FabSwingers.com forum: What's so bad about white knights?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men who say something nice or sticking up for a woman are often accused of being white knights - supposedly only being nice in the hope of getting a shag.

Why is that a bad thing? The site is for people looking for a shag.

If someone is having a bad day and someone is nice to them, that's a nice thing. Isn't it?

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Here here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can stick up for myself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!"

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!"

Sharings caring, Miss V

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes we can stick up for ourselves and yes there are some white knights, but not all do it in the hope of getting a “shag”, some do it just because that is their character

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Men who say something nice or sticking up for a woman are often accused of being white knights - supposedly only being nice in the hope of getting a shag.

Why is that a bad thing? The site is for people looking for a shag.

If someone is having a bad day and someone is nice to them, that's a nice thing. Isn't it?

Nowt wrong with it at all. Often people are accused of it when they’re not even hoping for anything in return. I think it’s one of those accusations that say more about the accuser, like those who say snowflake, social justice warrior, gammon or ‘real’ swingers.

Let people interact, we are all relational animals and nice comments such as those labelled as white knighting aren’t hurting anyone (unless to white knight they’re putting/pulling someone else down - that’s not cool).

Great thread OP, you the bestest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things."

Genuine is the key, innit, they don't stick up for dudes in trouble, do they....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

Sharings caring, Miss V"

Exactly!

Just remember lads, after you’ve rode out after her and she turns her back on you because you’re not what she wants, it’s us lot (other ladies of fab) who pick up the pieces!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a merger and acquisition a white knight is indeed very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s nice to be nice "

Exactly. If you can't be nice just FO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just generally a nice guy that puts others before myself not for personal gains it's my nature and I'm very protective like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we can stick up for ourselves and yes there are some white knights, but not all do it in the hope of getting a “shag”, some do it just because that is their character "

Because they are nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s nice to be nice

Exactly. If you can't be nice just FO"

That’s not nice

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

Sharings caring, Miss V

Exactly!

Does that make you white ladies then for doing that?

Just remember lads, after you’ve rode out after her and she turns her back on you because you’re not what she wants, it’s us lot (other ladies of fab) who pick up the pieces!"

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ? "

Can you point to a single example of that? Then we can have a look and decide on a name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ? "

White knightdress?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ?

White knightdress?"

That’s so Kate Bush.

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

"What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ?

White knightdress?"

That works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who say something nice or sticking up for a woman are often accused of being white knights - supposedly only being nice in the hope of getting a shag.

Why is that a bad thing? The site is for people looking for a shag.

If someone is having a bad day and someone is nice to them, that's a nice thing. Isn't it?

They are easy to spot and tend to be sycophants, if it gets them a shag then it works for them, I like to think the women on here are clever enough to see through their motives though

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

Sharings caring, Miss V

Exactly!

Does that make you white ladies then for doing that?

Just remember lads, after you’ve rode out after her and she turns her back on you because you’re not what she wants, it’s us lot (other ladies of fab) who pick up the pieces!"

No. It makes us lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the female equivalent, when a woman sticks up for a man on here ?

Can you point to a single example of that? Then we can have a look and decide on a name.

Women can be Knights too. Equality and all that....

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

Sharings caring, Miss V

Exactly!

Does that make you white ladies then for doing that?

Just remember lads, after you’ve rode out after her and she turns her back on you because you’re not what she wants, it’s us lot (other ladies of fab) who pick up the pieces!

No. It makes us lovely

Yeah well there are many lovely ladies around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things.

Genuine is the key, innit, they don't stick up for dudes in trouble, do they.... "

Nope, they don’t . I have a feeling most white knights look like Micheal Gove for some reason

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

"It is if the buggers spread their white knighting around the ladies equally, instead of concentrating their cock...i mean motives...at one specific lady!

Sharings caring, Miss V

Exactly!

Does that make you white ladies then for doing that?

Just remember lads, after you’ve rode out after her and she turns her back on you because you’re not what she wants, it’s us lot (other ladies of fab) who pick up the pieces!

No. It makes us lovely

Yeah well there are many lovely ladies around here"

Not sycophant just honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ladies on here are more than capable of sticking up for themselves from what I have witnessed, plenty of popcorn moments.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

they are not genuine, shag or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nice to be nice and manners cost nothing

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

*climbs off horse, gets tin opener out of drawer to try and get out of armour*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things.

Genuine is the key, innit, they don't stick up for dudes in trouble, do they....

Nope, they don’t . I have a feeling most white knights look like Micheal Gove for some reason

I stuck up for a man on a thread today. I do look like Michael Gove.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things.

Genuine is the key, innit, they don't stick up for dudes in trouble, do they....

Nope, they don’t . I have a feeling most white knights look like Micheal Gove for some reason

I’d stick up for anyone irrelevant of gender. It’s an online forum. Why not eh...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the ladies on here are more than capable of sticking up for themselves from what I have witnessed, plenty of popcorn moments."

Even the strongest person can have a bad day.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Yes we can stick up for ourselves and yes there are some white knights, but not all do it in the hope of getting a “shag”, some do it just because that is their character

Because they are nice people. "

Precisely

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

More of a silver grey knight here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think white knighting can be distinguished from genuine complimenting easily enough. They are two distinct things.

Genuine is the key, innit, they don't stick up for dudes in trouble, do they....

Nope, they don’t . I have a feeling most white knights look like Micheal Gove for some reason

I’d stick up for anyone irrelevant of gender. It’s an online forum. Why not eh..."

Your not a ‘White Knight ‘ then .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racist innit....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think the issue in general is that it's disingenuous, it's quite patronising and it can be misogynistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only seen 1 female knight Lady Brienne of Tarth and she scares the shit out of me

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