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question (poll?) about messaging

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By *iquidator OP   Man
over a year ago

london

If you sent a message to someone and it is left as 'been read' but no reply. Would you prefer if the message was just deleted or are you fine with it in that unsettling status of 'been read'?

So what is it, 'deleted' or 'been read'

Place bets now!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Best thing this site could do is scrap the sent mail box. It does nothing but send people mad. Stop checking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care either way. I only care if they reply or not.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Is not bothered also a choice? If so *not bothered*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to their house and ask when they plan on sending their reply

0% success rate so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at what's happened to sent messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find "been read" but no reply unsettling. It just means they have read the message and are probably not interested. No Point getting in a stew about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I stopped waiting for replies life on Fab was more pleasurable for me. The only time a message not being replied to bothers me is during a conversation about arranging a meeting. When the line goes dead that’s disconcerting as you’re left wondering why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way I'll cry anyway

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I never look at my sent messages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Once you post a message to someone - it's theirs - not yours.

If they wanted to hold on to a letter you sent but hadn't replied to , would you be asking strangers why they had read your letter but not responded ?

Move on ........

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think nothing of it if they read, don't reply but don't delete. I'll assume they're not interested.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I don’t usually check but if I notice a message I sent is unread I delete it my end

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