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Are we all just consumers ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before I buy anything, I think do I really need this thing or am I just sad and is this just to temporarily fill the void, until the rush of purchasing something new wears off.

What do you do, to stop yourself from purchasing willy nilly, or do you just buy willy nilly in the hope that your latest product will give you the happiness you’re searching for ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Buying doesn’t make me happy because I don’t like shopping.

Buying coffee and cake makes me happy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate shopping Tame, so that doesn’t happen with me. I’ll go out for coffee instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely buy things for the sake of it. In fact I try to make myself do it by the whole "I deserve a treat" thing but I just end up talking myself out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a minimum wage job and run your own house alone. There's no spare cash for purchases, problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get purchasing guilt so have the opposite problem. Instead I fill my emotional void with cock.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can't afford to shop willy nilly so I buy what I need and occasionally treat myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never buy anything If I have to borrow, I just go without, I don’t get the mentality of buy now pay later. I’ve been waiting to buy some Bose speakers for months, every time I get the money together something more important comes up.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not really a big shopper. Not unless it's for food. I sometimes go for days without buying anything because I hate stuff for the sake of stuff. I don't like clutter and get antsy at the thought of more. Sex is a far better way to spend my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always buy things then get annoyed for spending the money. I mainly buy trainers/shoes some may call it an addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treating yourself once in a while does you a world of good. As long as it’s once in a while and not compulsive purchasing then I see no harm in it.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Never bought a willy nilly....as Al does not wear such things ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a shopaholic so do buy randomly, many times when not needed. I’m starting to buy things I need more often now but I’m still spending more than I should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all self-soothe in different ways. Some people like to buy stuff, some people comfort eat, some people spend excessive amounts of time on the Internet or escape into novels or TV. Everyone has their own particular emotional crutch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get purchasing guilt so have the opposite problem. Instead I fill my emotional void with cock. "

They’ll be no talk of cock on this very serious thread young lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get purchasing guilt so have the opposite problem. Instead I fill my emotional void with cock.

They’ll be no talk of cock on this very serious thread young lady! "

I can do serious, see above....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get purchasing guilt so have the opposite problem. Instead I fill my emotional void with cock.

They’ll be no talk of cock on this very serious thread young lady!

I can do serious, see above.... "

And no, I'm not referring to my profile picture.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I definitely used to buy things to make me feel better but as I’ve got older I realise that virtually all possessions fail to deliver on their expectations.

I would rather spend time and money on experiences and time with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather put the money away and save it for family treats

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Yes we're consumers, we exist to work, to spend, to die, so that others can choose not work, to enjoy the fruits of our labours, then leave it all to their kids so they can continue the status quo.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I hate shopping. I trained d to buy things that I actually need for the lad or the house

Occasionally I’ll treat myself with a new something, which is usually for playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You made me want to buy a radio Tame

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't get enough sex so I buy to fill the void. It's getting full in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want it I buy it. No guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get enough sex so I buy to fill the void. It's getting full in there.

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That must be a personal choice

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


" I buy anything, just to temporarily fill the void, "

This

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