FabSwingers.com forum: Wife found my sex toys!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife found my secret anal toys and my size 11 thigh high boots. Now she wants me to leave, she thinks I'm gay! She's not into anal or anything adventurous! Am I that bad?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

So a new chapter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife found my secret anal toys and my size 11 thigh high boots. Now she wants me to leave, she thinks I'm gay! She's not into anal or anything adventurous! Am I that bad?"

Go for the full set, show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her about fab, then ask her that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife found my secret anal toys and my size 11 thigh high boots. Now she wants me to leave, she thinks I'm gay! She's not into anal or anything adventurous! Am I that bad?"

It doesn't seem that bad to me. But it's obviously upset your wife.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My wife found my secret anal toys and my size 11 thigh high boots. Now she wants me to leave, she thinks I'm gay! She's not into anal or anything adventurous! Am I that bad?"

What do you mean by "that bad"?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If this really has happened OP and you really care - wouldn't you be better off not being on Fab and talking to your wife about it, maybe trying to explain to her why those things excite you? Or working out with her what happens from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness, there will be a period of shock and things will be said that aren't meant

It's a shame you felt you couldn't be open with her previously

Her reaction is pretty much as to be expected

Over the comings weeks, engage her, let her understand, involve her

If you have an otherwise strong relationship, you will endure it

I understand you might need input from here tonight but going forward you should be talking to her, not us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife found my secret anal toys and my size 11 thigh high boots. Now she wants me to leave, she thinks I'm gay! She's not into anal or anything adventurous! Am I that bad?"

Obviously you are...in her eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She thinks she doesn't know me now and she's lost her big strong man. Because I fantasise about being a slut and having my ass played with by female! This is why I kept it secret!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She thinks she doesn't know me now and she's lost her big strong man. Because I fantasise about being a slut and having my ass played with by female! This is why I kept it secret!"

Then I’d feel the same way as your wife. I’d feel betrayed and lied to. I don’t blame her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it surprising that your only concern is how "bad" you are.

If this actually happened surely the only opinions who matter are yours and your wife's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She thinks she doesn't know me now and she's lost her big strong man. Because I fantasise about being a slut and having my ass played with by female! This is why I kept it secret!"

If you keep things secret from her then she's bound to feel like she doesn't know you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe not bad but I'm i a twat for not telling her about my secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe not bad but I'm i a twat for not telling her about my secret "

Yep

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By *ineinchtonyMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

Everyones view will be different but I would say yes you are. Being open and honest goes a long way in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest with her OP, sit her down and let it all out, let her know that you love her. Then ask her to f*ck you in the ass?

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