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Are youngsters nowadays more mature?

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Lately have met some youngies 19-23 age group (both sexually and vanilla meets) and find they're more mature and well informed than I think I was at that age. Good convo makes the interaction (and the sex) a lot better. Is that your experience too or have I just gotten lucky?

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By *ecketwaitMan
over a year ago

London/ west midlands

Maybe

Maybe they've always been mature and society tends to forget that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea, us young ones are mature as fuck you poop mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ashton under lyne is currently under the effect of an anomaly, scientists are on their way to investigate the phenomenon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it’s no different from any time gone by, you find all different types of people but you sound like you’ve managed to find something not that common but can be very very hot, younger people with a mature side is spot on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More informed and more enlightened. Won't buy the social bull crap the last gen was fed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon it’s no different from any time gone by, you find all different types of people but you sound like you’ve managed to find something not that common but can be very very hot, younger people with a mature side is spot on for me "

Yeah except for communication technology and access to culture and education. It is very different, the experience of my kids will be completely different to my dads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with you there, for all the pros and benefits of the time we live in I’m sure I’m not the only one who would snap your hand off to change back to days gone by

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve even seen the cemented head in the microwave you are on about lol, god help the future generations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

You're right, the older guys have definitely been more mature at that age...or now...gluing eggs to their heads...

Don't try to slam one generation in favour of another because the honest truth is your generation and the one before you and so forth have done dumbass things. The only difference is now we have social media to document it and share it with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clap my hands but no emoji for that one here, how ironic

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

i've been told from a few people that I am more mature for my age and more informed but I just chalk that down to how I was raised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

Wow..What a sweeping statement to make.

I think you are totally wrong and a bit hypocritical being as you chose to use a "Filter" on a pic on your profile.

All and each generation differs in a whole manner of ways as yours or mine.

Mine did to my older brothers only 10 yrs my senior. His decade of the 80's was all party 8's of skol lager, shit clubs shit (mostly) musi and ,tech, wtf is tech bk then.

I could go on but i dont want to slaughter a generation cos i didnt live it as an adult. Putting everything 70/80's in a whole box and Labelled "fuckin idiots" as you have because they are a younger generation.

ill educated and or ignorance is no reason to say all 19/25 yr olds are all idiotic youtube dog ear wearing, bunny nosed fuckwits? In my opinion..

give the youngers some credit, you may just learn 1 or 2 things..

Net, tech,social or just how accessible sex, porn is does help them

so, after going off track there i'll answer the Q on thread..yes more mature sexually and thoughts wise (emotions,how to and what they want)..

Not all but most.

if we had tools then like nowadays we would all be stud muffin muthafuckers would'nt we?...

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

That’s a bit of a generalisation there not all youngsters are like that. Some actually do have mental health conditions as it better understood now than it was with previous generations. Also not all youngsters are like that yeah you do get the idiots but every generation has that it’s nothing new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately have met some youngies 19-23 age group (both sexually and vanilla meets) and find they're more mature and well informed than I think I was at that age. Good convo makes the interaction (and the sex) a lot better. Is that your experience too or have I just gotten lucky?"

I think as time goes on and society progresses then education gets better. Each generation has been better educated than the last broadly speaking

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

I think there were studies not so long ago that age bracket being more mature, sensible, switched on etc.

I have a niece and nephew that age and it's true .. (to some degree)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately have met some youngies 19-23 age group (both sexually and vanilla meets) and find they're more mature and well informed than I think I was at that age. Good convo makes the interaction (and the sex) a lot better. Is that your experience too or have I just gotten lucky?"

I think the internet is a massive contributing factor to this.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart"

Only if they play at fortnite

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

Only if they play at fortnite "

Game on

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By *orny_Couple22Couple
over a year ago

Worthing

Im 10 years younger than Mr and it doesnt bother us at all we like the age gap we bring so many different things to the table which makes sex even better

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I definately felt older at 11-12 after going abroad with the school football team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

Only if they play at fortnite

Game on"

Let's Squad up! I'll use my fishstick skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're a mixed bag.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

Only if they play at fortnite

Game on

Let's Squad up! I'll use my fishstick skin"

I first read fiststick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

Only if they play at fortnite

Game on

Let's Squad up! I'll use my fishstick skin

I first read fiststick "

My little one laughed and I knew instantly he thought I'd said fish dick

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

Exactly. It's down to the individual. It's a tough age for maturity. When I was 19 I was mentally and emotionally very mature but still looked about 12. Other classmates of mine had full beards by 15 but were like two short planks.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Possibly...but are the more mature younger at heart

Only if they play at fortnite

Game on

Let's Squad up! I'll use my fishstick skin

I first read fiststick

My little one laughed and I knew instantly he thought I'd said fish dick "

Laughing hard here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't think they're more mature. I just think they're mature in different ways.

Looking back to previous generations my dad started work at 14 in 1941, while men just 4 years older than him were fighting WW2. I was pretty much self sufficient at 18 so was Mr N and our son left home a week after his 17th birthday.

Circumstances, life situation and upbringing all play a part.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No I don't think they're more mature. I just think they're mature in different ways.

Looking back to previous generations my dad started work at 14 in 1941, while men just 4 years older than him were fighting WW2. I was pretty much self sufficient at 18 so was Mr N and our son left home a week after his 17th birthday.

Circumstances, life situation and upbringing all play a part."

Some really good point ts there.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"You just got lucky.

You're right, the older guys have definitely been more mature at that age...or now...gluing eggs to their heads...

Don't try to slam one generation in favour of another because the honest truth is your generation and the one before you and so forth have done dumbass things. The only difference is now we have social media to document it and share it with others."

My generation obviously did silly things when younger, but guess what we grew up. Me pointing out that younger people still do stupid stuff and need to grow up a bit is just a statement of fact and not an opinion. Like you said my generation was the same, so was the previous. It's getting worse too, my generation was worse when younger than the previous, and this one is worse than we were.

Will they grow up into proper people, sure, but this thread isnt about that, its about them when they are still young, ie... for the most part idiots.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"That’s a bit of a generalisation there not all youngsters are like that. Some actually do have mental health conditions as it better understood now than it was with previous generations. Also not all youngsters are like that yeah you do get the idiots but every generation has that it’s nothing new. "

Look, every generation goes through phases they "grow out of", like the 60s generation grew out of being hippys etc.

The question was, are younger people now more mature than previous generations were when they were younger, and the answer is no, not by a long shot.

Does this mean they will grow up into stupid adults? no, they will grow up into normal adults.

So no need to get defensive about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can be.

Some aren’t.

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

LOL !!! Well I guess I did get lucky. Not saying older blokes aren't any less sexy and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did they turn up eating dish washer tablets?

They are a bunch of fucking idiots, who think poping xanax for anxiety is cool. Their favourite youtube channels cement microwaves on their head, and their profile photos are them with snap chat filters with dog ears and cartoon tongues.

You just got lucky."

You sound rather bitter.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not sure about more mature - as this probably requires exposure to achieve, as well as a correspondent maturing of their brains - which continues after teenage years.

The site self-selects people, with those who are less suited, more likely to give up and leave - this probably means that those who are sexually confident, perhaps more mature than average and have other qualities that those of us who aren't just a few weeks out of our teenage years, do appreciate in others.

Away from sex, younger people are exposed to a different life than most of us were, where certainly issues of the environment are highly critical and will affect them for more of their lives than ours. They also have different employment and housing prospects too.

As a student spending most of my time with people who are 18 to early 20s, I am impressed with most of them and happy to shag quite a few too

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