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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

I was chatting to a friend that made the comment that she attracted dominant men but that they often end up being possessive.

Is that a common experience? Is there a link between the two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never believe those cliches

Is it a cliche ??

I’ve never met anyone on here who’s possessive of me - I’ve tried though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never believe those cliches

Is it a cliche ??

I’ve never met anyone on here who’s possessive of me - I’ve tried though

"

That’s because they’re all tied up in your cellar

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't know whether that's the case but being possessive I find very unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never believe those cliches

Is it a cliche ??

I’ve never met anyone on here who’s possessive of me - I’ve tried though

That’s because they’re all tied up in your cellar "

Want to join them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I think some men get confused between dominance and possessiveness.

Most people I know who are dominant are actually very comfortable with none monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P"

I was just trying to find these words!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P

I was just trying to find these words! "

Me too!

The fatigue is bad today, so words are harder to think of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found a few passive men to be possessive too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never believe those cliches

Is it a cliche ??

I’ve never met anyone on here who’s possessive of me - I’ve tried though

That’s because they’re all tied up in your cellar

Want to join them ?"

No, I’m scared of the dark

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P"

Yes! I don't find that dominant men are more possessive but I do go through phases of attracting the possessiveness. Not sure of their unifying attributes apart from being a bit of a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never believe those cliches

Is it a cliche ??

I’ve never met anyone on here who’s possessive of me - I’ve tried though

That’s because they’re all tied up in your cellar

Want to join them ?

No, I’m scared of the dark "

Pah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve experienced this on one occasion so can’t say there’s definitely a link between the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P

I was just trying to find these words! "

I'm actually becoming afraid of the smarty pants I'm turning into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is any correlation between the two.. possessiveness can occur whether someone is dominant or submissive imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a difference between being dominant and domineering

P

Yes! I don't find that dominant men are more possessive but I do go through phases of attracting the possessiveness. Not sure of their unifying attributes apart from being a bit of a twat."

Hmmm, maybe they sniffed out that you were perhaps vulnerable at the time, and that was their unifying attribute?

I don't obviously know if you were at that time, but going on past experiences I'd take a guess.

P

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Id say possesiveness comes from insecurity more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm (Bloke) quite a dominant/take control guy in normal life but like to be more laid back and go with the flow in bed.

Not how it usually works out as ladies seem to want me to be dominant so that's how it tends to go.

I'm pretty sure I'm not at all posessive unless someone tries to take my last Peroni ??

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

My own father was the most dominant man I’ve ever met and he was extremely possessive of my mother

She once said she liked it so it obviously worked well for them

I’ve a gay friend that is showing signs of a dominant that is very possessive of me since we connected on a deeper level

I don’t always see it as such a sinister thing I can view it as very strong people that wants a lot of control sometimes it works but often not

The mind and our senses get turned on and off by very different things and we are all strange beings at times

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I can believe there is some degree of correlation as I am the exact opposite of both traits!

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