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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is there a fine line between a bloke being attentive and being full on in your face?

I was accused the other day of being FULL ON. I just thought I was being polite!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is a fine line and someone being too full on could be off putting. However it will vary from person to person (men could find it a turn off too) so best to try and read the signs if you can. Also, in a group situation, try and share the attention out as equally as you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what the lady wants! Some ladies want one offs with no further contact and others like more social interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?"

It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

There is a line but more to the point it's a line which will move around to here, there and everywhere, rather than being a fine one...... depending on how much the woman fancies you.

If you say "hello" to a woman and she says you are being 'full on' it means she thinks you are a fuck pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?"

She probably wants to see someone else, it can be off putting when someone seems too keen, maybe she thinks you should be looking for someone else to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people, if they like and hit off with someone, they can chat for hours, and make each other feel at ease without much efforts.

However, if they do not like someone, a "Hello, how are you?" via PM would be considered as an irritation.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's also the issue of attraction.

If she's equally attracted to you then there won't be a problem. But if you're more attracted to her than she is to you then, this is when 'too attentive' can be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?

It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers. "

Dead right there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think full on to me is when you log on here you get a message and you get bombarded with meet requests.

i know the person is eager to meet but sometimes a message after a message sounds full on and can be a bit desperate

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sitting in a car outside their house with binoculars and a listening device.... more needy, than full on attentive.

works for both sexes......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"sitting in a car outside their house with binoculars and a listening device.... more needy, than full on attentive.

works for both sexes......"

If that's your attitude View , I'll leave. Nice curtains btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sitting in a car outside their house with binoculars and a listening device.... more needy, than full on attentive.

works for both sexes......

If that's your attitude View , I'll leave. Nice curtains btw x"

Oh good. I can park my car in Grannys space now coz it's cold in these bushes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase that comes to mind is the two words that are regularly put together but are the two words that so dont go together

They are womens logic xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"The phrase that comes to mind is the two words that are regularly put together but are the two words that so dont go together

They are womens logic xx"

That's because I have it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, hyperthetically, if i spend and evening with a lady, drinks dinner sex etc etc. We swap numbers, have coffee next day, then i message here just saying hi a day or so later. What is that classed as?

It's classed as misreading what she actually wanted without telling you. Women do that. They're wierd fookers. "

Yeah, I do that, but I am not wierd when I fook.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Full on= intense or just a giddy kipper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clingy

I dislike anyone that puts kisses at the end of every line, as per facebook, IM, texts. You don't kiss someone after every sentence in real life so why online????

Love to all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there a fine line between a bloke being attentive and being full on in your face?

I was accused the other day of being FULL ON. I just thought I was being polite!! "

I wouldn't say a fine line as you get the irritating stage inbetween the 2.

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