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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So my friend keeps putting himself down and it makes me sad.

Please can you all tell me the reasons why you yourself are wonderful so he can join in and make me smile

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I own my shit.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm tough, smart, loyal, and have successfully fought my own demons in that vein.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Hugs

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

In a recent Fab poll I was voted the most wonderful male between the sheets

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Because i'm a fundamentally good and just person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don’t need any encouragement to tell us how great they are on here.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet....

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Hugs "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might seem a bit fragile but I've clawed my way back up from utter hell without it making me overly cynical or jaded. I'm proud of that, I'm an OK sort of person. Plus I have the perkiest tits

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm awesome

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet...."

Self doubt comes like breathing to some of us. It's hard. I get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don’t need any encouragement to tell us how great they are on here."

So cynical!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Because I’be always got time to listen and hopefully (as most mates say) they forgot why they were feeling down

The most precious thing you can give someone is your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I put others before myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Nice arty pics in your profile. I like those x

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I might seem a bit fragile but I've clawed my way back up from utter hell without it making me overly cynical or jaded. I'm proud of that, I'm an OK sort of person. Plus I have the perkiest tits

And the nicest bum I’ve seen in ages! Well done on the rest too! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People don’t need any encouragement to tell us how great they are on here."

Some clearly do or I wouldn't have made the thread

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet...."

Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because everyone see's the world differently. What we may not like about ourselves others may find to be amazing. Also,I've accepted who I am which took until my early 30's to do. Once you realise that you are who you are and more so that others people's opinions don't affect you. Then you can be happy. I'd ask your friend to reflect on the fact that there are 7 billion people on this planet so it's impossible to like everyone. Rather than dislike yourself, learn to accept yourself. No one is perfect and no-one expects you to be. The world is a hard enough place to live without you disliking yourself.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"People don’t need any encouragement to tell us how great they are on here.

Some clearly do or I wouldn't have made the thread

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Nice arty pics in your profile. I like those x"

Thank you. Love playing with light and shapes in photography x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nice hair ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet...."

I'm glad you came back with this. Sometimes it is hard to see the positives when you're stuck in a rut of negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I’m a nice human !!

I put others before myself !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

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you look good for a 21 year old to be fair.

And good kisser?...prove it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

Good is a understatement

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet....

Self doubt comes like breathing to some of us. It's hard. I get it. "

I’ve had years of it...I know where it comes from and relationships have ended because of it (actually because they couldn’t handle being a support too) and yet even with all that knowledge, and a bloody good mask, I can’t change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

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lol snap although 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

lol snap although 51"
agreed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m loving, compassionate, emotionally intelligent, quick witted, creative, musical, strong literary skills, charming and at times charismatic. However I have a bad habit of taking the piss out of myself a lot and hiding my light as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I really need to explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kind, I have fought back from depression, I have fought back from dv..I'm warrior xx

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet....

I'm glad you came back with this. Sometimes it is hard to see the positives when you're stuck in a rut of negativity. "

I see the positives yet the last few years the negatives have far out weighed them, and I’m in a place I don’t want to be but can’t get out of.

It’ll happen, it always does.

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Just because I’m me, I like what, why and who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

lol snap although 51 agreed x"
how do you know im a great kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

lol snap although 51 agreed xhow do you know im a great kisser

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I have a vivid imagination...lol

You're right, I don't. Guess I should find out somehow...hmmm ???? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy in my own skin.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I don't think I'm wonderful I never blow my own horn ..... But my grandkids think I am that's all that matters to me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can lace my shoes by myself

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm loosing the weight that's been holding me back for years and feel better sexier and hotter than ever.

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

"I can’t really. I’m probably in his book.

Then I come on here and feel even worse

Ok, that was negative and defeatist.

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet....

I'm glad you came back with this. Sometimes it is hard to see the positives when you're stuck in a rut of negativity.

I see the positives yet the last few years the negatives have far out weighed them, and I’m in a place I don’t want to be but can’t get out of.

It’ll happen, it always does. "

Well, I would - despite your negging. Men and confidence are sexy asf

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

I have a fucking good job. I am kind, considerate and thoughtful...probably too much!

I have two wonderful teenage sons who actually want to spend time with their father even though they’re teenagers.

I have a been told (verifications) that I have a great cock and I’m a great kisser.

And yet....

I'm glad you came back with this. Sometimes it is hard to see the positives when you're stuck in a rut of negativity.

I see the positives yet the last few years the negatives have far out weighed them, and I’m in a place I don’t want to be but can’t get out of.

It’ll happen, it always does.

Well, I would - despite your negging. Men and confidence are sexy asf

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can lace my shoes by myself "

I thought you needed help to get your Velcro ones on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can lace my shoes by myself

I thought you needed help to get your Velcro ones on ? "

That was before I bought new glasses

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am smart, geeky, experienced... love to dance... have my own thing going on...

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We like to make others happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am thoughtful kind caring person who is just a cuddle bundle of awesomeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm persistent, like damp, and happy in my own mind and company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can lace my shoes by myself

I thought you needed help to get your Velcro ones on ?

That was before I bought new glasses "

I wondered why you were wearing a welders mask.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m just me.. team player (when all the rest of the team plays nicely

) and a jewel I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off all the messages today i look bloody good for a 54 year old.. plus I'm a great kisser

lol snap although 51 agreed xhow do you know im a great kisser

I have a vivid imagination...lol

You're right, I don't. Guess I should find out somehow...hmmm ???? lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do it when I've finished work as there's an awful lot to write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not any good at saying any good points of myself so from a friend, I’m kind, understanding, funny, sexy and gorgeous, and a fantastic kisser and fuck. Still not sure it’s me he’s describing x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m that smiley person who will befriend almost anyone. I have an infinite capacity for joy and can always find the bright spot in the dullest day. Some would call it annoying. I think it’s wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can lace my shoes by myself

I thought you needed help to get your Velcro ones on ?

That was before I bought new glasses

I wondered why you were wearing a welders mask. "

Because my nun passed away during summer 99

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Because I’m a nice person, a good friend and I care.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like making people smile. Whether that be by entering a room or leaving it, i’ll take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know me

Strengths, weaknesses, vulnerabilities, capabilities

Until you know it and own 'you' then drops are bound to happen

Hope your friend is upbeat soon

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

This is surprisingly difficult. I am friendly and cheerful and quite witty??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is surprisingly difficult. I am friendly and cheerful and quite witty?? "
hello xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m Popeye the sailor man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm good a burning food, in fact I'm brilliant at it. There's never a day when the smoke alarm doesn't go off

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

"This is surprisingly difficult. I am friendly and cheerful and quite witty?? hello xx

LOL hi there you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is surprisingly difficult. I am friendly and cheerful and quite witty?? hello xx

LOL hi there you

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always a pleasure my lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to smile and make people smile too

a smile brightens my say

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm probably more weird than wonderful, to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am me, nothing more, nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I am me, nothing more, nothing less

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I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm good a burning food, in fact I'm brilliant at it. There's never a day when the smoke alarm doesn't go off "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

Aww I like this a lot.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I wouldn't say I'm wonderful, but there are ways in which I help people that I try to build on. Also ways I'm not so good that I'm working on improving.

With a few decades' work, I reckon I'll be acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a supportive and caring person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a nice thing to do Rubi.

I'm told that I'm kind,caring,considerate and understanding. That makes me feel good.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"Because I am me, nothing more, nothing less

And from what I’ve discovered already, seems like a very valid reason

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

Well I hope those that think you are, tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

You’re also loyal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

You’re also loyal x"

And hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

You’re also loyal x

And hot!"

Yes true!

I'm also loyal (thank you Estella)

And hot

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

That's just the tip of the iceberg of your wonderfulness

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

Well I hope those that think you are, tell you

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right then, home from work.

So, I'm:

Hard working

My comedic value is priceless

I'm small enough to fit in a suitcase

I care

I'm generous

I don't scrub up too badly

I'm adventurous (within reason)

I'm also sensible (at times)

I have a good set of listening ears

I'm truthful

That's just the tip of the iceberg of your wonderfulness

I didn't want to make everyone else feel inferior with my mass wondefulness, so I'll add modest to my tiny list too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I am wonderful - that's not for me to think - if others think it of me then that in itself is wonderful and tells me I have at least done something right

Well I hope those that think you are, tell you

Thank you

Pfffft, you need to believe it or I'll bust your balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm perfectly happy with myself. And anyone who doesn't like me?

Can do one.

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