FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the most common reason...

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

for turning down a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for turning down a meet?"

Because the person asking isn't you!

Tony :-0

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"for turning down a meet?

Because the person asking isn't you!

Tony :-0"
Cheeky....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe Sorry, It just slipped out

Our main reason is normally because they are to far away or after a couple of messages find they have no sence of humour.

Tony

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Reckon myself that it's too easy to set things up from behind the keyboard, but when it comes to the crunch it's like, "fucking weather, can't really afford it, too far to travel, Match of the Day on the beeb" might as well have a wank.

- said from the point of view from a couple who don't come here to organize meets.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

logistics for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No attraction

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if im not interested in what they say in the first message it doesnt get any further. Sometimes ive sent a few messages backwards and forwards and then theyve bored me or i didnt like something they said. Its not often i get as far as someone actually asking me for a meet properly(ie getting to know me first) that i turn someone down. Usually if they have gotten as far as asking me properly im going to accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because most are a fraud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fancy them, too far, cheating, working, too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't want NSA fun. Many singles are looking for a relationship.

I'm happy to have a meaningful relationship once or twice a month, date, drinks, meal, sleepover.

on most occasions they have wanted more than NSA.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Don't fancy them, nowhere to go, too far away, too short, too dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz BB scares me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clashes with existing commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment... silly health...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually cos the male wants some form of anal contact

bussy don't do bums - well not mens anyway

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on one meets can't really compete with the thrill of a club and as my OH is travelling either around this country or in Germany then time is the biggest factor for arranging meets. Clubs need no planning to the nth degree and don't require a long list of criteria to be met, so that's mainly why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One on one meets can't really compete with the thrill of a club and as my OH is travelling either around this country or in Germany then time is the biggest factor for arranging meets. Clubs need no planning to the nth degree and don't require a long list of criteria to be met, so that's mainly why

i agree with that, the no planning bit, tho i have to be honest i do prefer private meets over clubs as i just prefer the intamacy, a real bed and not having everyone groping at you at times i get so fed up with guys off here arranging meets then pulling out it just seems to make more sence to get ready and go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

washing my hairs xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Usually it's because I'm married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to lust them ....if not no go ..... and i get my ladys things or weeks , And family around at times ... some weekend horse shows.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

If the attraction/chemistrys not there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They start asking "What we gonna do" or somesuch.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

They turn out to be a twat.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

because they end up asking me stuff so i know they haven't read me profile....

that and doing a job with unsocialable shifts meand that i am unavailable a lot.... well.. that is what i tell meself!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

They are or get pushy.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Main 2 reasons for us are:

No attraction

Both work alot of weekends and evenings so finding the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no personality, attraction or just a general vibe about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No attraction

Bad attitude

Major assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us - too far away or too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I get to know them more, I get to like them less.

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I have not had the oppertunity to turn anyone down yet lol still waiting for the elusive 1st, it will happen hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read my profile - just perved the pics and have nothing in common in terms of interests or wants! Expecting that as a single guy i'll obviously say yes to all and sundry! Getting stroppy when you can't drop everything else in your life just to fit in with their schedule!

Oh - and if i've got something else plannes - another meet/work/spartacus is on! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either I don't find myself attracted to them for whatever reason such as they are illiterate, dull, have poor hygiene or suchlike.

Or a meet is scuppered due to my working hours, which at times can be nothing short of ridiculous.

I also agree with NN, a first time meet arranged with someone I quite fancy (ironically she herself fits extremely well into this bracket) is usually much more intimate when conducted in a private setting. You also have a lot more carte blanche to explore your raw animal side and indulge in any naughty little kinks that make both of you horny as hell, without the possibility of others frowning upon your deviant behaviour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its down to people not living up to their profile. Either not looking much like pictures or pushing on cam to let them wank off for you. So failing to live up to their own hype would be about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main reason is that they are never in my age range for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for turning down a meet?"

To old, or dont like their photo.

Cali

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"for turning down a meet?"

to short (for k), to young for either of us (but if pushed

)to far away, single guys obviously playing away, we just don't like the profile.

Well that should get us a few meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age and location are 2 of our biggest rejections. If they are really young we just don't feel comfortable and also if they are the other end of the country just rules them out for us.

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