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By *he English One OP   Man
over a year ago

west

Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d unfriend her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d unfriend her too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d leave it be mate, if you sent one and didn’t reply, then let it go. Nothing turns a woman off more than pushy men.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great "

Block her that works wonders!!!!

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City

send her a wink

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great

Block her that works wonders!!!!"
you obviously like her mate so try again

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Blocking, ignoring and deleting messages are often the only way to get rid of those that aren’t aware they’re coming across as irritating or overly pushy or butthurt.

That’s not at all saying that this is what you’re doing OP. But it probably does relate to some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave her be.. for whatever reason she's not reading and responding which is a clear indication she doesn't want to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm you want to show her you care?

Is it only me that is concerned by that statement?

I'm guessing you messaged maybe once or twice and have never spoken on the phone or met. And now you are wanting to show her you care about her!

Red flag to me that one and very worrying!!!

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City

look it's obvious this woman is leading you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on"

How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on

How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him "

Self protection comes in many forms

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By *nderIwonder.Man
over a year ago

2nd City


"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on

How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on

How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him

exactly "

Exactly what?!

She isn’t leading him on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look it's obvious this woman is leading you on

How can she possibly leading him on? She’s not replying to him

Self protection comes in many forms "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It sounds like she's not interested, so I'm a bit bemused as to why she's not unfriended you. You should get shot of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think or you know? You tend to know if someone has messaged you once. It's when it gets into double figures that you think it was 27 or 18, etc.

I know...I'm a cynic.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’d leave it be mate, if you sent one and didn’t reply, then let it go. Nothing turns a woman off more than pushy men."

This

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By *he English One OP   Man
over a year ago

west

Oh wow this exploded fairly quick lol ah thanks for the replies yeah I don't want to sound pushy by keep sending messages cos I know how annoying that can get I might just let her be and just move on just confused with being on her friends list is all unless she was completely pissed at the time she accepted the request lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like she's not interested, so I'm a bit bemused as to why she's not unfriended you. You should get shot of her. "

Sounds like she just likes the attention OP. Get rid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wow this exploded fairly quick lol ah thanks for the replies yeah I don't want to sound pushy by keep sending messages cos I know how annoying that can get I might just let her be and just move on just confused with being on her friends list is all unless she was completely pissed at the time she accepted the request lol"

I’ve accidentally accepted requests before and not noticed for months. Especially when I had first joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great "

Is she someone you have previously met or just someone you sent a request to and you're reading about her misfortunes on your local updates? Id unfriend her tbh

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As somebody who has been on the receiving end of such behaviour (and I don't mean just on here, on a much grander scale that I won't go in to),just accept that she is not interested. The less you have chatted/know the people doing this the easier it is to accept, so be thankful and move on.

Yeah sure it is a shitty thing for a person to do in general (again, talking on a wider scale than just fab) by ignoring somebody but people do such things because they take the easy route and find it much simpler for them to just ghost you/ignore you.

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By *he English One OP   Man
over a year ago

west


"Just a curious question I have a women in my friends list i won't say who but I think we have exchanged messages to each other once whenever she is online I messages her but I get nothing back not even a read msg and no I don't expect a reply she's been getting stood up and I want to show I care but she doesn't notice my msg I know women get ridiculous amount of messages on a daily occasion which isn't fair but should I keep trying or should I just unfriendly her and just leave it be I don't want to feel like I'm annoying her so I don't know what to do any input would be great

Is she someone you have previously met or just someone you sent a request to and you're reading about her misfortunes on your local updates? Id unfriend her tbh"

Well I didn't randomly send a friend request to her we chatted for a little before hand then nothing after that just annoys me when you think your getting somewhere then the door gets slammed in your face but I do try to not let it get to me not easy tho lol

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