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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. and it's not put others off.. being broke doesn't make me less funny..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less what people do for a living or how much money they make when I bump into them at clubs. I refuse to let people know what I do for a living on here and in clubs. It's not relevant to my desires and liking them as people or them being attracted to me.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I couldn't care less what people do for a living or how much money they make when I bump into them at clubs. I refuse to let people know what I do for a living on here and in clubs. It's not relevant to my desires and liking them as people or them being attracted to me. "

100% This.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... definitely not

Who are we to judge someone’s circumstance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend why

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

No more time to spend playing doctors and nurses lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure. "

This for me too.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure. "

This for me too. I really don't care what someone does for work or not, but if they were just unemployed because they couldn't be arsed working, I don't want to get involved, even superficially, with someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Some people could’ve, I dont usually ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least theirs a chance they'll be free when I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely unemployed, no, but a lazy dosser, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ... definitely not

Who are we to judge someone’s circumstance "

Who are we to judge? Blimey, that’s not in the Fab spirit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?"

You tried Indeed ?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

Yep too much time on their hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?"

If I was looking at dating them then absolutely, but just to meet from fabs? Not at all

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, at least they'll would be available during the day!! If I was looking for anything other that a fb then it would though.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope, they is still a person innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, at least they'll would be available during the day!! If I was looking for anything other that a fb then it would though."

They’d be available anytime.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure. "

What about if that lifestyle choice meant they weren't taking any kind of benefits and was because they could afford not to be employed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me personally I wouldn't mind if they were unemployed genuinely ... As I'm unfortunately unemployed myself and I am trying everything to get into work it's driving me crazy not being in work.....

But the whole reason I'm asking is I've just realised women have only been interested in me when I've been in work ...

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Whats being unemployed got to do with meeting people??

You could be a multi billionaire investor across 3 continents and be a fucking arrogant knob.

Or unemployed and be very grounded and a top guy and a very decent person.

All about the person you meet,not what they do for a living and the income they make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What matters is that you're attracted to them, why would their line of work or employment status make a difference? I do see a lot of girls asking for men in uniform mind.....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?"

As long as it's not because they are in prison.

A bad profile is much more likely to put us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above it would depend on circumstances. If they are the type that had never really worked then they are not the type of person that would have anything in common with me.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No it wouldn’t put me off.

None of my business what somebody does for a living or unemployed.

Just because someone is unemployed does not automatically mean they don’t want to work. There are lots of different reasons why someone isn’t working and each to their own. The job doesn’t make the person

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" the whole reason I'm asking is I've just realised women have only been interested in me when I've been in work ... "

So women ask you what you do for a living before arranging to meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the reason why. If it was a lifestyle choice then it would put me off for sure."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above it would depend on circumstances. If they are the type that had never really worked then they are not the type of person that would have anything in common with me. "

Why would that mean they wouldn't have anything in common with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?"

I have no problem meeting someone without a job. Everyone has their own story and I never judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?

I have no problem meeting someone without a job. Everyone has their own story and I never judge"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all.

I think it would put of the gold diggers though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have met unemployed men but I then end up paying for everything. It doesn't always feel very equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not unemployed so thats not a problem. My problem is being terminally ill...no-one wants to meet someone who's dying... Of course being old fat and ugly doesnt help much either

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, I like people for their qualities, not job status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if that person is a sex worker....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone being unemployed put you off meeting them?"

I’ve been unemployed since October and it’s not had the remotest impact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it I think there will be a lot of people unemployed very soon the way this country is going

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I would meet them, I wouldn't have a relationship with them, I have too much to lose and, have worked hard for my things.

At least I am honest. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if that person is a sex worker.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if that person is a sex worker....

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Thought that nobody would pick up on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if that person is a sex worker....

Thought that nobody would pick up on that "

I'm very impressed.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

It possibly would as I’m attracted to ‘professionals’ who I can suck like a dyson?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I would meet them, I wouldn't have a relationship with them, I have too much to lose and, have worked hard for my things.

At least I am honest. Ms "

What makes you think an unemployed person will steal your things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It possibly would as I’m attracted to ‘professionals’ who I can suck like a dyson? "

Thought you were like a Rowenta type of girl. I got it all wrong

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Nope. I’m not meeting their job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above it would depend on circumstances. If they are the type that had never really worked then they are not the type of person that would have anything in common with me.

Why would that mean they wouldn't have anything in common with you? "

As I said if they are the type that has never worked. Ie lazy sponger then they are not my type of person. If they are unemployed and job searching then that's totally different. And yes afraid I don't have anything in common with people who would prefer not to work as thats not my ethic.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Only if they asked us to buy a copy of the Big Issue during the meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they already get my taxes, they're not having my sperm as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the reason.

Being a mom is great... but a working role model will go further towards giving the child a successful future.

if they just dont want to.... im out

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