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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry.

In the immediate term, the Samaritans are brilliant for this sort of thing. Really and truly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a virtual hug, depression is a lonely place. I understand totally. Ive had to learn to just ride the storm until it passes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry.

In the immediate term, the Samaritans are brilliant for this sort of thing. Really and truly. "

If you haven't already I'd recommend speaking to your doctor and seeing if they can offer you some support and maybe a person to speak too? Also, Omegle can be great if you want a chat with a random stranger to get some things off your chest. You can put depression as an interest and it will connect you with other people.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x "

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

I know how depression feels as I've suffered from it since my early 20s

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been there too. Can only say it can get better little by little. Don't mourn those not there, just appreciate those friends or family you have and know there are a billion friends yet to meet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not alone!

It's so good you've reached out!

Try to remind yourself that this feeling won't last forever. It will pass and you will feel better. Have a soak in the bath, distract yourself with something, TV, book, anything.

Breathe and just keep on keeping on.

Hope you feel better soon! And if you need a friendly ear, my inbox has a comfy armchair and a brew waiting for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending emergency tea and pasty supplies! If I could give you a great big hug and a lint of sweet scrumpy I would, it's a lonely place and from speaking to friends I may be more affected by it than I admit... so I kind of understand, happy to sit and listen anyway bope you start to feel more lively soon OP

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just wanted to send you a cyber hug and lots of and understanding.

Take care of yourself.

Jo.Xx

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I can 100% relate to how you are feeling. I have some people around me but feeling lonelier everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been getting depressed lately and although everyday struggles has a lot to do with it , I found that mine is also the menopause I’m not sure if you’re getting help from your Gp but I saw mine and have started a 3 month trial of Hrt I’m only on day 3 but already feel a bit happier . Hope you get the help you need x

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

Fire.... Depression is horrible and as much as my words mean little, I hope you find something to attach your feelings to that make you feel better in the shirt, medium and long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be lonely folks. I personally think the internet helps a bit, but we all need to actually see others for real. Don't be afraid, speak to strangers (we are adults of course). X

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"I'm sorry.

In the immediate term, the Samaritans are brilliant for this sort of thing. Really and truly. "

Thankyou have been in touch with them x storm x

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Fire.... Depression is horrible and as much as my words mean little, I hope you find something to attach your feelings to that make you feel better in the shirt, medium and long term "

Thankyou for your kind words x storm x

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"I can 100% relate to how you are feeling. I have some people around me but feeling lonelier everyday.

"

That's how I feel it's hard to explain, even with people around me I am lonely x storm x

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"I just wanted to send you a cyber hug and lots of and understanding.

Take care of yourself.

Jo.Xx "

Thankyou x storm x

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By *orny24Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Bless you and believe me you are not alone I myself am struggling to cope with certain things,

Surround yourself with people who care, talking to someone is the first step, it’s not a bad thing to reach out to someone you will be surprised how much this can help

Take care and I really hope you find positivity very soon, onwards and upwards

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X"

Just reading this has made my cry.

How soothing that would be even at my age to be loved.

Thankyou so very much x storm x

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Thank you to everyone on this forum, I have never meet you but you have helped me so much by your kind words x storm x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X

Just reading this has made my cry.

How soothing that would be even at my age to be loved.

Thankyou so very much x storm x"

I have to admit, I shed a little tear typing it as I’m feeling quite low currently too. I mean though. You’re really important and valuable. X

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

*meant it though. (Sorry, can’t type well currently)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depression can catch you sometimes when you least expect it. When I feel myself feeling a little low I try and be extra selfish!!

I know what ypu mean about feeling lonely, even if you have a partner. May I ask what you think the trigger was? X

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Looks like a multiple hug is called for here.

It’s a horrible, dark feeling that can close in if you let it. Accept that the feelings are real, nothing to be ashamed of but that you will feel better, it will happen.

Hugs to my Fab friends xx

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Find someone, not even someone you know, for a chat.

Most places have drop in centers where you can just go and talk with people.

If you lived local to me (Stockport) then I always have an "open door" for meets and hugs, with walks thru some local woods or even around a golf course whilst having a chat.

This goes for anyone, if you want to have a natter, feel free to contact me, and I will try my best to free up some time for you for a chat and a walk.

(Not trained or anything, so can only offer time, ears, hugs and walks)

Depression is a killer, so find someone to help!

(I have my alexa set to remind me what made me smile today, I find that helps)

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X

Just reading this has made my cry.

How soothing that would be even at my age to be loved.

Thankyou so very much x storm x

I have to admit, I shed a little tear typing it as I’m feeling quite low currently too. I mean though. You’re really important and valuable. X"

Tonight I wish I was nearer to you,i will offer all your good advice back to you and send you lots of love and hugs and tonight as I settle to sleep I will send you virtual hair strokes and read us both a story x storm x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X

Just reading this has made my cry.

How soothing that would be even at my age to be loved.

Thankyou so very much x storm x

I have to admit, I shed a little tear typing it as I’m feeling quite low currently too. I mean though. You’re really important and valuable. X

Tonight I wish I was nearer to you,i will offer all your good advice back to you and send you lots of love and hugs and tonight as I settle to sleep I will send you virtual hair strokes and read us both a story x storm x"

Thanks storm, we’ll get through and be all the stronger for it.

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By *lucard5Man
over a year ago

kerry capital

I'm so sorry. Take something positive from the support you've got from caring people here. Thing is if we weren't affected at some stage ourselves, we wouldn't understand. Everyone cares about you.

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry

I just want to say thank you to everyone, I have never meet any of you but the love and support I have received from you tonight on the forum and personnel messages have brought me a lot of comfort ,

You are amazing people x storm x

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By *irestorm 500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x

I can relate. If I was there right now I’d hold you in a big cuddle, stroke your hair and read you a story. Please know that this feeling you have, will pass. You aren’t alone. We’re here on the forum, and there’s people who know you, and many who are yet to know you who will be about and there for you. Most importantly you are there for you. Just be gentle with yourself, have a cry, eat something nice, listen to some music or watch a film or put on an audio book. Have a nap. You’re human, and you’re very much worthwhile and important.

Sending you love. X

Just reading this has made my cry.

How soothing that would be even at my age to be loved.

Thankyou so very much x storm x

I have to admit, I shed a little tear typing it as I’m feeling quite low currently too. I mean though. You’re really important and valuable. X

Tonight I wish I was nearer to you,i will offer all your good advice back to you and send you lots of love and hugs and tonight as I settle to sleep I will send you virtual hair strokes and read us both a story x storm x

Thanks storm, we’ll get through and be all the stronger for it. "

Together we will xx storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate x

I'm sending you big hugs and my inbox is always open if you ever need a chat xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

* Group hug please guys *

I hope you find a way to overcome your low feeling. It’s a horrible place to be. I go to the gym when I’m stressed and the little things in life just get in the way

Big hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We support you as much as it is possible here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you can see, you are far from alone in how you feel.

When you are at your lowest the only way you can go is up.

I sometimes get a big black cloud that descends from nowhere and consumes me. It does clear. I taken up walking and when I feel low it really helps.

I hope you're feeling better soon.

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By *earded GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x "

Hey not sure if it's a comfort or a scare off for you but i work with mental health and disability and have allot of experience helping people who are suffering and feeling depressed , if you want somone to chat to feel free to inbox me , this isnt some weird pick up line, I'm always happy to help people out. try to remember there is always somone you can talk to wether a friend or family or sometimes in the strangest places like fab Haha. Hope you are ok mate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too often feel very lonely, I have no children and my mum lives miles away. I have close friends, but try not to burden them with my problems, even though I know they understand. Everything will be okay Op and you are no different to a lot of people who often feel like you do, you are not to blame feeling the way you do. If you need to chat, please don't hesitate to message me xx

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Ive suffered from depression all my life and it can be a up hill struggle to get back from that black hole but finally a few years ago the doctors put me on a new antidepressant and it works ,your not alone xx

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"All I need at the moment is someone to put their arms around and hold me as I cry,But I'm here on my own crying as I write this and I realise how very lonely my life is.

Sorry I just have no where to turn too and I just needed some comfort xx

X storm x "

I've been there too, so understand what you are going through.

It happened a few years ago, but only really got the help I needed late last year.

You aren't far from me, so I'd recommend an organisation within the regional NHS, accessible via your GP, called I.A.P.T., with various centres across the county.

But if you ever need that shoulder to lean on, I along with so many on here, are with you!

Loads of hugs, and good wishes.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hugs storm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alliance or Minds, There's a waiting list for counciling but it's worth the wait. They do great work.

It's scary how common this is...I don't know the situation which has made you feel this way, but it does get better. It's only temporary. Best of luck and stay positive.

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