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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why does my face pics make people block me...? You think you’re getting along with someone having good conversations, you build up a bit of trust, send a pic, then block. It’s very demoralising

Anyone else experience the same...??

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Why does my face pics make people block me...? You think you’re getting along with someone having good conversations, you build up a bit of trust, send a pic, then block. It’s very demoralising

Anyone else experience the same...?? "

That's the way it goes on here forget it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 1. They know you

Option 2. You're a munter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easier to block someone than to say ‘I don’t find you attractive’

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's happened to me once, but they didn't block just immediately deleted their profile

Don't let it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people just have this pic in their heads of what you should like related to your messages. Take a big breathe and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't attracted to you, which is ok because no-one is attractive to everyone.

They are too childish to say no thank you so they block. It's a positive thing, you won't waste time meeting them.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No not really....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Option 1. They know you

Option 2. You're a munter "

The brutal truth. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Option 1. They know you

Option 2. You're a munter "

Option 3. You can't be everyones cuppa

Option 4. It might be the messages you send that the pic is attached to

Option 5. You aren't what they're looking for

Option 6. They aren't what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True, maybe I take it personally. It seems harsh.

I’d prefer an honest no thanks, you’re not my type.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is why I like face pics first. No point getting along well with someone you don’t know you’re not going to fancy

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Sometimes the person is plain rude, other times they just have massive and uncontrollably clumsy thumbs but every now and then it’s really because there’s an ugly face attached to a very mediocre penis

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Quite simply because you can't be attractive to everyone.

Don't take it to heart and maybe adopt a policy of sending a pic early on before any rapport (and hopes) has been built.

I'd also suggest perhaps it could be it's not your face that is the issue, maybe they weren't as invested in the conversation as you were or thought they were.

And before you say it, I know it would be polite if they at least told you you weren't for them, rather than just blocking without further word - but some would take that as hurtful, and doing it that way stops either abuse or an endless series of "why don't you find me attractive?" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need thick skin on here , simply move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Option 1. They know you

Option 2. You're a munter "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why, when meeting, I don't get into a conversation without seeing a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just you. It happens to a lot of profiles.

Just think of it as we aren't all to everyone's taste.

An hour ago i was approached by a couple and asked me to meet. The conversation flowed and everything was almost set.

I sent a face pic and the conversation has stopped. So i guess they aren't interested .

Its a common thing, don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good advice guys. I’ve not used the forums before. Seems good.

Seen as I’m a newbie what does OP mean...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had people message me out of the blue just to let me know that they enjoyed my profile, but now that I have face pics up they’ve been put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some good advice guys. I’ve not used the forums before. Seems good.

Seen as I’m a newbie what does OP mean...? "

Original Poster. The one who started the thread.

Welcome to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like a popular subject... I didn’t send one initially for privacy reasons. If I have a good rapport then I will consider sending face pic

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Seems like a popular subject... I didn’t send one initially for privacy reasons. If I have a good rapport then I will consider sending face pic "

And that is where your dilemma begins - wait till you have a rapport and have maybe built some hopes and you face the possibility of being more disappointed than if you had sent one early on.

Ultimately only you can decide OP but ask yourself this is your privacy any more protected whether you send a face pic up front, or after swapping a few messages with a random stranger? I'd venture it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does my face pics make people block me...? You think you’re getting along with someone having good conversations, you build up a bit of trust, send a pic, then block. It’s very demoralising

Anyone else experience the same...?? "

Yeah its happened to me in the past...f**k em lol

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Saves the hassle of messaging them again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha... fuck em... sometimes the best attitude to take...! lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Precisely for this reason I prefer to send and receive a face pic very early on to immediately establish if that attraction is there. Saves time, potential grief and softens any disappointment.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve just had a similar reaction but not to a face pic, but to my location

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We've been blocked after face pics have been sent or their profile has been deleted.

It happens don't worry about it.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Why does my face pics make people block me...? You think you’re getting along with someone having good conversations, you build up a bit of trust, send a pic, then block. It’s very demoralising

Anyone else experience the same...?? "

Every time, without fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I experience the same but they ask to see a ass pic and don’t send theirs back and if I asked them that they haven’t sent theirs back they ignore my messages or block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that person is missing out because of your dick. They probably know you or don’t want to risk it if your nearby by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you are okay hun x

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By *ssex1988Man
over a year ago

essex

I get this quite abit i just figured im an ugly c**t lol. Truth is i just might not float there boat each to there own, there loss.

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