Friends And Benefits. That's what I'm seeking and not dating.

All the proper dating sites have been ruined. I can't say how other women used to use them because I wasn't there for them. All I know is, the men just used them as a sex site.

I deleted dating sites and chose to stay single. Eventually I wanted my other needs met. I'm not into one night stands and random leg overs then go. So I joined FAB."

The clue is in the name, Fabswingers, not fab and swingers.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I like showing off"

That's a very good new pic

I find fab a good place to find fwb's while I'm waiting for the love of my life to appear.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Dating sites seem to serious, I go to pubs with my mates not to find a fuck,

I mainly come on fab to chat and have a laugh

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Because basically the dating sites are just full of married or taken men just wanting NSA, it's all BS.

I love sex and this site has enabled me to explore things I never would on the so called "dating" sites. If you say too much about your sexulity on those sites your just seen as an easy lay. I don't meet often as casual NSA just doesn't do it for me long term. For me the best sex I've ever had was when I was crazy about the person. It just heightens everything.

I may not be a "proper swinger" whatever that is but in the meantime I enjoy the forums and being able to enjoy talking about sex, having a flirt, I also have some things I would still like to explore and just enjoying the ride along the way! "

This

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